erlain:
I'm pretty sure my first girlfriend was a bit of a feeder. Subtle things, like always recommending food to me, ordering "too many" extra appetizers at restaurants, and literally always had warm fresh cookies for me when I went to her house (and I was hidden from her mom bc of homophbia, so they were definitely for me). I was also a lot larger at the time and she was totally gaga over my body. I didn't fully understand it til later but there you go.
At the time, were you kind of freaked out?
6 years
Andy123:
Yeah, I witnessed such a lovely couple long before I learnt the words "feedee" and "feeder". I was on a 2-week vacation at the seaside, and noticed them at the beach (they were hanging around the spot I preferred to lie at all the time during my vacation). The guy was just ordinary skinny, but the girl immediately drew my attention, as she was literally bursting out of her small bikini. She had a figure typical of a upper-medium sized feedee: round, chubby bum, wide hips, huge love handles, two pairs of back rolls and a luscious fat belly. She did not look huge or obese, but more of a very well-fed. Nevertheless, her body was so soft and plump that you mostly noticed only her fat sticking out and hanging everywhere, her chubby rolls, folds and wobbles. She was jiggling her chub all over when walking. Anyway, I was surprised how they liked each other, always cuddling and necking while in the water. And in the evening, I sometimes spotted the girl at dinner in the hotel getting herself more and more cakes. It even seemed that she had grown her belly a little bit after 2 weeks, and I feel jealous when remembering them even now)
Cool. I like to hear stories like this.
6 years
Has anyone here found themselves encouraging another to eat more or perhaps telling a person that he/she were not fat so that they would not attempt to lose weight?
6 years
saturn52:
If you want to avoid carbohydrates more and you have a pretty sedentary lifestyle, a diet high in protein could be good. Protein in your body is used to rebuild damaged tissue from exercise, but if it has nothing to repair it drops a nitrogen and turns to straight fat.
Also going off of what Leener said, check out the glycemic index. The lower the number on the chart, the less energy it takes for your body to turn that sugar into energy, and if that energy goes unused, it gets stored ;-)
Thank you. That was very helpful
6 years
Many years ago, I saw a couple in which the guy was very fat and the girl was very pretty and slim. I was happy to see this arrangement as I had originally saw American women who were pretty and slim as vain and cruel. I realize that my idea was very one sided and stereotypical. However, I was a bitter nerd who was dominated by my emotions. This young woman was very kind. I thought they made a great couple. I to this day think that she may have been a feeder because I would always see her order something for him that had a high caloric content. Have you ever met someone who you were almost certain was a feeder or feedee?
6 years
leener38:
No, not really. Gaining is all about caloric intake, meaning eating more than your body needs. Laziness also helps.
Everything has some sort of sugar; fruits and vegetables have it naturally. Starches (potatoes, rice) can turn into sugar. There are good and bad carbs, too. Empty calories are the easiest way to flab, but nice home cooked meals work best for me. Our bodies are amazing machines, so you'll have to take a different approach to food if you want to gain. Finding a balance in your increased food intake will help.
Thank you
6 years
leener38:
No, not really. Gaining is all about caloric intake, meaning eating more than your body needs. Laziness also helps. Thank you
Everything has some sort of sugar; fruits and vegetables have it naturally. Starches (potatoes, rice) can turn into sugar. There are good and bad carbs, too. Empty calories are the easiest way to flab, but nice home cooked meals work best for me. Our bodies are amazing machines, so you'll have to take a different approach to food if you want to gain. Finding a balance in your increased food intake will help.
6 years
Quick question: would like to add about 20 pounds. Can this be achieved without sugar or carbs? Losing weight is not the direction that I need to go in.
6 years
AskDrFeeder:
I had one when I was very young, maybe 5 or 6. About a kid overeating and getting fat.
Throughout the years, I've had many variants of dreams that were focused on weight where I was in very bizarre situations.
6 years
