MrOverstuffed:
Right now I’m kind of in an overthinking and over planning phase, and idk if it’s necessary but it’s stressing me out.

I’ve been on YouTube for 10 years, and I never had a speck of progress towards the success I desired. I started making memes on Instagram for the feedism community and it’s going really well! I then started YouTube feedism gaming, and that’s going really well too, much better!

My problem is that if I continue down this path, I might achieve only part of the success I desire (financial stability, being known in my community, sharing love and happiness within my community). I know there are YouTubers that are well known by more than just what their targeted audience is, and I’m afraid I’m limiting myself by focusing on something so specific that ONLY people within my community will understand. I’m scared not everyone accepts feedism and won’t accept me. It feels like the only reason to do it is to get money and views, and I want more than that!

This might just sound stupid, please don’t be mean or tell me to snap back to reality or something. I love this community so much and I want to do right by it.

Tree17:
Is anyone else on here actually looking for something real? I know a lot of people come here to sell content or get off, but does anyone want to find someone to enjoy food with and their growing bellies? It would be nice to find someone to share this lifestyle with.

LoraDayton:
just like the last profile that complained about this enough to start a thread: you show *no* indication that you are any type of person except those who lurk for content. -snip-

FatAdmirerLove82:
Though for some people here, one reason we don't post much is because we view Feederism as more of a fetish and not a requirement for a relationship and have profiles on other sites that aren't focused towards the lifestyle.
Sure would being in a feederism relationship be fun... Oh gods yes, but having it a part of a meaningful relationship that doesn't require it.. Is even HOTTER.
Meaning.. If you are unable to feed them past their limits, they won't abandon you because they love you for you, not for your wallet, and not for your body.

Morbidly A Beast:
I thought Barbie got married or something and got super religious and called feedism sinful maybe I’m thinking of a dif Barbie

PurpleJade:
If I want to search this, all I get is search engine optimized and ai/gpt garbage. Articles telling me how to avoid mold, telling me things I already do actively.

I hope that here since food is a staple here maybe someone knows a good brand to get buns with a bit more preservatives. I can’t eat 8 hamburgers or 8 hotdogs a week from my grocery store visit, and anytime after a week I see mold.

With bread I don’t have this problem, sara lee honey wheat can sit for ages in my pantry, and I unfortunately can only purchase the sara lee artisinal buns and not restaurant style.

Letters And Numbers:
Freeze them and defrost when you need them.

(Or invite people over for cookouts)

Munchies:


If you are taking all the steps to avoid your food going bad and it still is, then freeze it.

Alternatively, buy the buns only when you plan to use them quickly. Use the Sarah Lee bread instead when it's just you.

All that said, I am curious about how quickly your buns are going bad and how you are preserving them. Because I've never experienced hot dog buns going bad so quickly.

NoMoYoYo:
I can't answer for the OP, but when I first moved out, the place I lived in was a breeding ground for mold.

I would buy a loaf of bread with an expiry date for 2 weeks later and it would be moldy within a few days.

I did freeze things after this happened a few times.

ChrisBsmurfin:
😊 🤔ye shame they don't taste better though!

PurpleJade:
If I want to search this, all I get is search engine optimized and ai/gpt garbage. Articles telling me how to avoid mold, telling me things I already do actively.

I hope that here since food is a staple here maybe someone knows a good brand to get buns with a bit more preservatives. I can’t eat 8 hamburgers or 8 hotdogs a week from my grocery store visit, and anytime after a week I see mold.

With bread I don’t have this problem, sara lee honey wheat can sit for ages in my pantry, and I unfortunately can only purchase the sara lee artisinal buns and not restaurant style.

Letters And Numbers:
Freeze them and defrost when you need them.

(Or invite people over for cookouts)

NoMoYoYo:
After gaining about 65lbs in the last 9 months, I've finally hit a point that my body isn't happy with me.

I feel tired, sluggish etc.

I am about to change my strategy. I want to still gain, but in a much healthier way. i.e. less fast food.

I know what I've done to myself. I knew I'd reach this point. Surprised it took as long as it did.

Does anybody have any suggestions on how to keep gaining while being healthier?

Danny823:
I’ve mentioned this on other posts, but I’ll say it again even though it’s controversial/unpopular. The best way to gain subcutaneous fat instead of visceral is exercise. Exercise generally burns visceral fat BEFORE subcutaneous fat. Even if you just hit the gym 3 times a week it’ll make a huge difference, and your weight gain will be much more soft and healthy. That’s the reason sumo wrestlers are so healthy, they have minimal visceral fat from exercising so much

Munchies:
I wouldn't say it's controversial so much as some (emphasis on some) feedists are afraid of exercise. They are scared that they'll lose weight, which is something they need to unpack.

Nyarlep:
Something you might find interesting is that at least from overlapping interactions with trans and feedist communities; some feedees/gainers seem to experience something akin to weight dysphoria where they feel uncomfortable being too small or afraid or slimming down at all. It’s not a 1to1 obviously but I’ve found the comparisons quite fascinating.

Munchies:
I'm aware of it. There are a lot trans feedists. I'm on the outside of all this, but I feel like it hits trans AMABs harder than trans AFABs. There's a fear of looking too masculine when you exercise. That said, there are ways to exercise - even not on HRT - that won't make you look more masculine.

And if you are on HRT (especially estrogen) exercise is important for maintaining your bone health.

MarieTrans:
I have to add, as a Trans person who also talks to tons of other trans people, I haven't met many who say this. Some of those who aren't feedees exercise to look more feminine like with their butt and stuff. The only person I can think of who was against any exercise at all was very extreme with her fetish.

Munchies:
Thoughts on Lower Decks?

ILuvChubbyChix:
If you like Star Trek at all, and like Rick & Morty at all, it's a must watch. It seems to kind of combine them both together.

It's definitely funnier and more humorous than the other Star Trek series.

But if you don't like the kind of humor Rick & Morty has, maybe give it a pass.

Hhhggg:
To be honest !
I would feather stay in shape you are in your twenties and girls your are very really go for big boys …
Because it’s more acepbel when you boyfriends gets fat and you stay with him because” you love him for how he is” that the same girl is backing 3 time a week and is rewarding big dinners with sex because it was a romantic night were you eat her share to is not in the picture!
Plus girls usually don’t care as much for looks so the change that you get a girl that loves you for how u are and Dienst mind if you gain is high … most girls actively into feeding guys have mutiple fattys on hand, they must feel like kid in a candy shop 😅
So my advise would be say thin find a girl that’s into it or just go around wihile being young