Growinluhandles.....Funny thing is my wife is definitely aware of me liking her to gain weight in fact I almost over played it way back when always trying to get her to eat more and disucuss weight gain and subtly carress her big lower bell roll etc.

When she would gain weight I would tell her how beautiful she looked and numerous times she said "You just say that because I have gained so much weight and I am a fat cow"! Other times back then while she was heavier she would definitely get more horny and when she was, she would use her weight gain to her advantage with me by seducing me a bit. She would come over after her shower after drying off and with a pair of tiny Panties and a consticitng tank top that rose up on her belly because it's new size, sit on my lap with her huge soft tan thighs spread wide across me and her newly fattened belly spilling out onto her lap and say "is this heavy enough for ya". I would be a bit strained in my voice with the extra weight I was not used to resting on top of me and say "No, pretty light still" and then she replied "you better watch out, you might have a huge Fat wife pretty soon"! When she did these type of things it would put me over the edge and I loved it. Shortly after the next day or so she would be out of the mood and be a little grossed out at times when I would discuss weight or gaining or touch or squeeze belly, she would say "stop, I am a Fat pig and I am going on a diet" I would say "you look great what are you talking aboutt", she would then say "That's sick how could you like me so unhealthy and fat, all I do is eat like a Fat Pig"?

So I guess she thought she was fat at the times when I thought I wanted her to get fatter not to mention she would not even believe it if she knew how much fat I really liked or how fat I would love to see her get.

So, for the last several years I have toned it down a lot regarding discussion of weight. It was probably 2 1/2 Years ago when she had one of her biggest gains and held on to it for a long time. She was pretty heavy for her and I loved it, I only really discussed the topic of weight when she brought it up or when she would mention something in a less derogatory way toward herself like "that's kind of tough to do with my big ass" and I would be gentle and slap stick and say "Big and Beautiful." During this time I think she felt a little out of control with her eating and kind of relaxed into the fact maybe she wouldn't be able to lose the weight and just have a care free attitude and eat, eat eat.During this time I remember I was at my thinnest in a long time around 205 Lbs. and she was at one of her heaviest without being post pregnancy. She kept eating and gaining and I was in heaven. She was Fat, Hungry all the time, more compassionate and definitely more horny. She had an annual check up with her Doctor that she brought up to me and she told me that her Doctor had been warning her for the last two years to watch her weight because she was concerned how much she gained each year and that once you pass thirty statistics of women losing all this extra weight is very unlikely. Maybe this was the reason she felt the point of no return and to just go with it over the last two years and not try to diet just eat and be happy. Then she told me she really got lectured because she gained even more this year and the Doctor said do you realize you have gained 43 Lbs. in the last two years. The doctor then told her she really has to watch it and try to lose some weight because her blood pressure was the highest it has been and if it gets any higher she would have to put her on some medicine to control it. Over the next year she lost weight and continued to.

I am currently at the biggest I have been since I have been with her and she is creeping up the scale herself probably 20 Lbs. away from where she was before. Maybe I can change her thinking and we can have if not a intentional mutual gaining relationship on her part but if she keeps fattening up along with my consistently increasing *** we will see what it's like to have a half ton of weight bouncing around in bed together.

I am still waiting for more comments from her regarding my huge gut! She see's me eating like a pig with my huge distended belly and says nothing. She did mention however about a football clip we saw on TV the other night "that guy look's like an older Fat man except his belly doesn't stick out as far yet!"

Wonder what that sign would be?

I am still not sure if my wife likes my "way bigger Gut". I guess I like it some of the time and other times it is a bit enbarrassing but nobody has mentioned it other than my wife recently. Maybe it turns her on a bit when she is buzzed up and other times she just ignores it.

The other night when we were getting intimate (OK) "Sex crush", I did almost crush her, she said nothing but my big old gut was bumping and banging into her not to mention all the extra weight on top of her, she must have been thinking "wow" she seemed pretty turned on by all the extra weight and flesh against her but she never openly said anything.

I also think that because she has gained some 15 Lbs. in the last 4+ months and that maybe she feels a little less self conscious about her own fatter figure.

