I like Pear shape the best!

For me .....I started gaining in the last couple of years on and off because of the lack of my wife gaining not enough.

Almost like a weight gain void in my life being that I love weight gain so much and especially on my wife but she has not really been fattening up.

I think if she liked me gaining and she would start gaining....I would be very comfortable in a Mutual Gaining relationship....because I don't seem to mind myself getting big as much as I used to....especially if she was into all my new Lbs.

Over the last couple years I have realized I don't seem to lose much weight even through intense work outs and portion control. All of a sudden things have sort of changed, if my wife started eating more she would gain weight right away and I was the opposite. Now, my wife stocks up on fattening treats and we have both been eating and I am the one gaining all the weight.

I have been going on and off with pigging out and watching the scale climb pretty fast. These days I can probably gain an extra 30Lbs. in two months. Once I start eating these days my appetite increases and the weight piles on. Then I will get feelings to try and get back in shape and it is kind of tough to slow down on eating and lose the weight. I don't think I have got under 230 Lbs. in a long time. After I gain quickly I then start trying to lose weight but it never gets under 230 Lbs. It used to be around 210-215 Lbs. if I worked out hard.

I got pretty big 6 months ago for fun and was over 250 Lbs. My wife never commented even though it was so obvious, I had a huge gut. It was fun for a while then I got kind of embarrassed I saw a picture of myself at the beach in board shorts and I looked huge.

Need less to say weight gain on me is a like and hate thing and it really stems from me just filling the weight gain void in my wife at certain times.

I think it is a struggle between having this weight gain attraction and being muscular/fit and athletic.

I have noticed with my wife and myself for that matter, that when we eat a ton of food for many weeks, months or longer our bellies look full and big and bloated. Almost carrying that full stuffed look all the time even when we have not just eaten.

Several months after the belly has gone down and the food intake has slowed down then the softer fat starts to settle in.....I think it's kind of a process in stretching and growth. The softness can really settle into the love handles on my wife and all over for that matter. I kind of like the over stuffed look a lot on her because I know it is going to follow with some nice soft fat that wont go away very easy.

Not as excited about the softer fat that settles in on my waist or love handles because it seems almost impossible to lose if I wanted to.

Anyone else see it like this?

She knows I would like her heavier.

We have had plenty of talks in the past and she thinks she is already way fatter than she would like.

Thing is she likes eating, especially deserts and snacking....so the weight kind of creeps on. With all the eating and no dieting over the past year I would have expected her to really pack on a lot more pounds than she has.

Me being the FA/weight gain guy would love to see her way bigger....basically what I was saying before, I think she would look so amazing with a lot of extra weight because she carries it so sexy.

I have repressed talking about weigh gain with her but still compliment her figure and her looks. The last time over a year ago I mentioned she should let herself relax a bit and gain some weight because she was complaining about her needing to diet. She quickly had a disgusted look and said gain weight " I am about 35 Lbs. over weight right now."

So maybe I am just out of touch with reality and only dreaming. She was around 155 Lbs. at the time and I wish she would be over 200 Lbs. Not sure if she will ever accept gaining that amount of weight.....but I will keep my fingers crossed and keep dreaming.

When I look at my wife I cant help but think she would be the most beautiful fat women ever! She alrady is beautiful in my eyes but like I said she would be the ultimate FA/weight gaining goddess if she became fat!

She is definitely curvy and overweight being 5' 3" 165ish Lbs. Pear shape with huge breasts, a pronounced fat lower belly with a slight soft sag, round soft upper arms and obviously big Plump butt and round thighs not to mention a model like face with such smooth tan skin.

I believe she would be the absolute sexiest goddess ever if she really allowed herself to let go and pile on the Lbs.
with her figure and the way she gains weight I could see her at 210-230 Lbs...... just absolutely blowing any FA/weight gain enthusiasts's mind.

She has been eating really good and snacking and eating deserts a lot over the past year with no diet yet. She has gained 10+ Lbs. in the past year I would say but nothing like I thought she would eating ice cream and snacking on carbs like she does.

I just wish she would one day just start piling on the Lbs. and not really care and never have a diet in mind once she got fat!

How do I make this dream become reality?

Wow...from the sounds of it I have to find my Wife some chunky friends who love eating.....and set them all up on some dinner dates all the time!

I would imagine you mean "Fat" considered by people on this board and not mainstream.

I would say it varies based on many things.

For example a shorter girl looks fatter with less weight, so it can't be purely a number associated with weight. Likewise based on body type some women can have a big belly with only slightly chubby legs or arms which some would say, "wow, she is fat" because her belly is so big but in reality she is only considered fat because of that body part.

