Morbidly A Beast:
bro the internet hates fat people it’s really gross beyond like feedist reddit and tumblr people foam at the mouth if you are fat or fat positive/body accepting. Like there’s disgusting Reddit page called fittofat and half the posts on there are gainer bbw fetish content creators and the commenters say gross stuff like there’s anorexic models who maybe got to a healthy weight and their like oh she’s ruined

Munchies:
This is true. Fat is demonized, and a lot of people think that fat shaming is "helping". I've heard a number of people say something like "Fat shaming is the only bullying that helps people." Feedism cannot and will not be accepted by the mainstream until we deal with fatphobia first.

ForeverFFA:
Update:

My boyfriend and I have been taking a break and there's other reasons but at least part of it has to do with my concerns over sexual compatibility. I need to make my relationship decision sometime next week.

I feel badly because he's okay with what I like (he's not big but has a little belly himself) and even the fact that I'm on a site like this (since I'm not using it to cheat), and yet, it's exactly because I've been on Fantasy Feeder that I've come to realize the full extent of what I'm missing out on.

It sounds like a lot of you have been saying that this is just too fundamental to get past? Would any of you just try to forget about feedism instead of ending the relationship?

Bathisum:
I can regularly do 10,000 calories in a day but I do drink a gainer shake everyday. The most I’ve done is 13,000 and that was really due to food available and time. I regularly can eat the equivalent of a meal every hour or two if I decide to get up and do it. If I set out to do it one day I probably could get to the 20,000 but I’d much rather have someone to help honestly.

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m not sure if you guys have the SAME stores up there but DXL has been great for me. It’s a tad dressy but they got lots of good options. They had my size 52 x 30 which was amazing.

NoMoYoYo:
When I was at my heaviest a couple years ago I went to DXL. I really liked it. They're not in Canada anymore, but I still get emails from them with deals.

I am not quite big enough to fit their clothing. YET. When that time comes, I will probably head back there. Either order online or cross the border to Buffalo. Its about 2 and a half hours away from where I live.