I stopped wrestling in college and my weight just started ballooning I tried dieting and rigorous exercise like I had done keeping myself below 140 but could never keep weight off so I bounced around for YEARS until the pandemic and that’s when I hit 300 and I was broken about it tried a bunch of diets stuff I’d never thought I’d have to do. When it all failed again that’s when I found there were people who allowed themselves to eat and be happy indulging and didn’t care or accepted themselves as fat? This was thrilling to me. That’s when I found feedism and knew I wanted to be bigger, and bigger I’ve gotten
2 years
I am the fattest person in my extended family by quite a lot, growing up cousins and uncles were bigger but not obese with the exception of one of my cousin’s husband he’s over 300 I’d imagine he’s always been fat. he is one of the few people who’ve made comments about my weight in the past kinda funny looking back that was before I wanted to be
2 years
It also doesn’t help that a ton of the worlds fertilizer comes from Russia and they’ve been under sanction for the better part of two years. Fertilizer has gotten really expensive as a result.
2 years
complaining about how fat they’re getting without doing anything about it
Words have never been spoken truer. Who needs Dieting and strict exercise when there’s jelly donut bun cheeseburgers
2 years
Most people don’t associate food and fat/gaining weight with sexuality, that is our thing as feedists, it’s the thing that makes us feedists. That awkwardness you are feeling is you in your relation to food/fat/gaining, most people think oh they’re just hungry or whatever
2 years
Kunto:
Great result! Too bad you didn't reach 10.000 calories only that evening! Ever tried to do 20.000 in a day?
can’t say I have for sure but I don’t really count calories I just eat until I’m stuffed most of the time
2 years
I experience being big in public every time I go in public.
I’m not as quick as I used to be so if I cross in front of a car I’m sure they roll their eyes as I do the quick arm movements like I’m running, or if I’m ordering food and it’s not justa meal I’m sure their laughing at me
2 years
Munchies:Gonna push back on there being fewer women who like fat guys.
www.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guyswww.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guyswww.fatherly.com/health/romantic-advantages-for-fat-guysAnd this is just the mainstream side of things.
As for the kinky side of things, your average female feeder/FA isn't going to be out in the open like I am. Either she'll lurk online or she'll take it irl. Of course, irl can be very tricky. Can't tell you how many times I've crossed paths with a fat cutie only to be friend-zoned because they refuse to believe a conventionally attractive woman would ever be interested in them.
It's rather sad.
I will agree that it is vital to the community to have more diversity. It's gotten better in some regards, but more work needs to be done.
Morbidly A Beast:I mean strictly in the context of men viewing and engaging in content of this nature online compared to their female counterparts. Granted there is just less content of that nature online just in general.
And it’s understandable why women are less vocal in these spaces cuz creeps and weirdos.
Munchies:Ah. That makes more sense. Yes, I will agree with you on that.
Besides, women generally gravitate to erotica over any other sexual outlet. And if you want decent erotica, most women will go to places like DA or AO3 before we go to FF. Why? Because the bulk of the stories on FF are centered on the male gaze. DA and AO3 have more variety - with 70 - 80% of the writers on AO3 being female.
What is AO3?
Is it the intimacy and being able to put yourselves into the scene that drive you towards eroticism?
2 years
I mean strictly in the context of men viewing and engaging in content of this nature online compared to their female counterparts. Granted there is just less content of that nature online just in general.
And it’s understandable why women are less vocal in these spaces cuz creeps and weirdos.
2 years
Male sexuality drives markets, so imo its supply and demand that drives the discrepancy between female fa/feeder. There’s simply less women who like fat guys then there are men who are fa/feeders.
Where it doesn’t make sense is in our own spaces. Like it should be a given that there are feedees and feeders of all types.
2 years
