confusedgirl wrote:
Oh, I have been in the same boat as you. I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from. Yes, there is a ton of pressure on women in Western culture to be super skinny. But you have to overcome it. Let me put it to you this way: at the end of the day, nobody gives a damn about you. If you try to please everyone, that only leads to being disrespected and unhappy in the end anywayz. I started out being 127 and now I am up to 160 and I just want to gain more weight. I am trying to get to be 180. My mother believes that ONLY a size 0 is beautiful, but it's not her body or her life. Life is short and you must do what makes you happy. Random people walking down the street don't give a damn how much you weigh. And there are many men who like to be with big girls or fatten up skinny girls. It's just not talked about since it is taboo. Look on YouTube, there are many brave girls that aren't afraid to show their weight gain and love to be chubby and full-figured. There are many, many girls that are proud of their big, beautiful bellies and thick, strong arms and legs. Gain weight, it will make you happy. You don't want to be 80 years old and wondering what it would have been like if you had tried it out. I understand and sympathize with your dilemma 100%.
I have to say, Confusedgirl, that you don't sound confused at all! In fact you have a great attitude.
12 years
confusedgirl wrote:
No, thank you. I do not want to be force-fed by anyone. However I do like videos of men gently and tenderly feeding their women and rubbing their expanding bellies with great anticipation. That's totally awesome and I'd love to be fed and fattened that way.
That's good too! Though I must point out that the evil feeder does not necessarily force you. He may just take away your TV privileges or something like that if you don't eat enough.
12 years
I've had eczema on my legs on and off. I haven't noticed a correlation with weight, but I've found wearing silk pants and using silk sheets to be helpful, albeit expensive!
12 years
No, this is totally messed up. You should never pressure, trick or manipulate anyone into gaining or losing weight.
It's his body, his decision. You can certainly ask him to gain and/or try to talk him into it, but that's it.
12 years
zenmetsu wrote:
oh i wish I could... she'd kill me though, lol.
she won't even let me take pics of her naked since she knows that I will post them online...
You'd post them without her permission?
12 years
Oh, I thought you meant they had classes in how to be obese...
12 years
fat apple wrote:I can, but rarely do.
I've worked hard for my glorious flab. Why would I try to hide it?
Because it makes the day when you CAN'T hide it that much more exciting!
12 years
Maybe you can convert her...to a feedee!
12 years
Many feedees (not all!) are pretty lazy and can't always be bothered to fetch themselves snacks. Even when they're hungry!
Such feedees will eat way more if they have a good feeder.
12 years
