Fantasy Feeder

Should i commit to gaining?

MrRadishlegs:
Before this begins I'd like to say I understand it's common for people to dislike giving advice for someone they don't know at all and that is 100% rational and I do have an understanding that this at the end of the day is my decision but I really am in the middle on this.

Some background info: I'm a guy that can easily get fat but also can lose weight if I choose to. In the past year with the aid of my ex i went from 95kg(209lbs) to 120kg(260lbs), I got tons of stretch marks and I was happy about that and the weight gain but after the uni(college) break and break up(relationship) where i gained 10kg(22lbs) of the total a lot of my friends and family were telling me to slim down and due to my indifference( not due to judgement) for gaining or losing I started going to the gym and have lost a lot of fat and am at the point where if I continue to lose weight I'm going to need to buy new clothes.

I've always thought about fully committing on my own, and now that I'm single again I thought it could be the right time but have never had the nudge to just commit too it on my own, I'm mentally strong enough to not let friends and family sway my decisions if i were to truly commit but need someone to tell me to either slim down, commit( my goal would be a belly hang... +≈25kg(60lbs)) or stay where i am (109kg(240lbs)). I know where I'm posting this and the bias and irony is not lost on me and there is definitely a higher chance that people will tell me to gain weight then lose it but whatever.

Ps. Sorry for the long winded 'essay' and please let me know your thoughts no matter whether your telling me to gtfo the site or telling me to commit

Thanks in advance

Don't ask internet strangers what you should do with your body. This is something you need to decide for yourself. Making a list of pros and cons can help make it easier to decide.

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Subcutaneous vs visceral fat

MarieTrans:
I don't go to the gym but I do get exercise, it's important for everyone to get some amount in whatever way

Yup. You don't gotta go to the gym to get exercise. You don't even need to by fancy equipment to do it either.

I remember growing up, my grandma would use cans as weights. My uncle would use us as dumbells.

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Just thought of a topic, what happened to some web models. just a general question really.

CerealkillerOo:
People like Echo, Barbie, Valerie and the like. Some made content then gradually stopped. Any word of their present status or stituation.

I mean, in general, most feedist models don't stick around long. There's this near constant pressure from the fans to keep gaining and gaining. And you keep trying to make showier and more spectacular content.

Eventually that takes a toll on your body. Either you get sick and stop or you decide what's good for yourself and set boundaries with your audience.

On that note, a lot of sex workers in general don't stay in the business forever. In fact, on average, the few that don't quit within the first 3 months are only around for a few years.

camgirltoolbox.com/long-can-camming-career-last/
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/jan/14/cam-girl-webcamming-porn-industry

As such, I don't expect much different from feedist models. Even outside of the feedist specific issues, there are other reasons why someone might tap out. I've heard of people finding religion, having kids, wanting to do something else with their lives, etc. etc. Plus, their fans are really mean.

I've seen the comments under a lot of their videos. Their fans think they own these women and their bodies. So when they don't get what they want or the model places clear, firm boundaries, they get nasty. Eventually, they decide enough is enough and bounce.

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What's good on tv?

Triclipsemoon:
Just looking for TV show suggestions.

New, Old, Cult Classics, share your favorites with us!

Mine:
Firefly
Toriko
Naruto
Bridgerton
Pretty much any cooking competition show

Munchies:
Star Trek
Star Wars: The Clone Wars
Father Brown
Murder She Wrote
Poirot
Monk
Justic League
Justice League Unlimited
Batman: TAS
Superman: TAS
Static Shock
Batman Beyond
Teen Titans

BigBallBellyGirl:
LOVE all things Trek. 😊

Thoughts on Lower Decks?

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Subcutaneous vs visceral fat

Danny823:
I’ve mentioned this on other posts, but I’ll say it again even though it’s controversial/unpopular. The best way to gain subcutaneous fat instead of visceral is exercise. Exercise generally burns visceral fat BEFORE subcutaneous fat. Even if you just hit the gym 3 times a week it’ll make a huge difference, and your weight gain will be much more soft and healthy. That’s the reason sumo wrestlers are so healthy, they have minimal visceral fat from exercising so much

Munchies:
I wouldn't say it's controversial so much as some (emphasis on some) feedists are afraid of exercise. They are scared that they'll lose weight, which is something they need to unpack.

