A little bit of input through a story on my end: Kind of long just trying to get it all down!

I have always loved fuller figure/curvy girls and women. I also am very into them gaining weight especially my wife. As the years have gone on I desire more weight and fat on there figures. My wife is very aware that I like fuller figures(Fat)on women although I don't think she would imagine me loving her at 300+ Lbs. which I absolutly dream of and would love.

She happens to be a very curvy hour glass/pear figure @ 5' 3" with big round breasts, when she gains a good amount of weight she turns more into a full pearish figure with huge hips/thighs and a big lower belly along with big breasts and fat upper arms but her back doesn't get much bigger. Currently she is around 155 Lbs. At her heaviest she was just over 200 Lbs. She looked amazing at her heaviest in my eyes. I actually have dreams of her fattening up and getting really big.

Here's where I think I can relate to your post and possibly shed some light. I don't really discuss gaining with her anymore because she gets bugged and it puts her in a bad mood. She was chubby and heavier as a kid and always thinks of herself as being fat even though I think she is skinny and I tell her that. I never bring up or discuss her gaining weight anymore, I just kind of realish in the times where she starts piggin out a little more and I can see her gaining weight. These times seem to get fewer and fewer these days and she tends to look skinnier in my eyes because my interest in fat on her and in general has gone up over the years, like I said previously.

So there has been several times over the last couple years where all of a sudden I felt hungrier all the time and was eating fast foods, drinking lots of soda etc. and my appetite seemed to really increase. All of a sudden I noticed my pants were tighter, my t-shirts started really being tight on my belly and I became really turned on. I was so turned on something switched in me and all I wanted to do is pig out on fattening things and constantly have my gut bulging out and to see how fat and big I could get.

Now my wife mentioned to me a long time ago when we were dating and it has kind of stuck, that she was disgusted by guys with big asses. I don't have a big ass not even that big when I was ever at my heaviest but she has also alluded to liking a more cut look on guys back in the day. Ever since she has known me I have been pretty mucsular and at times somewhat cut up but not totally cut up and at other times when I am lifting heavy I get pretty big and muscular with a little belly and a thicker layer of fat all over. She has never really commented other than when I am to big muscularly and she has also commented in a positive way a bit when I am thinner and more cut up. Don't get me wrong if she told me she would get nice and fat for me if I dieted down and get as cut up for her if that would excite her.

The reason I feel through these few times where I was interested in myself gaining was because of the lack of fattening that I was seeing on her, a very long "dry spell" if you will. I was acting out in some way to get this fix entered into the relationship and marriage. I so much want to have Gaining entered into my marriage that I was getting the fix through myself gaining.

So, back to getting this out in the open with your girl like the other post mentioned you could do all sorts of things just to see a reaction. I tried several which were actually really kind of exciting from the whole weight gain perspective.

I made a point of eating way more in front of my wife it was kind of easy because my appetite was huge. I would ask for seconds after she already prepared me a pretty good size portion for dinner especially if it was a heavy fattening dinner such as Lasagna. A few times I even asked for thirds just trying to get a reaction out of her, It was a struggle trying to finish the plate and still I didn't get a reaction out of her. What gives she didn't even comment, surely she can see how much bigger I am and now I have eaten a whole have baked pan of Lasagna to myself. To top it off the next night for dinner She gave me the hugest portion of chicken and Pasta and mashed potatoes the plate was literly overflowing and it was an oversized plate. Could it be she wants me fat and she is going to "feed me fat". I was so turned on thinking this way.

I was clearly gaining more weight she didn't mention a thing, I could not fit into any of my dress slacks which rnaged from 34-36" I had to where some more casual Kakhis to work now that I had from when I was bigger, they were a size 40" and they fit pretty good not to big actually sized up perfect. My belly looked big and full all the time now not just when I was stuffed.

I tried several more things to get some sort of a reaction out of her. I was almost wanting and waiting for her to comment and mention my gain. I so much wanted to hear out of her mouth for some reason, "Wow" "someone is starting to get pretty porky"! I was actually dreaming of this moment and thinking of how it would make me feel. Almost like a soft patting and rubbing on my new fat belly when I least expected it in a teasing way.

