Advice needed please

yea.....that's funny I just wrote in another post that I was very surprised at how quick I gained over the holidays!

4 months ago I was doing a crazy leaning workout at the gym and lost 15 lbs. it took about 2 months with less heavy lifting, cardio and abs. As soon as I tappered it down a bit I gained 12 of those Lbs. back pretty quickly 1 1/2 months or so (Just tapered back a bit........ not stopping the cardio or abs.) "same theory of set point!"

Over the Holidays in hopes to get my wife to gain a bunch of weight back that she dieted down I loaded the house up with chocolates, ice cream deserts etc. we both indulged along with no gym work outs and we both gained although I gained much more. I gained another 12 Lbs. in just under a month.

I am bigger and heavier than I have been in several years and with just this 12 extra Lbs. I must clearly be at a point I have not been in a while. Same things happen when sitting and bending over to tie my shoes I get lack of air from my belly getting in the way and get a bit dizzy, climbing stairs I can feel those extra 12 Lbs. I have not had in several years and not to mention how my belly fills up all the tshirts that use to fit looser and can't even fasten my biggest slacks for back to work this week.

Slacks went from a 34" when leaned down to a 38" let out to 39 1/2" at the tailor today all just around 4 months and just under 25 Lb. swing.

The belly is certainly getting in the way currently....Kind of cool with such a change on one hand and a bit embarrasing on the other! I wonder when my wife or someone is going to point out the obvious "I got a big belly now"! or do I just notice the difference so much more?
13 years

Who gained over christmas

Just weighed myself yesterday and I've gained 12 Lbs. in a little over 3 weeks almost a month.

I tried to get my wife to gain back the weight she dieted down by loading up on Chocolates, sweets, ice creams....... and she baked deserts and cookies which we both indulged in over the Holidays.

I figured if I wanted her to start fattening up again I better get her eating bigger meals and lots of deserts with myself as company again to increase her appetite.

It worked she probably gained 5-7 Lbs. or so but my continual eating along with no Gym during the Holidays has had a bigger effect quickly on my overall belly and waistline than I thought it would. I cant believe how quick you can gain by letting go along with no work outs and the funny thing is it's hard to stop eating all the deserts now and trying to eat smaller protions, I feel like I am always looking forward to the next meal and desert. My belly always looks full and distended and clearly strain all of my shirts.

She looks great with the extra Lbs. I just hope she continues to keep packing on many more.

I wonder if she notices how much bigger my belly is.....it's funny when I hug and go to kiss her now standing up my belly hits into her first where I have to make extra effort to move forward to kiss her lips. Quite a turn on for me but I am kinda embarrased at other times knowing how much bigger I am and even feel.
13 years

Preference not fetish

I think pretty much every post has valid points and some posts are quite articulate and dead on!

Here are some of my thoughts and feelings on the topic which I am not even sure I can pin point the exact answers to:

My ideal, aesthetically in a woman would be very pretty facially and be considered by most men as beautiful but fat. For lack of a better description "an ex-cheerleader that has gained 100+ Lbs."

That is not to say a thinner woman can not catch my eye or that I find a model type unattractive but I certainly would love to see them gain weight and more times than not a lot of weight. Furthermore I might see a women I am not attracted to overall but very much appreciate her extra large butt or hips, big belly, Breasts or other particular body parts simply because they are fat and juicy. "So I feel this is my taste or preference with a twist of fat appreciation."

I also am very much turned on by weight gain. Ranging from the actress who has been starting to put on a few Lbs. and the tabloids have bikini pics of her all the way to the very large woman that gets very big 400+ Lbs. I do however have different times where I appreciate higher ends of weight gain versus other times such as just mild gains. This is the confusing part for me to even make sense out of. At the mild end of weight gain I almost consider this to be a preference but there are certainly times where I get way more into the weight gain and crave to see very large gains. During these times I dream of my wife gaining to way heavier weights than I could ever see her actually coming close to and how her figure would look that big and fat. I consider this to be a fetish for sure and the reason I say that is because of percentages. If There were a certain number of men polled to see if they thought my wife looks better at 170 Lbs. at 5' 3" currently or at 270 Lbs. I think I may be the only one to be in awe in a positive way of the 270 Lb. beauty. "This definitely makes me strange and diffrent from mainstream society for sure." Thats not to even mention I would also be very fixated or turned on by looking at the before and after differences like most of us into weight gain!

