Im not a woman but from a different perspective.....My wife never likes admitting or even acknowledging when she gains a good amount of weight, even when it is 20 or 30 Lbs. on her shorter very curvy frame. I guess its not admitting but actually she doesn't want to bring it up or talk about it around myself even though she knows I love her bigger and especially when she gains weight.

But on many occasions right in front of her Friends or couples Friends we have she has made exaggerated gestures while eating especially deserts at dinner and even ordering multiple deserts because she just couldn't decide. While finishing them off slowly she would seductively moan and mention jokingly in front of everyone....almost to draw attention that she has put on a lot of weight recently.... "I don't think I am to concerned about getting even fatter" plus my husband doesn't seem to mind how fat I am getting. Even though I would feel slightly embarrassed I am very up front in front of everyone and always mention I think my wife is beautiful and that I think she looks great and is not even close to being fat. Most of our couples friends assume that I like my wife heavier I would imagine...But I am sure they don't know how big and fat I would actually like to see my wife get.....I don't even think my wife knows the extent I would like her to get.

Yep.....I like them fairly fat! But with that said I would consider "i" to be fat!

I even prefer much bigger than J but I can be candid and say "i" is definitely fat even in my FA eyes.

[quote]kayluvsfood wrote:
I am new to gaining. I'm pretty athletic build and I love to see my body change and get curvier. I love to feel what the food is doing to me, not to mention how good it tastes. When my thighs start to touch and I can literally feel 5 lbs heavier in the ass, it makes me want to eat more.[/quot

Anyone else?

I agree with most all of what was mentioned already. I would like to add that I feel there are certain times where my weight gain senses are heightened even more than normal.... which are pretty strong.

Obviously guys are visual and us FA are not only visual but like the feel also.

This is a suggestion kind of like a band aid fix...... Us FA's who are into weight gain have good fantasy type imaginations so why don't you role play with him and tease him with fat talk about how fat your going to get and possibly even pad and stuff your clothing. Maybe even get a high end fat suit and role play out you getting even bigger than you probably could get in real life. He might get some crazy satisfaction from just hugging you and seeing you that big not to mention our seductive fat talk you would be doing.

This is a great question.....and not easy to answer. I will try my quick version.

Chubby-Layers of fat that make the body look thick and soft.

Fat-multiple upon multiple layers of fat which drastically changes the entire physique.

I kind of liked what was said earlier about not being able to hide it through clothes.

This is a very tough question to ultimately answer in words.....can I have pictures to comment on whether they are chubby or fat?

I like Pear shape the best!

For me .....I started gaining in the last couple of years on and off because of the lack of my wife gaining not enough.

Almost like a weight gain void in my life being that I love weight gain so much and especially on my wife but she has not really been fattening up.

I think if she liked me gaining and she would start gaining....I would be very comfortable in a Mutual Gaining relationship....because I don't seem to mind myself getting big as much as I used to....especially if she was into all my new Lbs.

Over the last couple years I have realized I don't seem to lose much weight even through intense work outs and portion control. All of a sudden things have sort of changed, if my wife started eating more she would gain weight right away and I was the opposite. Now, my wife stocks up on fattening treats and we have both been eating and I am the one gaining all the weight.

I have been going on and off with pigging out and watching the scale climb pretty fast. These days I can probably gain an extra 30Lbs. in two months. Once I start eating these days my appetite increases and the weight piles on. Then I will get feelings to try and get back in shape and it is kind of tough to slow down on eating and lose the weight. I don't think I have got under 230 Lbs. in a long time. After I gain quickly I then start trying to lose weight but it never gets under 230 Lbs. It used to be around 210-215 Lbs. if I worked out hard.

I got pretty big 6 months ago for fun and was over 250 Lbs. My wife never commented even though it was so obvious, I had a huge gut. It was fun for a while then I got kind of embarrassed I saw a picture of myself at the beach in board shorts and I looked huge.

Need less to say weight gain on me is a like and hate thing and it really stems from me just filling the weight gain void in my wife at certain times.

I think it is a struggle between having this weight gain attraction and being muscular/fit and athletic.

I have noticed with my wife and myself for that matter, that when we eat a ton of food for many weeks, months or longer our bellies look full and big and bloated. Almost carrying that full stuffed look all the time even when we have not just eaten.

Several months after the belly has gone down and the food intake has slowed down then the softer fat starts to settle in.....I think it's kind of a process in stretching and growth. The softness can really settle into the love handles on my wife and all over for that matter. I kind of like the over stuffed look a lot on her because I know it is going to follow with some nice soft fat that wont go away very easy.

Not as excited about the softer fat that settles in on my waist or love handles because it seems almost impossible to lose if I wanted to.

Anyone else see it like this?

She knows I would like her heavier.

We have had plenty of talks in the past and she thinks she is already way fatter than she would like.

Thing is she likes eating, especially deserts and snacking....so the weight kind of creeps on. With all the eating and no dieting over the past year I would have expected her to really pack on a lot more pounds than she has.

Me being the FA/weight gain guy would love to see her way bigger....basically what I was saying before, I think she would look so amazing with a lot of extra weight because she carries it so sexy.

I have repressed talking about weigh gain with her but still compliment her figure and her looks. The last time over a year ago I mentioned she should let herself relax a bit and gain some weight because she was complaining about her needing to diet. She quickly had a disgusted look and said gain weight " I am about 35 Lbs. over weight right now."

So maybe I am just out of touch with reality and only dreaming. She was around 155 Lbs. at the time and I wish she would be over 200 Lbs. Not sure if she will ever accept gaining that amount of weight.....but I will keep my fingers crossed and keep dreaming.