So I decided to make sure when I was kissing her good bye in the morning before I left for work to really have my newly big distended belly squish into to her while I held her for that kiss. It was completly obvious to me it was kind of difficult to move into her lips with my belly getting in the way but i jus slowly squished it right into her and locked lips for a bit onger than usual so she cold really feel all of me. She mentioned nothing all day.

I was determied to get her to say something. She has to have noticed I have gained almost 20 Lbs. and almost all of it into my belly. I had it planned out for tonight, I was not going to eat much at lunch being that my appetite started slowing down a bit I was going to save up and try and eat thirds at dinner tonight followed with an obnoxious amount of ice cream directly following to have my belly so huge and full with that lone she would have to comment on my eating so much plus all the fattening ice cream. My back up plan if that was not enough to get a comment out of her was to Take a shower after dinner and change into a pair of boxers that dont fit anymore and a smaller t-shirt which most of them all were now.

Dinner and desert were done and I had never felt so full and sick to my stomach from eating as this night. While I was in the shower Gently massaged my huge distended gut to try and comfort it, I was amazed at how big and full it was. After I got out to my surprise I didnt even have to find a smaller t-shirt I jst grabbed an all white one that was slightly shorter and it not onlu hugged my huge gut but was skin tight around my newly formed love handles and back it rose up in the front with ease when i sat down not to mention starined even that much more aroung my huge belly when sitting. I could tell for the first time when sitting with my regular boxers on that my thighs beefed up as well,the boxers were skin tight when they rose up on my thighs. I should not have had to do much for her to notice how fat I have gotten other than sit there on the couch with her and my t-shirt squeezing every square inch of my new huge gut along with it riding up and seeing my lower belly. After several hours of watching TV she said she was going to go to bed, I said me to so we stood up and I walked a couple steps and pulled her in for a kiss which I strained to get to her lips with mine because of my huge gut that was equivalent to a nine month pregnancy belly that evening.

Through all this she did not mention anything. So, depending on how your girl is and how open she is comunicating with you, you might want to ask her rather than leaving it up to not so subtle hints. My wife on the other hand is very to herself but to this day I still can't believe she said nothing. Part of me wants to believe she changed her mind and wants me to get fat for her. Then when I wake up and if I actually asked her about it now, she would probably say something like, "I didn't now you wanted me to tell you you are turning into a *** because that's the last thing I want someone is to tell me when I gain a lot of weight, when I already know I am eating like a pig and to getting fat"

Tough to figure out the exact way to go about it!

I assume he is pretty young and just starting his career, right? I actually had a similar experience with my weight gain.....played football in college as well as worked out and could never gain any bulk....always cut up lean muscle.

After I graduated and started a desk job my eating habits were mostly based on proteins and tons of carbs like usual in which I overloaded to try and keep my weight from decreasing. Over several years without myself really knowing I put on a considerable amount of weight (Fat belly as well as my muscles bulked up all of a sudden.....my body totally changed).

Not sure if my metabolism changed or the fact that I had a desk job with no more sports and a girlfriend who I lived with, also fat & overweight who was a great cook.

So, maybe just try cooking him tons of starch and carbohydrates for dinner and always eat with him and he will probably start getting a pretty fat belly. Not sure if you are into gaining weight yourself but during the time I got fat (which I have always been an FA and into weight gain on women) my girlfriend gained a lot with me at the same time and it was such a great mutual gaining experience.

Let me know some more details maybe I can shed some mor input to your question.

So, if you were into the lifestyle before do you think you would like your weight currently if you found someone else who appreciated it on you and you as a whole?

Possibly it is just a frustration now that you have divorced him and it's trigerring negative memories.

What did you like about the lifestyle before? Did it give you sexual satisfaction or were you completely only into for him?

Kind of long but may be some first hand insight -

I was in an accidental "Mutual Gaining" relationship a while back. I always loved my girlfriend gaining and fattening up which she did with relative ease but for the first time in my life I actually gained a lot of weight and didn't even notice. That is until one day my girlfriend mentioned that we both possibly go on a diet. It was such an incredible turn on hearing that come out of her mouth as if I was fat or something but at the same time very weird because I have never been able to gain any weight before in my life and now my beautiful fat girlfriend was aluding to the fact she thought I was fat. We both discussed it for a bit me in denial and she explained to me that I was now kind of fat and we decided to go on eating like pigs and gaining more together.

