Why do you associate being fat with masculinity? I do not. I see it more neutral. I mean if you feel more masculine as a man as fat that is.
1 year
I mean yeah cream cheese is amazing but on toast? I mean I’m not gonna say I haven’t eaten an entire stick with like 4 or 5 bagels before… but an entire thing on a singular piece of toast? Sorry just in awe of it being on toast to begin with tbh
1 year
First of all, Cream Cheese on Toast?
1 year
It would really nice if we could have a way to like or react to forum posts that don’t require a post that bog down a thread because there’s a lot of times where I want to respond to something but someone already said it.
1 year
I am in a mood I just can’t shake rn I just have food and getting fat on my mind on repeat. It’s not like effecting my day to day activity much but it’s there like I wanna stuff and stuff but I know in a few days or a week or so I’ll be back to where I was about a week ago. Part of its triggered by the fact I weighed in at my heaviest and I broke 400 lbs. I just feel like there’s no release, and it’s not like a sexual one.
1 year
Who has the time and money to go out anymore? also we’re coming off Covid and fat people are disproportionally effected by it. Also, being big around big crowds of people? Um cluster phobia?
1 year
Munchies: If the guy isn't secure in himself, he'll stop putting himself out there.
This can be said for a lot of things.
1 year
I think most fat guys who aren’t feedists are a bit self conscious about their bodies, I know as I ballooned to 300 I definitely was, it took a lot of self acceptance and body positivity to get where I am now.. and honestly I’m just at a point where I’m more content with pursing my hobbies and stuff or having a big greasy pizza or few double cheeseburgers than I am pursing women
I can only speak for myself but I would feel like this is a shared sentiment.
1 year
Rosiemoanz:
yeah..it makes me a little scared to be honest… he told me he’d of course hold my hand all the way through, and we can stop any time, and said we will focus on small increases! that all sounds easy enough but it still scares me that I might get so turned on that I won’t be able to ask him to stop..which there lies the reason I feel like I sound “silly”. I’m already this big at 22 and I can’t stop eating. I feel like it’s inevitable.
it sounds like hes willing to listen to you and your desires, its on you to set boundaries and let him know you are in control at least, of what you want.. your body might decide otherwise and it will take willpower to resist cravings and your appeitie but thats part of it!
1 year
I had another yesterday when I tried to put on a 3XL tshirt and my belly poked out the bottom, I am firmly in the 4XL verging on 5XL camp haha
1 year
