Is being out of shape a turn on?

I get pretty gassed doing pretty minimal tasks these days putting on socks, putting out the trash and recyclables, etc etc part of me thinks it’s because of long term effects of Covid the other part of me thinks it’s because I’ve gotten fatter and more out of shame.. and I’m a smoker - could be a combination of the two or three… but nah it’s not fun nor sexy feeling like you’re hyperventilating after running 20 ft
1 year

Diet coke or regular coke

Raven:Not only does it taste better


Debatable
1 year

Diet coke or regular coke

Depends! I buy Diet Coke in a 12 pack because I can drink and enjoy more before my stomach hurts, but if I go out to eat or if I’m thirsty I’ll get a regular coke.
1 year

Genetics or diet

99% Genetic 1% prior muscle mass
1 year

Fattening first fumbles

If you wanna be big you gotta eat big
1 year

Fattening first fumbles

RobertsonMailer:
That’s a great way to look at it. I’ve experimented a little in the past but it’s usually been at someone’s request and while there’s been some lasting lbs, but nothing button popping. Is there a way you’d recommend taking a deeper personal dive? I enjoy the gaining, though my attention and motivation varies as much as my weight. Thanks for bthe solid insight!


Eat!
1 year

Urges to fatten

WideJuan76:
I feel this way all the time but for most of us; it was always there back beneath the surface. I know for me; my desire to eat and later to eat ro the point of purposely gaining fat has been there. I have never not been chubby so I saw constantly stuffing as a norm. As a fatty, there is never any release because I can never get enough to eat so I had to reframe my addiction to food. I just binge freely but within reason. The fatter one becomes; eating mindfully will be your sex.


Damn well said Juan
1 year

Fattening first fumbles

You gotta really wanna be fat for yourself and well it’s nice to please other people, the simple fact is that it’s not a guaranteed thing you’ll ever be in a feedist relationship. Do it for you! Because you want to be fat!
1 year

Ever had to upgrade shoe size? when?

It funny you ask because yes but not because I outgrew them, well in a sense I did, but I got the next size up for some house shoes because I’m to big and lazy to bend over and fix the lip when I slide them on.

But in terms of actual outgrowing I just don’t think I have a pair of footwear that has lasted long enough to notice
1 year

Wen did u realize u couldn’t ride roller coasters 🎢?

I am in the “If I go to a fair it’s for food” camp these days, my chest was to big for a harness ride

The people who do the rides aren’t super worried about your safety and will force things down and could cause you a lot of harm internally or you know launch you from a ride.
1 year