Winter is coming make sure all your gear fits from last year

MickRidem:
Y'know what someone should invent? A widening strip. A piece that has zippers to fit your coat on each side, so you can have this widening option. Like a leaf in a dining room table.

Someone, go get rich off of that. 😁🤣

Munchies:
You will be happy to know this exists. It's marketed for pregnant women, but it exists.

makemybellyfit.com/products/universal-jacket-extender

MickRidem:
Well buckle-my-buttons, if that ain't just the greatest thing!! 😁🄰 I will need to remember this when I start to outgrow my current winter stuff!! Thank you!


You're welcome!
7 months

Moderation.

Enas:
What counts as derailment though? Sometimes it is necesary to talk about a relevant but different, than the original, topic in order to understand the original one. In a natural conversation that happens often and its not a bad thing. Why is this always treated as a derailment here?


Thank you very kindly for proving my point, Enas.

And with that, bless your heart, you sweet summer child. I shall go about the rest of my day now.
8 months

Moderation.

Enas:
I was planning to open a discussion about moderation myself but i wasnt super motivated. Now that i see one, i should intervene before it goes horribly wrong.

If we are going to have a discussion about moderation, which i hope this is one, we first need to actually understand clearly what moderation is in the first place and agree on a single definition. We can, and we should debate what definition we should proceed with, that is something that needs to happen. Thats because we cannot have any discussion, with which we will reach a helpfull logical conclusion, if Everyone's definitions contradict each other. I think a good way to do this would be to define what are the needs of a community that moderation is an attempt to satisfy, from which we can easily figure out what should the goals of moderation be, and then we can finally figure out how FantasyFeeder should be moderated, so that these goals will be achieved. I think this is a good outline of what we should be really doing, so i would like us to (hopefully) proceeded with that,unless someone can come up with a better idea.

So, what is everyone's thesis on the first question "What are the needs of this community that moderation ought to cover"? (Lets put the Hegelian dialectic to work, and see what are the good points that people bring up, and use those to synthesize a more developed thesis!)

Munchies:
Enas ... there is a literal moderator in this thread. She's the site owner's right-hand woman. Right now, all she is asking for are examples for better praxis. She doesn't need you to tell her how to perform debate.

This is akin to reading a bunch of books about surgical practice and telling a surgeon how to do their job.

All that said, if I am blunt, this is an example of what Morbidly is talking about.

Enas:
I was refering to everybody. I think pluralism is needed here more than anything.

There is also a long debate to be held on what moderation should be in the first place. Im here to talk about that, not to instruct. That is also why i didnt express my thesis on it, i dont have one. The best i can do is see problems in other people's thesis. Which is gonna be helpfull later on, hopefully.


Aaaaand this is what Morbidly was talking about, C00kie. Stuff like this will happen. Some people will throw in their two cents, and most will try to move on to the original topic. But you have some people who just refuse to read the room.

Eventually, the mods will lock the thread. If they deem it worth saving, they will delete all the comments that aren't about the original topic—even the ones that criticize the people who derailed the topic—and then reopen the thread with instructions to stay on topic.

This can leave the people pushing back against the person/people who pushed back against the derailer - even the gentle, respectful ones - with a bad taste in their mouths.
8 months

Moderation.

Enas:
I was planning to open a discussion about moderation myself but i wasnt super motivated. Now that i see one, i should intervene before it goes horribly wrong.

If we are going to have a discussion about moderation, which i hope this is one, we first need to actually understand clearly what moderation is in the first place and agree on a single definition. We can, and we should debate what definition we should proceed with, that is something that needs to happen. Thats because we cannot have any discussion, with which we will reach a helpfull logical conclusion, if Everyone's definitions contradict each other. I think a good way to do this would be to define what are the needs of a community that moderation is an attempt to satisfy, from which we can easily figure out what should the goals of moderation be, and then we can finally figure out how FantasyFeeder should be moderated, so that these goals will be achieved. I think this is a good outline of what we should be really doing, so i would like us to (hopefully) proceeded with that,unless someone can come up with a better idea.

So, what is everyone's thesis on the first question "What are the needs of this community that moderation ought to cover"? (Lets put the Hegelian dialectic to work, and see what are the good points that people bring up, and use those to synthesize a more developed thesis!)


Enas ... there is a literal moderator in this thread. She's the site owner's right-hand woman. Right now, all she is asking for are examples for better praxis. She doesn't need you to tell her how to perform debate.

This is akin to reading a bunch of books about surgical practice and telling a surgeon how to do their job.

All that said, if I am blunt, this is an example of what Morbidly is talking about.
8 months

Moderation.

Morbidly A Beast:
Locking things up when people have disagreements is not moderation it’s just censorship.


And just letting someone derail a conversation while it’s happening then coming back later when everyone has said there peace isn’t moderation it’s just being a heavy handed janny.

SomeFella:
Jannies with heavy hands are the best spankers.

When I read the post topic "Moderation", I honestly thought people were about to be told to slow down with the gaining.


Time and place, love.
8 months

Fetish in food-bulged full belly

LouisXXIV:
This topic was inspired by

fantasyfeeder.com/forum/posts

Different from many people here who are aroused by stuffing by relating it to the expectation of gaining or so, I am more excited by eating itself. I like eating myself as well as watching others indulging, and admiring the food bulge curve on the upper abdomen, showing how much food have been swallowed down and how full we are. When eating to very full, the streched stomach will bump out and the soft fatty skin becomes tight, that is when I feel most pleasant. This feeling is unralated to gaining or eating for me - or to say, my fetish is more in the bulged curve.

I like it especially when the eater is lighter-weighted because that will make the bulge stand out more. This is less sexually affairs though, but some kind of exciteness.

Is there anyone share the fetish alike? And are there any sub-forum, forum or video/pic site about such feitsh?


Feeder here. I adore belly bulges. I don't care what's inside so long as the belly is as tight as possible.

I love hand-feeding my feedee or watching him feed himself. They way he wraps his full lips around the fork or how his face jiggles as he chews is divine. Hypnotic even.

But I really love it when he is full, but not stuffed and I am on top of his belly. He loves the internal and external pressure, and I love how good it feels.

His full belly is my second favorite place to sit 🤭
8 months

Winter is coming make sure all your gear fits from last year

MickRidem:
Y'know what someone should invent? A widening strip. A piece that has zippers to fit your coat on each side, so you can have this widening option. Like a leaf in a dining room table.

Someone, go get rich off of that. 😁🤣


You will be happy to know this exists. It's marketed for pregnant women, but it exists.

makemybellyfit.com/products/universal-jacket-extender
8 months