Good to know.....How so many of the same things are sexy to the FFA perspective.

As an FFA have you found that you like men to be bigger and bigger as your fetish has gone on?

I was wondering if females who are into weight gain on there men have different views than men liking the weight on there women. I am sure there are a lot of similarities but it would be cool to hear some of the things women and men like about weight gain ..... the look, feel and everything in between.

to get it started here are a few that I like:

. I love it when My wife gains a good amount of weight and she struggles to cross her now bigger and heavier thighs....not to mention seeing her belly spill onto her lap

. after she has gained a good amount of weight I love watching how her appetite is so much bigger and how she can now eat so much more.....it is especially sexy when she keeps eating even after I think she would be totally full.

. watching her continually snack after she just ate a huge meal and several deserts.

. watching her struggle to get a pair of jeans on that are clearly not fitting after the 20-30 Lbs. she has gained. The best is watching her slightly hop up and down to try and get them up and seeing her big belly jiggling and bouncing not to mention her big fat breasts squishing and jiggling in her bra.

. Seeing and especially hearing her being out of shape because of the extra weight..... I can remember multiple times when she was at her heaviest not to mention her horniest during these times.....while we were making love she was heavily out of breath and she struggled and asked me to slow down several times so she could catch her breath....and after we were done she laid there smiling and still panting and said "Wow...That was great but your new fat wife is a little out of shape". Hearing that drove me to crazy erotic heights for some reason!

. Watching her take a shower and lather soap all over her expanded figure.....gently rolling over her newly formed huge soft belly and then work her way to her big hips and gently lifting one of her legs watching her lower belly squish up into a huge belly roll that stops her leg from going any higher.....then slowly caressing her huge breasts with her soapy hands and watching each exaggeratedly huge breasts slid and bounce out of her slippery soapy hands. Then after she dries off and walks toward me to get her panties and bra on the most intoxicating smell of bath soap lingers off her body all the while I watch every part of her fattened sexy figure bouncing and jiggling rhythmically

During this time I had several business acquaintances .....all of which were women and pretty big themselves ironically mention very nicely that they noticed I had filled out and that I looked good being bigger and huskier in there words.

They noticed my Huge Tight Beer Belly gut that was now measuring 46 + inches around......and was clearly obvious I put on around 35-40 Lbs. My wife eventually commented one evening after being tipsy after dinner at a restaurant we used to frequent when we were dating. We were waiting for the valet to bring our car up when I mentioned everything was the same as it used to be.....referring to the restaurant..... she then agressively pressed into me for a tight hug and big Kiss which has been a struggle for several months because my bigger gut along with her good size smaller belly which tend to push us back from one another when kissing while standing. She then play fully grabbed and shook my enormous fully distended gut while moving her hands up to my chest and then shook my chest and said "I don't remember this being the same as it used to be". I was slightly shocked and she reached in again and placed her hand on my belly again and softly shook it again. I was pretty aroused and wanted her to start a conversation about how much bigger I was and how much I have gained. No more talk for that night. I couldnt help but think about this the next morning when I woke up .....she mentioned she was going to get some Stabucks and breakfast....I spoke up and told her to get a dozen donuts. While she was gone I couldnt help but size myself up while I was getting into the shower I saw my profile in the mirror and I looked as if I was 9 months plus pregnant still being completely full fron the huge dinner and desert the night before.......I couldn't get over how big I looked. My plan was when she got back with the donuts and coffee was to eat as many as I could right in front of her to try and get more fat comments out of her. As she returned I was out of the shower in my Boxers size XL in which my belly stuck out a good 8 inches past the waistband looking huge. I was in Bed with the comforter watching TV....as she slid into bed along with her bagel and a donut for me on a plate along with our coffees. I quickly finished the first big chocolate bar and went back to fill my plate....I came back to bed with three new donuts on my plate hoping she would say something but she said nothing. I was pretty full after these donuts but definitely had room for more. 4 months earlier I would have never been able to to even finish three of them but my appetite was huge nowadays and i could never really get full.... even if I was I was able to keep eating. I got out of bed again and went to get two more big donuts on my plate.....as I returned to the bed I heard her turn on the shower and getting in.....so she wasnt able to witness my next plate full. I decided to stuff the next two down my throat to get my belly really stuffed and huge. As she got out of the shower I walked by her starting up a conversation while I was eating another donut.....My gut was so full and huge she must have been amazed and a little concerned at how big I looked right in front of her not to mention my gluttony of major proportions. I now was trying to have her comment in a concerned way at how fat and out of control I was looking and acting with my over indulgence.