I guess I would categorize fat in two ways where everything on a women's body is quite a bit bigger than normal and it hinders her physical ability somewhat not to mention limits her movement. This is not a for sure because there are plenty of women who are fat that can move really good but I guess I would say if that women was thinner would they be able to move and do things better.

Putting a percentage basis on this I would say....There are certain times on a monthly basis where my sexual attraction/drive is around 95% linked to fatness and weight gain with my wife or in general. I can't get enough weight gain or fat in my life during these times.

Other times it goes down to maybe around 80%. With that said Fat and weight gain are always the majority base desire in some way for sexual arousal.

I look at a skinny attractive woman and I will imagine how much better she would look if she gained weight! I even start imagining where she would start to get fat first etc. Sometimes I will even imagine her getting really fat and I can almost picture her in my mind exactly her with maybe 50 Lbs. more.

I will see my wife changing into some clothes after just taking a shower and will admire some weight she has gained recently and her struggle to get into a pair of jeans that used to fit fine and when she finally gets them buttoned she has a several inches of tan soft fat belly spilling out not to mention her love handles hanging over the sides of the low cut waist band. This puts me into a complete crazy arousal and all I want to do is go up to her and ravish her.

So, obviously the complete ultimate for any of us FA's who are into weight gain would be to have our wives into this as much as we are!!!

My wife and I were away last weekend for a friend of hers big formal Birthday celebration.

We were dressed up for two days straight and her friend had a professional photographer shoot her party events for two nights.

I just saw the pictures and was in shock. Mind you I have lost weight over the last several months and thought my wife has as well. After viewing the pictures we looked pretty heavy compared to the rest of the 50+ guests. Most of the women were skinny to slightly chubby and my wife happened to be the prettiest but to my surprise probably one of the heaviest.....in which I feel she is much to skinny yet. I on the other hand was probably the second heaviest guy there.

It was a complete shock to me seeing myself in pictures next to other thinner guys and realizing that people might consider me Fat. This is after I have lost weight in the past several months.....I wonder how I would of looked in these pictures with the extra 20+ Lbs. that was around my gut. My wife even alluded to the fact that I really didn't need another appetizer etc. that I ordered a couple times during the weekend which she has never really done.

We have not been out in a Formal fashion like these events in a long time and it really made me think of if I was as heavy as I was a few months ago someone might have even commented how big I was.

My wife and I looked stuffed into our Formal clothes much more than the majority and I couldn't get over how puffy both of our faces looked.

Crazy thing is when I look at my wife right now..... I want her to put on a good 40-50 Lbs. I think the Formal thing around skinnier people and seeing pics has to go because my wife probably weighs around 160 Lbs currently at 5' 3"..... and I am currently 230+ Lbs. when just a few months ago I was over 250 Lbs. She never really commented on my weight negatively only in a little joking way a couple of times.

After seeing these pics I think she is going to talk to me about us going on a diet..... she was already hinting around that I tend to eat to much. I have to believe it was because she was looking at me next to other men that were weighing around 170-180 Lbs. tops

M wife is unbelievably Beautiful with a gorgeous shaped figure and when she gains weight it only looks so much better and sexy....... although it was quite a shock seeing her next to women quite a bit taller all with huge 4"+ heels on along with herself but she probably out weighed them by 40 Lbs. and it really looks noticeable with those comparisons.

Anyone go through similar experiences like this?

Obviously all body types and things are different. I can give you some insight from my personal experience.

When I first started to gain it went to my belly first and became tight and hard and swollen. I looked like an in shape lean guy that developed a beer gut. Over time with more gaining it got slightly softer and I fattened up in my ass and all over slightly even my face but that took a little bit of time for the weight to settle into those spots. Over the years through a few gains and losses once my body took slightly different shape from Tall/lean to Tall/Big & Husky with physical body maturity I guess my gaining would change.

When I gain now at first my Belly will get big and swollen slightly tight and not only stick out in the front but form pretty wide off of my sides. If I start to eat I can gain pretty fast and it shows very quickly. I can gain 30 Lbs. in two months with only slight changes in my eating and my appetite grows really fast.

The other thing that is different from before is my set point at where my weight will settle. After I gained in the past and if I let up on eating so much and worked out more my weight would decrease with time and I would lose that 30+ Lbs. Nowadays I don't really get below 230 Lbs. even with intense work outs and eating good. So the 20 Lbs. or so never really goes away like it used to.