I was fine with her fattening up to huge perportions but she thought I would look best with only a bit bigger belly.

It was probably the most exciting time in my life with regard to weight gain fetish. We both consumed huge portions of food and desserts together and our appetites were immense not to mention our growing figures our closeness and love was at an alltime high as well as our sexual interests with our bodies. It was so exciting to watch her eat and eat and eat even more than myself....and believe me I could consume some huge amounts of food during that time... and grow out of her clothes not to mention when we would make love feeling our bodies struggle to get close because of our huge bellies sticking out and squishing against one another and pushing us away from each other. It was unbelievable when we were together but when we were apart I was insecure for the first time in my life and felt embarrassed always being the athletic jock type guy and now being soft and fat and less masculine "I felt". Her friends would even tease both of us together in a fun way....Like calling us the newly fat married couple... but I had never felt this before and while it was a turn on at times I felt insecure other times. Also never experiencing before the fact of getting ready to go out for a dinner with some couples friends and realizing after putting on my biggest pair of jeans that I couldn't even come close to buttoning up and having to make a last minute switch to some dress slacks that as I was putting them on noticed they didn't fasten either and I couldn't even fit into them and they were my newest and biggest pair. I was embarrassed and ashamed and I went into the closet where my girlfriend was getting ready and she was struggling to find anything to wear that ft as well. She then without asking me called her friends and told them an excuse why we were not going to be able to make it to dinner. We stayed at our Condo and ordered in. It was a sexy fattening night at home which we both grew to love.

It was a great experience not knowing how much I would actually have loved the Mutual Gaining experiene but in the long run for me it became a little out of control and I began to hate it more and more the times I was in public and not with my girlfriend.

Even when we were together in public I would have mixed feelings and feel insecure because I would look at us totally differantly as a fat out of shape couple that were more or less driven by food consumption in our every day lives all the time ....everything we were doing was related to food and eating when we were together which was such the erotic part when we were at home together sexualy but when we were out doing things I was kind of embarrassed for both of us at times knowing how much differant or bodies were and our laziness.

I hope this gives some perspective from my experience!

Continued

from work and my girlfriend was sitting on the couch and I could tell she had been crying. Next to her lay a empty bag of chips I asked her what was the matter and she said she just got back from her Doctors appt. and got lectured about how much weight she has ained since her last years check up. I consoled her and told her I thought she looked better than ever to me, she was happy to hear that.

She felt better and then she asked me which I will never forget, "can we go on a diet together", I said "we" and she then said don't tell me you have not noticed how fat you have become also. I was in shock for a moment and I said I thought you thought I looked healthy? She said that was about 40+ Lbs ago and placed her hand on my belly and said what about this as she gently patted it and it jiggled and shook for a while. I must of had a confused look on my face because she then said you really have not noticed how fat you have become. She then said that her Mom who was just down and we had not seen her for over a year, who happens to like men including her husband who have rather large bellies....mentioned that I was starting to look really good with my extra belly I had put on. She also said all of her college girlfriends that have known us for a while kept asking her what she had been feeding us because we look like the happy fat married couple now.

Now all of this was a shock to me....how did I not pay attention or really acknowledge until this very moment that in the last couple of years I had put on 80+ Lbs. and in the last six months probably 40 of those Lbs. Iwas totally turned on and in love with this mutual gaining with my girlfriend when we were together eating in large consumptions and teasing each other with our new fat figures but when I was out in public or when we were around her friends I was totally embarrassed for both of us. It was a crazy experience while it lasted.

But so I can definitely understand how the initial weight gain for your friend no matter how big of a change he could have been oblivious to it.

Ya know it's funny and I wouldn't believe how someone could be totally oblivious to gaining that much. especially with clothes fitting tighter and everything else.

But the same thing happened to me way back when I was always athletic and skinny. I graduated from college and started a desk job along with not playing sports all the time and moved in with my college sweat heart who was in her last 2 years of college.

