Funny thing is I prefer myself muscular and cut and thats how my wife likes me. Actually she would like me even more cut than bulky muscle. I happen to be pretty bulky muscle since I have matured and at times can cut up a bit to a 4pack if you will in the abs dept..

I think if my wife would gain and let herself get a lot fatter I would probably not need the fix of letting myself fatten up a bit from over eating and just be able to enjoy all of her gaining and fattening.

On the flip side like with my old girlfriend if I was with a woman who was gaining and getting fatter and liked and wanted me fatter I probably would get pretty big in another mutual gaining relationship, but then fill the illside of fellings at time being fat and overweight.

Certain times where I am totally fixated on gaining in general and other times where it is in my head much less but regardless it is always there. Usually when I am more sexed up it always is intensified. Sex is always best with foreplay of talking about fat and mostly gaining.

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I would engage in the exact same gluttenous behavior with my overfed fat sexy girlfriend. We would literally eat from the time I walked in up until the time we made love sometimes during and directly following till we went to bed (which by the way was a queen size that we had easily out grown we were over 500 Lbs. combined weight bouncing around on a relatively small bed comparatively.

The roller coaster and vicious cycle went on and on.

So, I say start off by eating and centering everything both of you do around fattening meals and desserts and as both of you start to fatten up flirt and tease her a bit and tell her how much you like her new softness. You say she is chubby already so I am sure before you know it both of you will be on your way to wider horizons.

It was Unbelievable together for me but definitely had a negative side a lot of the time. Till this day whenever I gain a bit of weight I get some good feelings ***ociated with it and then feel some negative ones, in fact I have just gained a good 15 Lbs. in the last couple months and all of my clothes are tighter and my belly is starting to get in the way a bit more and already I have these same fun and yet negative feelings arising, one minute I am thinking about dieting down and working out harder and the next I am slightly turned on by my wife noticing I have gained. She does not like me getting a bigger belly or gaining weight so she will sort of council me by saying or pointing out "wow, someone is getting a belly on him again" and she has quite a bit of fat on her gorgeous figure which I love and she does not. During these times I make sure to accentuate how tight my T shirts are and show my belly sticking out. Currently I even force my belly out a bit more when I give her a hug and kiss her (she surely has to notice because the other day we could barely touch lips without squeezing into each other and our bellies getting in the way) hoping to get another snide comment about my bigger belly and the weight I have gained. So I decided to pig out and for several days its almost as if I cant get enough food lately and see if she comments when my belly is even fatter and I have gained more.

Then on the flipside once again I was at the gym and clearly felt fatter and was a bit embarrased and I want to diet down and get some abs going again.

I guess this is my weight gain roller coaster wih me.....as far as my wife I want her to keep fattening up more and more and never ever lose any weight....so that it will be so nice trying to kiss her lips with her m***ive fat belly getting in the way!

Hope it goes well with you and your girlfriend....keep posting info.

I agree with Kid A "when she grabs your fat while making out, enjoy it"

Kinda long take on my similar situation with regard to Weight gain is Mutual gaining.

A funny thing for me in which I have only really experienced a good amount twice in my life.

I have always loved my girlfriends or my wife to gain lots of weight. I never thought about myself gaining for the erotic nature only to be more musculer which I could never do to keep on the bulk muscle back in the day.

Although right after college I moved in with my college sweetheart and we both gained a lot of weight together in a relatively short period of time. I knew she was fattening up at a rapid pace which I loved but I was in denial and didnt even realize I was getting so fat to. It was great when I finally realized and we would both tease each other with how fat we were both getting in our new mutual gaining relationship. We were pigging out and making each other fatter by the day and loving it....it was the most erotic gaining situation I have ever had.

But when we were around our other couple friends and or I was at work or work functions I was totally embarrased by the new fat me. Everybody made comments to us directly or even behind are backs as a new fat couple. My girlfriend had always gone through times where she would gain a lot of weight but not me and for the first time i felt the eyes on me and how everyone was watching and commenting about the changes to me and us. Comments like "wow, you two have certainly been enjoying living together havn't you" or even something as blunt as while we are all out at a dinner together "you two must be starving, considering how big your appetites must be nowadays let's get the waitress over here right away" insinuating that we must be gluttons and can not go very long without stuffing our faces (which was definetly true but embarrasing all the same). Or at work I was being referred to as the heavy set guy and always asked if I wanted more food (There are definetly a lot of closet feeders out there).

I was ashamed at times of how fat I became and embarr***ed in many situations not at all by how fat my girlfriend had become but only my own gain. I felt insecure and less masculine in settings but when both my girlfriend and I were alone together I was Mr. fat belly erotic guy having her bounce and jiggle my huge belly and slapping all her new lovely fat around and loving every minute of her teasing and talking about how fat I was and how much fatter I will probably get.

