Anguished about my colonoscopy.

Stockylove:
wow, I have a colonoscopy on Thursday morning, and I know that there is a good chance that it will go well, but I can't help but be anxious and anguished despite this, lol 😁

Have you had a colonoscopy in the past?
How did it go?

Letters And Numbers:
Are you worried about the prep or the actual procedure?

Stockylove:
The procedure, I hope I don't wake up during the operation, because I know it's happened to people. I'm also worried about the outcome, I hope I don't have colon cancer.


You'll be fine. The worst thing about a colonoscopy is the prep. If you aren't worried about the prep, then there is no need to worry about the procedure.

It is highly unlikely you will wake up during the procedure. Such things are very rare since the anesthesiologist have been doing this for years. People that wake up during procedures tend to be more resistant to the medication. And even then that's rare because the anesthesiologist accounts for this.

That said, I hope you get a clean bill of health.
7 months

What can i expect from a feeder as gainer?

CelticBlimp:
In my experience, most feeders talk a big game, but when it comes to the moment of truth suddenly it's silence or stuttering. Grommr is full of unreliable feeders and begging gainers, and most of the interactions I get are "big belly" and nothing beyond that, it's honestly disheartening. I can only speak about gay/mlm sites, but I guess it's the same everywhere else.


Seems like it. I've never been on Grommr for obvious reasons (Are there women on Grommr? Like lesbians?) but I have talked to a lot of guys who have accounts on there. Of course there are some differences, but not nearly as many as I expected.
7 months

Story searches

Buffetlover:
Go to bbwwikistories it's on there along with alot of other stories from dimensions


Learning things.

Also, some stories were cross posted onto FF or DA. For example, FANedFox is pretty prolific to this day.
7 months

What can i expect from a feeder as gainer?

FAMGM:
I’ve never had much time for so called feeders. For the most part they obviously only contact you when they are horny.

The best interactions I’ve had are with mutual gainers. They understand what is involved, and they are much less transactional.


This makes sense. I've spoken to many feeders. Many of them do not understand the other side of things, nor do they care to understand. They also expect your average feedee/gainer to enjoy what only niche feedists enjoy.
7 months

What can i expect from a feeder as gainer?

CelticBlimp:
This is a frustrated rant, but I do believe this is a good question.

As I gainer I've never had any experience with a feeder, not in person nor online, so my expectations come from what I see others tell about their own experiences. In a way we're sacrificing our bodies, health, mobility, clothes, furniture, job possibilities and social relations. All for a body size we find desirable, yet also making life harder. Is it unfair to expect a feeder's job has to reflect that sacrifice we make? They face monetary loss, that's true, but if I break up with my partner after he fattened me, he walks away with less money, but with his mobility and health intact, while I have to deal with the downfall of not having access to many jobs, fitting clothes or an outside life.
I say all this because in every conversation I had with a feeder the focus has been on what I have to do, what I have to eat, what I have to buy. Some time ago a feeder said that he would care and fatten me, that we would get a disability pension to expend on my gains. And it clicked, that way he didn't loose anything, but I did. He would gain sexual pleasure from fattening me and taking advantage of what I had, but he wouldn't give anything. I'm giving my body to you, but you won't even reflect that? What is the fairest exchange I can expect from a feeder in this regard? On my current weight and without intentionally gaining I don't expect anything from anyone but the basic respect and dignity as the humans we are, yet if making me fatter is the conversation, can I expect from my feeder that his material input reflects what I'm both giving him and giving up?


As a feeder myself, you ain't tell not a damned lie.

Most of the feeders in this community ain't shit. It's all about finding a sentient ball of fat to fool around with until they get bored.

A good feeder prioritizes their feedees' needs over their own wants. The specific dynamic can vary (for example, most heterosexual male feedees do not want female feeders buying them food), but the feeder needs to be a solid support system.

For example, when my current feedee and I got together, he made it clear that he wanted to get as fat as possible while still being mobile. So, my job was to be his cheerleader and guardrail. I fed, encouraged, and celebrated him while ensuring he never went too far.

Again, every dynamic is going to be different. But if you can't make things safe and pleasant for your feedee, what are you even doing?
7 months

Would you change what you eat f the foods you like gave you acne ?

MickRidem:
Milk and cream for me, generally. I'm trying the heavy cream for a while to see what happens, and already I'm noticing it. And I'm too old for this! 🤣

But I'm willing to temporarily sacrifice my extreme handsomeness for a little progress. 😆


If milk and cream break you out, that might not be acne. Those might be hives.
7 months

I want to eat messy tacos

Tinygirlfoodie:
want to buy them for me?


Lol, no. You are a grown-ass woman. You can buy or make your own tacos. If not, then either get a job or learn to cook.

I'd be embarrassed to admit to being so useless. If I can do it, so can you. Tacos aren't even expensive.
7 months

I want to eat messy tacos

Tinygirlfoodie:
I want some messy tacos soooo bad


Go buy/make the tacos and achieve your dreams.
7 months

I'm just looking or anyone to talk on here

Fattoo:
Fair and well.
You come across repulsive about a topic I'd expect desirable for someone wanting to fatten up.
Also applying yourself as you mentioned, shows you are a non conforming member and wanna be righteous know it all. Your advices reveal your acting as a moderator / interceptor to topics you are against. Rather than indulge in fair rationality. To make someone's new post and a new member sound preposterous instead of fine tuning what is interesting about food and getting fat. Respecting those who take the time to share their experiences and thoughts. Instead of giving them a wise ass warning. I would not want a girl like you, that doesn't enjoy my pleasures.
This site is here to revel in the fetish of food and the people who eat it.
You made yourself sound like a person who just eats to live, instead of a person who lives to eat. Your 168lbs isn't even fat yet to enjoy it. Where is your loving the fattening that comes with trying new ways to fatten up?
Maybe you could send me some recipes you find either delicious or for just getting in those extra calories at the end of the day without needing much time to prepare.. That would be nice of you, and a better way to respond.

Weetabix:
Well said. Your points are well reasoned and evidenced where as Muchies cannot link us to the posts they said existed here. Instead Muchies insinuates that anyone who does not blindly agree with their advice is an idiot.




Bless your heart, but you tried.

Let's not forget the last time we got into it, the mods sided with me because I was right.

That's all it comes down to. I know what I am talking about. Not because I'm so amazing or smart, but because I take the time to listen and learn.

And I did link the posts. If you got to the first page on the thread, there it is. How are you going to lie on me when the evidence it right there?

Bless your heart, but you tried. It's cute that I'm on your mind so much. Sure, I post a lot, but you go out of your way to try to antagonize me specifically - something that has gotten you banned before. That must have pissed you off. The only person that thinks about me more than you is my partner.



You're adorable.
7 months

Boyfriend says he is getting fat

Delta9:
How is he measuring his bodyfat? There are a lot of ways to measure and most of them aren't very accurate.
Basically, if you look fat, you're fat. If you have visible muscle definition, you're not. Maybe suggest he try a different type of measurement.
Also, a lot of people obsess over percentage numbers. Just like they do over weight. Only thing is weight is objectively much easier to measure.


There are a lot of various tests. That said, if you want to go from 20% body fat to 15%, it's not an issue of being fat. It's more about improving your body definition.

Here are some examples of what men might look like with various body fat percentages.



As you can see, 20% body fat isn't fat, but 15% body fat isn't necessarily thin either.
7 months