Enas:
Im curious, why is the statistic higher for men? O.o

Getobese:
4% of Americans have a fat fetish – making it one of the most common fetishes in the US.

*** 1 in 14 men has a fat fetish Thats (7%) ***

Nutmeg:
What are your tips for virtual feeding when weight gain is not the goal? They want the experience of feeding from a distance.

Ceepert:
Almost noone adds the country they are from in the title of posts in the Personal ads section, especially dating and meetups.
There already is the "current status" circle on everyone showing if they are "online" "afk" or "offline" in the bottom right of their profile picture.
Would it be possible to add the country flag of the user to the bottom left?
I assume this isnt a problem for people form the US as most users are from there, but especially for pretty much everyone else its quite anoying cause you have to open each post to see where the user is from.

Hun, are you safe right now?

Because the more of your posts I read, the more concerned for your safety I become.

Karenjenk:
Im safe.
its not liek soneone is tying me up and feeding me.... not for over a year anyway. i loved those sessions.
if only there was a way to stuff and feel full and not gain so much.
we talked this morning and he said he was committed ot helping my by buying better food. lean mean and salads and the like.

i still want, need?, to make him happy though. but what happens to me of smething happens to him?

Munchies:
Have y'all discussed that? Because every couple needs to have a plan about what they'd do if the other was no longer around - especially if one person is reliant on the other.

Seen what happens when those plans aren't in place. Not just got divorce or abandonment. But other things too like job loss, illness, or death.

It's an uncomfy conversation, but one you need to have - especially for your sake.

Karenjenk:
We have, i have. he wont take it seriously. some of you haveb een sending me messages abotu the fatnasy part of this and yes it is exciting. a total rush. but the reality is exactly what you say. my fear is not that he will run off and leave me but that he will be in a car accident and i will have to be a burden to someone else. its one thing to have him help me get up. it would be a totally different thing if my sister had to move back in or have my BFF take care of me until im on my own again.
425 this morning.
i have hand weights ive been using to build up stregnth.
and ive been walking for 4-5 minutes at a time. several times a day. i'll do mare as im able.

Cattastrophe:
First I would get really active and work out regularly. Not in the way I do now but strength training mixed in with cardio. And I would need a feeder that is on board with this. I have them meal prep and keep track of goals. After a few month when my body has adjusted to the changes that when we'd start the gaining part. But for that there are multiple options/ideas.

Option 1
I stop working out but my feeder still feeds me as if I am. This means the high calorie high protein meals that would have fuelled a work our and training to lift weights goes to a body that sits down all day and lounges. And see how fast i loose muscle and gain fat from lounging but eating as if I still work out.
Option 2
This one works best for cardio but also works for weight lifting. I have my feeder stop the diet made for working out the first few weeks. This means that the diet that mostly likely was only high protein high calorie health meals turns into normal tasty but fatening meals. And the Feeder starts buying snacks to graze on during the day. Then see how long before the weight piles on as non nutrional and fatty foods are introduced into my life. This one works best if my feeder doesn't tell me we are switching and still gaslights me that we are in the part of just working out. And gaslights me into thinking that I'm not gaining weight and they aren't trying to fatten me up.
Option 3
I got this idea from a fanfic but I take a break for 2 months where I let my feeder stuff me. No work outs just stuffing for 2 months like on their birthday or something. Then after the two months see how it affects the working out and the diet. The feeder would stop regulating and just prepare meals. Do I start snacking more often and loose motivation to continue working out. How does the weight gained in those 2 months affect the work out.
Option 4
I continue to work out, but my feeder stuffs me regularly. Then, the feeders goal is to outback the working out. Like a dirty bulk, but the goal is to get me to stop working out. Seeing as the fat added to my body makes me lose motivation and makes working out harder.
Option 5
I stop working out, and my feeder stuffs me regularly and sees how fast i lose the muscles and gain fat. See how fast they can reverse my progress and plump me up.

Theres a few more of these ideas, but they are pretty much just different variations of these 5.

Hun, are you safe right now?

Because the more of your posts I read, the more concerned for your safety I become.

Karenjenk:
Im safe.
its not liek soneone is tying me up and feeding me.... not for over a year anyway. i loved those sessions.
if only there was a way to stuff and feel full and not gain so much.
we talked this morning and he said he was committed ot helping my by buying better food. lean mean and salads and the like.

i still want, need?, to make him happy though. but what happens to me of smething happens to him?

Karenjenk:
For three weeks now I have needed help getting out of bed. The first time i was in shock. I've tied a rope to the bedframe and door to use to help me up and that worked for a while but now I cant do it by myself.

I never intended to be like this. trapped in so many ways. Most of the time is is embarrassing and degrading. I just don't understand how this also is exciting sometimes. I should be ashamed only

FAsasquatch:
First off, I know that sounds bad, but I have no interest in cheating on my wife in any way, shape, or form. I love her more than anything, we share this kink together and we are both very loyal to each other. I’m perfectly satisfied by her and she I.

That all being said, I really miss role playing with her and we’ve both been so busy it’s hard to find the time and I get so bored at work sometimes I’m just sitting for hours with nothing to do. I kind of just want to RP with strangers sometimes, I haven’t because it feels wrong. I know we aren’t doing anything physical and I have no emotions for the other person, but it’s still somewhat intimate I guess and feels like cheating.

And now I’m looking into some ttrpg systems like Gorgeworld where you’re playing with multiple people and now I’m wondering if that counts. She can just get really self conscious sometimes. As I said we share the same fetish, but she has a hard time putting on weight and constantly kicks herself for it. Even though I’ve assured her over and over again that she’s beautiful to me no matter how big or small she is.

I don’t know, I guess I’m just asking if RP can considered a form of cheating and if so is it just across the board or does it matter if the RP is fetish based and not really intimacy based. I really want an outlet that’s just kind of my thing. I would have her join me, but she’s really shy and she’s not interested in it as much.

Basically I’m asking would I be a bad person if every once in awhile I rp’d with a stranger or multiple strangers, had our fun and kept it at that? Or is this just not a road worth going down? Because I’m happy with what I have and don’t want to ruin it over something stupid.

Splash92:
I’m usually the one that likes feeding women but I’m now curious about gaining myself. Is that something that other women are into? Maybe more so than actually gaining themselves? I have an active job so that may hinder my gaining abilities but just curious if anyone has any advice with that?