Well, I figure someone does not want to talk, or talk to me. However, if they are honest, I will remove them from my buddy list. If they ignore me, I'll try again another day. So, if you want less IMs from me, be honest.
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katsujinken wrotejohnxyz wrote
I've had women do this to me in the past. There was a fire at their job, they had a family emergency, etc. The key is to cut your losses and not to meet the person. If it doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.
Well that's easy to say when that woman isn't the only person you've ever met who doesn't give you blanks stares when you talk about all the things you love ..oh ya and when she isn't the most beautiful woman in the world.
I had both & lost them. It really sucks to care about someone so much that you'd be willing to overcome any obsticle for them but even then, they end up not waiting for you on the other side despite what what they told you.
It's worse than that in my situation because she's destroying herself with her alternative. And what alterative do I get in return? To be with someone just because they're convenient & be haunted by their pale comparison.
Ya, the losses are cut pretty clearly.
Many many years ago I had a blind date with probably the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. She was the only person I had ever seen who had all of the physical attributes that I like in a woman.
I drove into Washington DC, paid to park, and was screened by the front desk and waited for her to come downstairs to meet me. When she finally came down, she told me that a friend of hers had just called, and that she had not seen him in a while, and she would rather be with him than me. She then told me "maybe some other time." I told her not a chance in hell and walked out angry.
I would rather be with someone who is less attractive, less friendly, or even be with no one at all then to be with someone who jerks me around.
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Why should this site help protect the people who are in the closet?
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I've had women do this to me in the past. There was a fire at their job, they had a family emergency, etc. The key is to cut your losses and not to meet the person. If it doesn't seem right, it probably isn't.
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I remember it. I enjoyed it.
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The more you eat, the more you can eat. Just eat a little more than is comfortable for you.
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Usually the fakes are pretty stupid, and sooner or later they are figured out.
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Gaining is not good for somone who bends to peer pressure.
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Not everyone who doesn't post a picture is a fake. But we all know what people are talking about. People who say that they are 1000 or 2000 pounds, and when you ask them questions, have no clue what it is like to be over 500.
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One thing, is that people are what they are. Even when people accept themselves as BBW/BHMs, they still feel insecure about something. I love absolutely huge boobs. But few of the women I was with long term had a large chest. There's just other things that are more important. Of course, if someone with large boobs wants to lend me theirs for a little while I wouldn't complain. lol.
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