I to would love to see my wife really fatten up!

Great hearing about you and your wife. It's very cool knowing your wife wants you to fatten up. Does she ever tease you with eating a lot or make comments about your belly? So, your wife is into the mutual gaining but does she like you gaining or herself gaining more?

"It's not easy" especially if your younger and naturlly skinny like someone posted earlier.

It took me till I was 25 yrs. old or so to gain weight even though I tried all the time through lifting weights while I was younger and weight gain shakes etc.

For me it was an age and metabolism thing and before I recognized it a few people commented that I had not seen in a few years that I got fat. Well I cetainly was not hugely fat but compared to my thin sinewy muscular old self....I now had a belly, bulkier musle build and a fatter face. I did however over the course of the next couple years get pretty fat with the help of my fat girlfriend feeding us huge fattening meals all the time and us living together along with a desk job and no athletic activity anymore.

So I guess patience is a virtue and it would certainly help if you are younger. When your metabolism changes the sky can be your limit.

These days I can workout 4 days a week do some cardio and all types of ab crunches and I have not dipped below 225 Lbs. in a year or longer while I am watching what I eat. Currently I have not been watching what I eat on and off for the last 4-6 months and boy do the Lbs. pile on fast. My gut gets in the way all the time and my big appetite keeps growing. I weighed myself the other day after a month of eating, drinking and more eating like a pig and I am up to 243 Lbs. It's pretty much the most I have weighed and I have not been lifting any weight which surely makes me gain a good 5-10 Lbs. when I do. My Gut is the biggest and roundest it has ever been measuring in the other night at 47" around the biggest point. I honestly feel if I kept eating this way in the next few months I would be over 260 Lbs. Part of me gets intrigued but I never in my wildest dreams thought I would ever even weigh close to 220 Lbs. let alone 243 Lbs.

After I eat which typically is some huge amounts these days my belly is so full, huge and tight moving around or sitting I feel like I am 9 months pregnant.

You can look forward to this stuff! I am not sure I would like this all the time though I have always been into women gaining weight and getting fat especially my wife. All of a sudden I cant believe how big I am getting and kind of like it but feel I might have to try and control it or even have to go on a diet for the first time in my life, which is kind of scary to think about because at Lunch time today I was so hungry I could have eaten two entrees and had desert I was so hungry not to mention if I have to start watching my portion control.

I think most that have had their metabolism change can tell you that all of a sudden they could start Packing on the Lbs.

I wonder if your right?

Last night after a big dinner and two deserts my Gut was huge.....she said nothing. Even after I ate a huge dinner and two deserts with three full glasses of milk. I made a comment "I wonder why I am not that hungry" after I just ate enough for two men..... in hopes to get a comment out of her. While she was taking a shower I viewed my huge Gut in the mirror several times and could barely believe the size it has grown to ....especially after I eat! It was so Tight, distended and huge, not only out in front of me but it has really started pushing out wide and round on my sides as well....I decided to measure it while standing....it was 47" at it's biggest spot while stuffed to the limits. She had to have noticed it out there in all it's glory in a pair of pajama pants with no shirt on. But no comments still!

I guess I am going to have to get her nice and tipsy again and flaunt my big old Gut with her in an intimate setting to see if your right. I really am anxious to see if she opens up and shows me signs of liking it. Maybe your right.....when she packs on the Lbs. on to her already very healthy/chunky/some would say fat sexy figure she doesn't really hide all the new Lbs. in her revealing clothes but actually rocks it.

I can't wait to see the next comments or actions from her!

Last week we were on vacation eating some great meals and having some fun in the sun.

Now I have been back and forth for a good part of six months working out and doing some abs and trying to cut up a bit with next to no success. A few years back if I gained 10 Lbs. I could lose it in a couple of weeks and start to get some slight abs back another month later with some great workouts.

So I have noticed over the past year especially that I don't really lose any weight these days even after watching what I eat and some good workouts, so I have gone back and forth eating good and then kind of pigging out to see if my wife notices the results. The minute I start to pig out I really start to get a big belly going .....Several of these times I have gained a good amount of weight that was quite noticeable.....needless to say she said nothing.

