Many feedees (not all!) are pretty lazy and can't always be bothered to fetch themselves snacks. Even when they're hungry!

Such feedees will eat way more if they have a good feeder.

The advice I gave Amanda might help:

askdrfeeder.dyndns.org/amanda.html

It worked for her.

If you want to provoke comments, I suggest the classic scenario:

You look in the mirror and study your too-tight outfit and say to a friend: "Does this blouse make me look fat?"

You put it out there but don't pressure her and don't make too big a deal out of it. You have to say it in a way that doesn't sound like you're unhappy with her current weight.

Women usually don't want to gain weight, but they do sometimes get turned on to gaining by their bfs, so it's worth a try.

It's only an addiction if you want to stop and can't.

She would be average-sized. We fall in love. I start telling her (as casually as I can manage) about Feedism.

"Oh yeah, I know what that is!" she says. "I've always wanted to do that but I figured it would be too hard to find a guy if I was fat...but if YOU'RE into it, that's perfect!"

And then we each empower each other to live the dream.

The details--her being dominant, me being dominant, neither, force feeding or not, humiliation or not--don't matter to me, as long as she gets as fat as she wants.

"Deciding to Get Fat" on my site may help.

Freshman35 gave it a shot:


Nice try! You need to gain more though!

Passing the Wall Test would be a good start: fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/forum/view-thread.php

If your toes touch you do not pass, sorry. Keep eating!