People who are here and wanted to be approached, need to be specific about what they want and how they want to be treated. If you want to talk about feeding, but want to be treated politely, say so.
Those who do the approaching, need to be polite, and they need to tread lightly until they know someone wants to discuss particular things.
I think everyone needs to stick around, because it does not matter how many people you are not compatible with, it is a matter of finding one or two people who you really like
14 years
I can understand some people being rude. But, at the same point, this is about gaining. If this was a travel site, wouldn't people ask where you have traveled to? Or if it was a knitting site, wouldn't people ask what you have knitted?
But, I usually don't have too much of a problem talking about gaining. I am polite, and remember to ask how someone is. If I ask a very personal question, I always add "if I may ask." That allows the other person to graciously not answer. I change the subject if I have other things in common. If I don't, I end the chat.
14 years
Everyone hates WalMart, but they have larger sizes at a good price. If you gain much more than what you plan, jeans will not really work (except stretch ones which really aren't jeans) because your body will be a different shape between sitting and standing.
As far as bras, try a 34DD or a 36D. These are a lot cheaper and easier to find. Don't laugh at me or tell me it won't work before you try it. The cups would be the same size, but the band is bigger. But with stretch bras, you won't know the difference between 32, 34, or 36 because it will just stretch less.
14 years
By putting obesity as the same category as drugs, drinking, and smoking, rebellious youngsters are going to think it is cool to be fat. And when you take away things from children, they want it more. I know a woman who was not allowed to have one cat as a child has over 100 now. I know of another adult woman who watches Saturday morning cartoons every week because she was not allowed to as a child. Politicans need to stay out of every aspect of people's lives. We did not form governments to be told how to run our lives.
14 years
Yes, I was there all the time. (under another name)
14 years
It amazes me how doctors will do dangerous WLS surgery on someone 500 pounds, yet make someone lose a lot of weight for any other surgery. My advice is get a second opinion.
14 years
It amazes me how much people complain because they meet some bad apples. For those looking for a relationship, you only need to find one right person.
14 years
canadianenglish wrote
I guess black people should only date each other, and Asians should only date other Asians. I kinda thought that mentality died with my grandparents, they always thought it was odd I dated big girls.
Peferences are nothing new. Many tall people will date only other tall people (especially tall women wanting tall men), and people wanting to date someone around their own age.
The politically correct thing to say is that it shouldn't matter what someone looks like. But in reality, everyone has preferences.
14 years
What is the sense of gaining, if you don't want anyone to know, and you are uncomfortable. Either poop, or get off of the pot. If you gain, flaunt it. Otherwise stop gaining.
14 years