Way back in the past she let me know she liked me more cut up and not so muscular. I was into body building a bit and became pretty muscular with a very slight protruding belly back then.

So I don't know if her taste has changed or what.

So the other day we were lounging at the beach on our vacation and then we decided to go up to the pool and lay out up there. She grabbed a couple of Lounge chairs and I went to get some towels for our chairs. When I got back from walking to get them I bent over to lay one on her chair, I heard her say "look at that gut"! It was kind of shocking but no more talk or gestures about it. Funny thing was even though my gut is getting pretty huge I had an empty stomach and to me it was looking a good 4 inches smaller than after I start to eat. So Later we had a huge fattening dinner, desert and I kept eating like a fat pig. Keep in mind she is starting to pack on the Lbs. pretty good again also.....which I love more than anything. She was looking pretty damn good in her bikini that looks easily a few sizes to small for her huge thighs, belly and huge breasts. While we were eating dinner and she was getting a little tipsy with a few drinks she was rubbing my side while we were sitting and then slightly pinchingmy distended belly at it's heavy crease and squeezing it.....I said nothing and nether did she. Later when we were leaving I told her that this place reminded me of another place when we we first married she came close to me as to give me a hug and grabbed and squeezed and jiggled my chest and then said while palming my big old Gut and shaking it "I don't remember all of this".

I wonder if she likes the new Gut or if she was just buzzed?

TBC ......she is summons me to the table for dinner she just cooked.....Possibly she wants to help grow this Gut?

I guess the way weight is distribute / Genetics

If I gain weight right away after my waistline and gut start expanding my face starts to follow....I don't like it at all on myself.

It's almost a case by case situatiotion with my liking some women with fatter faces and others without but generally I like the Heart shaped soft faces with a lot fatter bodies.

I am like you I generally like women with heart shaped structured faces that are somewhat softer and prefer their bodies much bigger and fatter. I am not really into skinny faces on women.

My wife has a heart shaped structured face and she really has to gain some good weight before it goes to her face at all not to mention I have only seen her with a very very very slight double chin and then was when she was at her heaviest ever roughly 50 Lbs. more than now. I really like it but I almost want to see it pudge up slightly becaus I am craving for hr to fatten up so much currently.

My wife has been doing this for sometime now before bed usually with some ben n jerrys, chips and cookies.

She doesn't snack as much in front of me so I have been turning in early giving her time to indulge and I have been waking in the morning finding empty pints after two days and bags and cartons of chips and cookies in the trash after several days. I can't wait to see her appetite really grow and of course her waistline, hips, lovehandles, thighs, belly, breasts, arms even her slimmer cheeks..... did I miss anything.

It seems like this time around it is really taking more time to see some noticeable results.....Fingers crossed for some upcoming huge results!!!

Not sure!

My wife who certainly does not like to gain weight and get fat....eats a lot of fattening things and goodies and really gets on a "roll" (No pun intended) sometimes.

I will see her eat a half box of cookies in one sitting when I get home from work and then snack on potatoe chips while cooking dinner.

After dinner she will grab a pint of Ben n Jerry's and finish off half of it. I love watching her during these pig out times hoping and praying she will really start to pack on the LBs. and get really fat.

So in her case she cant really hold back her appetite and she enjoys some fattening goodies but the last thing she wants to do is gain weight...trust me!

Maybe your wife is not sure....lucky for you if she is! Keep us posted what you find out.

I would try buying her more fatening treats and try and serve them to her before she even grabs them herself and see her reaction to this.

I myself have always been into women gaining weight and now very much into my wife gaining. Over the years my love for more weight has increased incredibly for wanted more weight on her.

I have recently realized it is harder for me to lose weight and thus can gain weight easier if I don't watch it. If I tend to eat more my appetite really increases and can start to gain weight pretty easy these days.....but for whatever reason I am more interested in my wife noticing that I have gotten fatter rather than actually myself liking my bigger body or gut for that matter.

I guess I have fun with a bigger gut for a while but then I don't see myself really envisioning myself becoming really fat.....so for me my goal is to see my wife fatten up to some much bigger proportions!