Then there is the next item which I truley consider different and purely a fetish. In fact it's what us FA's and weight gain people truley consider the triple crown at least I do. When the one you love not only gains weight. Intentionally or unintentionally its all good. But discussing it with you, role playing or teasing you with their gaining. It brings everything all together talking about weight gain. Even the modest gains my wife has had make me go completely erotic when she starts discussing how she can't fit into any of her clothes or she complains how fat she is getting while she continues to have a second dessert after a huge dinner. The unintentional gaining is probably even sexier to me regarding my wife, I just love it when she has been gaining weight and continues to eat almost as if she is in denial and continues to gain. My alltime favorite is when she has gained a good amount of weight and she makes efforts to try and diet or reduce her eating portions and she does not succeed and gives up effort usually she tries to not to let me know but I clearly see her diet attempts. While she is eating straight from the carton of icecream on the couch or pigging out on something she will say "are you ready to have a big fat wife?" She know's how much that would turn me on and it is almost to say to heck with all this hard work with her failed diet attempts. She generally loses most of of her gained weight in time. This to me is certainly a Fetish and in fact I don't even think my wife know's exactly how in depth I would like to talk about her gaining or she probably does not envision how fat I would love for her to become. So this makes me feel kind of strange. If she thought I would love to see her gain 100 Lbs. she would clearly think I am crazy. I believe she thinks 20-30 Lbs. more would be what I am talking about and she thinks I am definitely weird for that already.

"It's a tough world for us FA's / weight gain guys who are married to a beautiful woman that does not want to gain and fights what gaining they could easily do naturally even though they know we love them bigger" Not trying to be selfish just letting the other side of things out!
13 years

Weight gaining make you horny?

The biggest turn on for me is seeing my wife gaining weight (by far)!

The ultimate would be her liking it much more than she does.

Summary, would be one extremely happy husband with an ever growing fattened up wife....beautiful as can be!
13 years

How to break a plateau??

Try not eating for several days or going on a low food and calorie diet.

Then after these several days start eating every fattening thing you can and load tons of carbs and fatty deserts especially at night time.

This will trick your brain and slow your metabolism and store everything primarily into fat.
13 years

Stuffed or empty belly?

Very tough.....I would have to say I like the soft fat Jiggly belly.

But it is so tough because the though of a soft fat belly stuffed means it will only get fatter, bigger and eventually mor jiggly!

I like all and everything in between I guess.
13 years

Big fat arms

I love big fat soft cuddly upper arms on women!

It is something so high on my list of fat body parts on women that I totally love!
13 years

Appetite...

I have noticed and seen this eating/consuming large volumes of food go in cycles.

There are times where my wife consumes way more food and desserts than normal for several weeks or months and then it tapers off usually with some good gains.

Keep up the eating and work through the times where you are not so hungry by still eating lots of calories and you are sure to stretch you belly and gain loads of weight.
13 years

Fas - have you considered...

Always loved my Girlfriends gaining weight but never thought I would like it.

Until my metabolism changed after college and I was into my career, I gained a good amount of weight and all of a sudden it seemed I became fat. My girlfriend I lived with at the time got even fatter and for the first time I was in a mutual gaining relationship and it felt so right only when I was around her and we were fattening up together. When I was at work or out with friends I felt embarrassed by my new fat self.

I think if my wife got turned on by me gaining weight and she was gaining also I would 100% probably do it again. It is definitely the best experience I have ever had as an Fa "Mutual Gaining".
13 years

Growing fat fetish

Yelp....I have seen this brought up many times in FA and weight gain forums but I never get bored of it because I can relate so well to it. Here the road I have been through!

My love and weight range on girls/women has grown over the years for sure.

I used to think when I was a teenager that a girl who was a bit chubby with a thicker butt and a slight belly and fuller arms and Boobs was my ideal.

Then in college I saw girls turn into women and was amazed at their rate of growth throughout the semesters. I loved not only to see the regular size beauties start to get plump but I found myself desiring the Pretty girls that were plump out of High school turn fat in college all the while they were sucking down beers at a feverish pace and watch them eating large volumes of food at 2am. I was hooked I now liked beuatiful Fatties that were only going to get fatter.

After college I was in awe by my Beautiful girlfriend who was already slightly fat who became quite fat when we moved in together. I was totally addicted to her and her Fat female form, soft and sexy to the touch and so appealing in its movements to my eyes. All the weight gain and fat talk that she did was a total fantasy come true.

Over the past several years I have found myself looking at beuatiful women up to the 500 Lb. range but it certainly depends on the look and body type. I have a hard time putting a weight on what my exact taste is but I can say that I love beautiful women with pear shaped figures, huge round breasts, fluffy huge upper arms, massive butts and love handles with a great fat lower belly and huge round thighs from (5' 2" - 5' 8"smiley & (200 Lbs.- 500 Lbs.) Thats not to say a bit lighter or even a lot heavier I wouldnt find sexy.

When I was younger I could never imagine liking or desiring a girl/woman who was to fat and now I find attractive and desire what most would consider totally obese and hugely fat!!! Fat is so sexy!!!
13 years