I stepped on a scale one day at a department store and it read 180 Lbs.up from my typical thin 160 Lbs. wit being quite tall. I though it must have been wrong so I didnt pay much attention. I weighed myself four months later or so on my girlfrieds scale one day and it read 202 lbs. Was it true, had I gained this much weight? I asked my girlfriend if her scale was right and she said yes but she never likes to weigh herself "being that she is quite the little plumper". She said she took it from her roomate when she moved out and her roomate always had an accurate scale because she was always on weight watchers. I asked my girlfrien if I looked bigger to her and she said a little bit but she though I looked healthy. Six plus more months went by and I noticed my girlfriend was really getting fat with all the great meals she cooked us followed with baked goods and deserts. I was actually in awe at how much she would eat and how fat she had become. One day I came home ....Cont'd in a bit

How much weight gain can be expected?

What form is it in powder, pill, capsule?

Does it really work? I have seen it in body building mags I think.

So I have been going to the same gym for many years.

Funny thing is I have noticed the girls at the front desk check in, which are ususally three at a time and probably eight total that mix in on differant days and shifts, have all gained weight while working there. Ok, wierd thing is it's a gym! I know just because they work there doesn't mean they are going to work out but I would say all of them have gained a good 15 Lbs. while a few of them have become straight up fat based on societies standards not mine, I actually enjoy it and love their new figures. Now making it even stranger, I have been going to this gym for around eight years and this has been a trend with every girl at the front desk and they usually are at this job for a little over a year with some of them lasting 4 years or so. I wonder what the reason is?

Does anyone else have a similar story to this that they can think of. Even if it is a more likely situation for a gain, like working at a restaurant etc.?

"I really like the idea of a once in shape womean that becomes very out of shape and fat."

This happened to my wife after having our three children back to back to back and was such a complete turn on for me.

She went from a very in shape work out queen to a beautifully fattened up out of shape sex godess that could not stop over indulging and eating huge portions of food and sweets even after two years of delivering our last child.

She was so sexy and fat and out of shape "It was such an incredible turn on" to me every minute I was with her. Just watching her eat and continue to eat knowing that it would only make her sexy fattened up figure fatter and softer with even more hints of cellulite that she had developed not only on her huge round thighs but her fat upper arms and and beginning on her big soft belly.

She walked differently from all of her new weight she was carrying around. Her body almost moved in two parts with her new heavy hips and butt swaying from side to side with her huge lower belly jiggling up and down and while her huge fat breasts were bouncing and jiggling in every direction. When she would sit down after walking she would let out a comforting big breath and sigh as if she just let a huge load off of her feet "which she off course did".

She would get winded moving around on the couch usually when reaching for something, a lot of times it was a bag of chips or another fattening snack which she never would be caught dead eating in the past. She struggled and became out of breath getting dressed trying to squeeze into her now very tight fitting clothing. Sitting down crossing her legs or tying her shoes were very tough because her huge thighs and big lower belly would get in the way and make it difficult.

Probably the single most sexy thing would be after she just got out of the shower smelling unbelievable sexy and put on some extremely tight Panties and a tank top that her gorgeous body could not be contained in and come over to bed and would roll into, breathing heavily as if she just ran a few miles and then I would feel the bed move and shake as her heavenly soft body squished into me so she could rest her lips on to mine for an unbelievable kiss followed by a sigh and more heavy breathing from her moving her body around in the bed once again. Several minutes would go by and she would be loudly snoring and breathing which she had never done before she gained all this weight. Then all of a sudden she would slowly move and turn sides while she was sleeping and the bed would move and strain and bounce for a while.

I would have to say this was a dream come true during this time not to mention she would talk about how fat she was all the time and laugh it off while she was eating out of a carton of ice cream and then tease me with her sexy figure and all of her fat.

Every one is different but I know for me even though I am an FA and love my significant other gaining and getting fat in any relationship I was never really into myself gaining or getting fat.

Although it happened in a past relationship and became the most intense mutual gaining relationship that was so great.

I think if my wife wanted me to gain and get fat and she liked it I would probably stuff myself like a fat pig and become as fat as she wanted me to be. So maybe thats what your guy is experiencing I happen to be a pleaser to my lover and I am sure he is also.