Nyarlep:
Something you might find interesting is that at least from overlapping interactions with trans and feedist communities; some feedees/gainers seem to experience something akin to weight dysphoria where they feel uncomfortable being too small or afraid or slimming down at all. It’s not a 1to1 obviously but I’ve found the comparisons quite fascinating.

I'm aware of it. There are a lot trans feedists. I'm on the outside of all this, but I feel like it hits trans AMABs harder than trans AFABs. There's a fear of looking too masculine when you exercise. That said, there are ways to exercise - even not on HRT - that won't make you look more masculine.

And if you are on HRT (especially estrogen) exercise is important for maintaining your bone health.

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How to keep motivated

J8o8h8n:
I was wondering how people are able to keep themselves motivated and consistently work towards gaining and getting even fatter without quitting? What are some tips for staying motivated and pushing yourself to continue, even when it gets a bit tough?

If you aren't motivated to keep gaining, step back and ask yourself why. Are you so focused about the destination that you forgot about the journey? Are your goals too hard to reach? Is your original motivation no longer useful?

If I recall correctly, you are a min-max gainer. In other words, you are trying to do every to optimize your gains. You want to reach your goals as fast as possible.

Min-max gaining is great in the short-term but impossible in the long-term. You will lose your motivation when things get hard or no longer fun.

This is why I preach hedonistic gaining. It's all about finding your bliss. You probably won't gain as quickly, but you'll have more fun doing it. You are less likely to lose motivation as well.

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How to post image in forum?

SquishMaster:
Is the bbcode something that you get when you upload an image to your profile?

FF Team:
BBCode is just a way to format your text and posts in the forums. You don't need to have an image uploaded to your profile to access it.

There's a short guide on how to use it here:

fantasyfeeder.com/articles/view

All you need is the image url to use the [img] [/img] BBCode tags

Again the easiest way to upload an image to the forums is to make a post, then use the image attachment button. So on your post above mine.... click on the camera icon at the bottom left (inbetween edit and delete). This will open an upload form, select your image and it will add it to the forum post.

Just wanted to add onto this.

Uploading the image is the easiest option, but it will always be at the bottom of the post. This may not work if you need the image in a specific location.

The BBCode is a valid option. However, it isn't always necessary. If you want to post an image from the web, you can right click it and select "Copy Image Link". If you past that into your forum post, you don't need to bother with the tag.

Keep in mind that if you do this straight from Google Images, the image link may go well over the character limit. If that happens, you may need to visit the page and copy the image link from there.

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Subcutaneous vs visceral fat

Danny823:
I’ve mentioned this on other posts, but I’ll say it again even though it’s controversial/unpopular. The best way to gain subcutaneous fat instead of visceral is exercise. Exercise generally burns visceral fat BEFORE subcutaneous fat. Even if you just hit the gym 3 times a week it’ll make a huge difference, and your weight gain will be much more soft and healthy. That’s the reason sumo wrestlers are so healthy, they have minimal visceral fat from exercising so much

I wouldn't say it's controversial so much as some (emphasis on some) feedists are afraid of exercise. They are scared that they'll lose weight, which is something they need to unpack.

8 months

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What's good on tv?

Triclipsemoon:
Just looking for TV show suggestions.

New, Old, Cult Classics, share your favorites with us!

Mine:
Firefly
Toriko
Naruto
Bridgerton
Pretty much any cooking competition show

Star Trek
Star Wars: The Clone Wars
Father Brown
Murder She Wrote
Poirot
Monk
Justic League
Justice League Unlimited
Batman: TAS
Superman: TAS
Static Shock
Batman Beyond
Teen Titans

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Favorite feedee model?

Kdwil1999:
Anybody got a favorite feedee model?

My favorite model will always be bigbellybecky but a close 2nd would be cakedupkayla😌

Munchies:
Idk if he's a model perse, but my fav is Daniel Keaton.

Kdwil1999:
I never heard of her but I'll be sure to check them out

Daniel Keaton is a man.

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