CuriousKat98:
I think it has always been there with me. I used to tell everyone when I was younger that I wanted to get married have kids and get fat. I didn't see it as a kink per se then though. It was just what happened with my older sister and she was really happy, so I wanted that. I think I realized it was something more to me when I got pregnant with my daughter and gained a lot of weight. I had to quit smoking, so I used food to clam the cravings. I gained probably 60 pounds in those 9 months. My husband gain at least 20 too. It was just an amazing experience to me. Total surprise. Anyways, this is my first post here. I actually joined so I could reply to this. Kind of lurked on here for a while. Something freeing about openly admitting things that are taboo in everyday life in a public place...
Welcome!
1 year
Last year or so I had reached 300 pounds and I was a bit shocked and felt like I needed to lose weight I tried for a few weeks but I eventually just fell back into my ways, then one day I was on the internet looking up diets bc I knew I’d have to actually diet instead of treat my body like I did when I’d cut from 140 to 130, eventually I found myself im body positivity and fat acceptance blogs and YouTube pages articles and this stuff just clicked for me i had felt like this for while but that big 3 number startled me. Through the searching of that eventually I found feedism and the rest is history now I’m 400+ pounds and wouldn’t change a thing!
1 year
Contrast, but one partner is a ssbbw or ssbhm and the other is a sssbbw or a sssbhm
But glad those barriers are coming down shouldn’t fell pressure from other people to stay one way if you wanna be another! You could enjoy yourself a dirty bulk but just make sure you don’t get lazy in your workouts!
1 year
I don’t understand why BMI is a worth while measure of anything of value, it is literally height divided by weight (or vice versa) there’s loads of very fit and muscley people who have similar BMI to me and I’m mostly fat. I understand BFP because that’s actually a measuring of the amount of fat on your body (maybe it wouldn’t be worth it to get BFP on someone who is visibly obese?) It seems like a way to categorize people and assign health or unhealth based on nothing being fat doesn’t make you necessarily unfit or unhealthy - and even if it did why would it matter
1 year
I like dips it really depends though
1 year
Yeah idk how it would have gone had I discovered I wanted to be fat back in the day I’d imagine I would have gotten a lot of hell cause my dad got me into the wrestling and stuff, encouraged the cutting of weight when it came time… yeah and like the whole internet stuff I couldn’t even imagine, I got caught just watching vanilla porn when I was 13 and it was hell. Parents made me talk to the priest had to go to counseling.
1 year
MVP76:
Omg right? Chips are just so easy to eat. Before you know it, the bags empty.
Munchies:
I don't eat chips all that much, but Late July jalepeño lime corn chips are like crack to me. I don't get them often, but when I do, they don't last long.
Those sound amazing. I’ll have to try em. I’ve recently been on a jaleponeo cheddar Cheetos dipped in top the tater kick. I love spicy chips. Those cool ranch flaming hot Doritos are fire
1 year
I never really ate chips before now it’s really easy for me to finish an entire bag before I realize what I’ve done.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
I didn’t have the fetish growing up, I avoided a lot of the awkwardness in it as an adult coming to terms with my body… I am sorry y’all had to deal with ***s!
I’ll say as I got fat it didn’t feel like it was the end of the world like a lot of other people might think - I didn’t feel like I NEED TO LOSE THIS or ELSE more like, this feels right and this feeling just grew and developed more as I grew.
Munchies:
I grew up an a conservative, religious home. i was doomed from the start.
It is what it is
As was I, I just avoided that heat because I was normalish
1 year
I didn’t have the fetish growing up, I avoided a lot of the awkwardness in it as an adult coming to terms with my body… I am sorry y’all had to deal with ***s!
I’ll say as I got fat it didn’t feel like it was the end of the world like a lot of other people might think - I didn’t feel like I NEED TO LOSE THIS or ELSE more like, this feels right and this feeling just grew and developed more as I grew.
1 year