It was like a fat roller coaster of emotions for both of us but mainly me. I loved it that she was so fat and that we would constantly talk about gaining and fat and we would stuff each other with huge meals and deserts and it would be the most erotic evening. I would wake up and get dressed in the morning to realize how my belly and body strained my slacks and dress shirts to the point of constricting my every movement. Every movement I made I felt so huge and fat and struggled with my breath with the easiest of physical tasks. My girlfriend would make a huge breakfast that she would usually keep piling on more pancakes and eggs on my plate while I was still eating off of it as if it was a never ending all you can eat buffet accept I never had to get up to refill it. By the time I walked out the door I felt like an overfed, hardly could move stuffed walrus, and at that moment I was embarrased and ashamed and didn't even want to see any one at work. By the time I got home that night

I have noticed similar changes in weight or fat distribution with my wife. When she first gained a lot of weight it seemed that her but and thighs started receiving all the weight first (which I loved) and then her lower belly really fattened up (which I loved) and stuck out quite far it almost looked as if she was pregnant again.

After she lost the majority of all her weight she has several times gained some of it back and her belly has never stuck out that far again but the fat has distributed wider on her belly and hips (which have become much softer and fatter) and she has developed a bit more fat on her upper belly. In fact I was comparing some pics the other day and I noticed from a "front or back angle" how much wider she looks now than even when she was quite a bit heavier before. From the side angle she can hide a lot of her size. Her thighs and butt still get nice and big but they seem stronger with less cellulite which I am fine with. I think with an extra 10+ lbs. her butt and thighs will start to see more cellulite when she gains.

I really want her to gain and get much fatter and appreciate every gorgeous pound she develops on her figure. It's kind of funny some days she seems way skinny to me and then other days I will look at her and think wow, she is getting pretty fat all of a sudden! She is not into gaining at all but most of the time she doesn't have the will power to control her eating this coupled with less workouts equals her gaining. She has been on a slow gaining streak for the past couple of years....she has probably put on 20 Lbs. over the past 2 years which is great but I always hope for more.

1) watching my wife have an extremely fattening and large meal and going back for seconds on dessert and waiting to see where all these calories will find there way on to her figure.

2) watching my wife struggle to get into her tight designer jeans by hopping up and down trying to pull them on and watching her growing sexy belly and lovehandles jiggle and bounce, not to mention her over sized breasts. Then she will usually follow by saying to me "I am such a fat cow"!

3) Recently I have been having a fantasy where my wife gains a lot of weight and is fatter than I could ever imagine. She comes over to me eating a donut and having another one in her other hand and says to me with some puppy dog eye's mumbling slightly with the donut in her mouth "why did you let me get so m***ively Fat" ?

I have made comment on a board somewhere maybe it was here, about a restaurant I used to frequent and had not seen a waitres in a while and she developed quite a large belly along with weight accumulating else where. I also noticed that there was a new waitress working there since I stopped going in who had a exaggerated belly for how fat she was not to mention letting her work shirt ride up completely exposing her lower belly/gut. I couldnt help thinking that they possibly were gaining together or one was feeding the other because they were quite friendly and the one with her belly exposed would bump or lightly push into the other one from time to time once with her belly hitting into her and they would both smile at each other as if they were having fun with how fat they both were. I would love to know if my thoughts were correct.

I have noticed with myself in the past and even my wife that it usually seems that gains come sveral weeks after the over indulgence or heavier eating.

Its almost like I notice, Wow.... I cant stop eating lately and my portions are much larger with out even getting full, my appetite really opens up for several weeks to a month. Then all of a sudden two + weeks later I cant button any of my pants on my slacks and I am a bit fatter and sure enough I have gained 10+ Lbs.

Thats my experience but I wonder how that works on a cruise for other people they seem to notice there huge gains right when they get off the cruise or even on it after the extra indulgence.

Pretty interesting!

Next month try drinking a Baskin Robbins Chocolate oreo milkshakeevery day or at least 5 days a week which are 2600 calories each.

The new theme will be You got Fat!!!

I would love for my wife to get a sudden addiction to these milk shakes and watch her grow on a daily basis before my eyes. "So Sexy"

My wife tends to eat a regular volume of food in her meals most of the time. I notice she gains weight when she eats more snacks and desserts. I will buy on occassion ice cream and cookies in hopes that she will love eating them up but she has never really said anything about it and just eats them up, which is great, but last week I bought some hagen daas and Ben n Jerrys and some Chocolates more in abundance then typical. To my surprise she said to me "Yummy" I saw you bought me some goodies and she polished it off in 4 days.

So, I just bought her way more of the Chocolates (3 Lbs) and the same 2 quarts of ice cream, and I am getting concerned she is going to say something to the effect of "why did you buy me so much" which will kind of suck, but I am hoping she will say "Yummy" again or just eat them very quickly and then we can have a pattern of just increasing all the goodies.

She knows I would love for her to fatten up but she has always fought it with exception of certain times going with it for a while and getting fatter. Her weakness is desserts and snacks and when she has gained the most other than being pregnant it was when she was eating all these snacks more frequently.

What are the best snacks as far as calories to gain weight with?

Pretty interesting to play around with!
It is a pretty subtle differance between daily calorie intake and all the factors, I guess the thing to do is have Ice cream, cookies and chocolates around for my wife all the time so she doesnt nessesarily have to eat huge meals but consistently eat calorie laiden snacks to gain weight even if she is working out.

Thought is I would love to see some good gains on her figure.