No more comments that day.....but boy it was probably the biggest and stuffed I had ever been and I was not only surprised by how big I was and felt but I felt like just carressing my big belly and admiring for the next hour until I could actually move normally again.

You should go for some extreme gluttony right in front of your girl to see how she might comment or bring up a conversation about it.

I have been in the same position....I have always loved weight gain in general and especially when my wife gains...I would love for her to get really fat.

Trying to keep lots of fattening treats around the house which I know is hard for her to resist several times in the last few years for many many months I found myself putting on more weight than her from the over indulgence.

I decided to really start stuffing myself to see if she noticed all the weight I had gained.....It become rather fun and erotic since She wasn't fattening up as fast as I thought she would and kind of a void in my life with regard to weight gain.

I really started to be able to eat way larger portions and she kept piling my plates full and always bringing me bigger and bigger portions....I started to wonder if the roles were reversed and she was trying to fatten me up.

This went on for several months and my appetite became out of control and I kept eating....I gained a lot of weight and my gut was huge it strained most all of my Tshirts non of my clothes fit the same and it was totally noticeable I became pretty fat. My wife said nothing....she kept feeding me bigger portions all the time...so I decided I was going to keep going until she mentioned how fat I was getting.

I was becoming more and more aroused with anticipation as how she would eventually comment on my large amount of weight gain.

I can see how you almost want her to mention it without even trying to bring the subject up because it will be that much more shocking and exciting.

Im not a woman but from a different perspective.....My wife never likes admitting or even acknowledging when she gains a good amount of weight, even when it is 20 or 30 Lbs. on her shorter very curvy frame. I guess its not admitting but actually she doesn't want to bring it up or talk about it around myself even though she knows I love her bigger and especially when she gains weight.

But on many occasions right in front of her Friends or couples Friends we have she has made exaggerated gestures while eating especially deserts at dinner and even ordering multiple deserts because she just couldn't decide. While finishing them off slowly she would seductively moan and mention jokingly in front of everyone....almost to draw attention that she has put on a lot of weight recently.... "I don't think I am to concerned about getting even fatter" plus my husband doesn't seem to mind how fat I am getting. Even though I would feel slightly embarrassed I am very up front in front of everyone and always mention I think my wife is beautiful and that I think she looks great and is not even close to being fat. Most of our couples friends assume that I like my wife heavier I would imagine...But I am sure they don't know how big and fat I would actually like to see my wife get.....I don't even think my wife knows the extent I would like her to get.

Yep.....I like them fairly fat! But with that said I would consider "i" to be fat!

I even prefer much bigger than J but I can be candid and say "i" is definitely fat even in my FA eyes.

[quote]kayluvsfood wrote:
I am new to gaining. I'm pretty athletic build and I love to see my body change and get curvier. I love to feel what the food is doing to me, not to mention how good it tastes. When my thighs start to touch and I can literally feel 5 lbs heavier in the ass, it makes me want to eat more.[/quot

Anyone else?

I agree with most all of what was mentioned already. I would like to add that I feel there are certain times where my weight gain senses are heightened even more than normal.... which are pretty strong.

Obviously guys are visual and us FA are not only visual but like the feel also.

This is a suggestion kind of like a band aid fix...... Us FA's who are into weight gain have good fantasy type imaginations so why don't you role play with him and tease him with fat talk about how fat your going to get and possibly even pad and stuff your clothing. Maybe even get a high end fat suit and role play out you getting even bigger than you probably could get in real life. He might get some crazy satisfaction from just hugging you and seeing you that big not to mention our seductive fat talk you would be doing.

This is a great question.....and not easy to answer. I will try my quick version.

Chubby-Layers of fat that make the body look thick and soft.

Fat-multiple upon multiple layers of fat which drastically changes the entire physique.

I kind of liked what was said earlier about not being able to hide it through clothes.

This is a very tough question to ultimately answer in words.....can I have pictures to comment on whether they are chubby or fat?