Cujo

That is not what I am saying. I am saying that there are not enough 500 pounders around for someone to find the perfect match for them and be 500 pounds. And other things are more important than weight.

I vote yes. It's like a roadmap, and I love to follow them with my fingers. Like someone else pointed out, it shows a rapid gain.

In real life, there are not that many people over 400 or 500 pounds. Given the fact that there are so many important factors in a relationship, such as education level, political views, religious views, and just general compatibility, it is not too likely that someone who likes 500 pound women would find the right person. It's more likely the perfect person may weigh only 275 and have everything else in common.

Also, 400 or 500 pound women can be very sexy, but if someone likes playing tennis, hiking, or even long shopping trips, being with someone who is very large may not be practical for their lifestyle. So, being atracted by sight to a 500 pound woman does not mean an attraction for someone as a girlfriend.

Now, don't get mad. I am not saying that a very large women isn't desireable. I am just saying she may not fit everyone's lifestyle.

My suggestion is to meet anyone who is near, and forget anyone who is not near. I know someone will have a good story about someone they met half way around the world. But this is very risky. One person has to give up their home, their family and their job to be with the other person. And if it does not work out, that person is totally left homeless, jobless, and friendless. It also puts two strangers together and almost impossible to split up.

Another advantage of the Internet is that you can get to know the person inside without being distracted by the person outside. If someone is not very attractive, it may be possible to really like them and being able to overlook their looks or other distraction.

The Internet is great for finding POTENTIAL people. But in a place where people lie about their gender, age, looks, etc., I would not consider anyone more than potential until I meet them. Even if they are honest, you can not get the feel of what another person is like until you meet them.

I personally find it very sexy to see a woman who is not pregnant in maternity clothes. Heck, if they fit the best, then wear them.

People also have to remember several things. It's not just money coming from thin air. It is taxpayers' hard earned money. And as another person pointed out, there's only so much to go around. Not only for other disabled people, but for other services, such as better raods, libraries, schools, medical research, etc.

Also, knowing several people on disability, it is barely enough to live on. So, it is to the disabled person's advantage to try to find some work they can do. And may times it takes a lawyer to get the disability money, so lawyer's fees have to come out of the money too.

How tall and what size does she wear?