New wardrobe (again)

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m gonna have to size up because I have no intent to slow down because it’s all appetite rn


Sounds like fun.

Just remember that 500 is around about the time you gotta make decisions.
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Updating sexual orientation options

Green Eyes Dose:
How bout no. Most of the women I have dated off this site were "Lesbian" to begin with. You are just limiting your options by doing this. People like this site for the traditional normalcy versus the pronoun insanity and identity politics they have on that other obnoxious site.

Nyarlep:
I’m not sure if I should laugh or worry for the safety of women in your area after reading this post.
The only men who claim to court lesbians are rapists and the delusional.


Every time. Why do they want lesbians so bad when women who like men exist? It's because they want a trophy, not a relationship. They wanna feel like the ultimate man because they made a lesbian "turn straight" because of how "desireable" they are.

The more you tell them no, the harder they try to "break you in".

However, I highly doubt any heterosexual woman feels safe around him anyway.
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New wardrobe (again)

Morbidly A Beast:
I didn’t think it was that much weight but I went to go put on my winter coat again cause it’s been super nice and warm this past month but now we’re getting snow again but the coat made me feel like a overstuffed sausage casing. Holy crap I’m massive rn


Either gotta size up or reassess your gaining journey.
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Do i give in?

Turningintoabloatedpiggy:
So I've always what I would describe as a closet feedee. I've always been turned on by fat but I've always been skinny.
I'm 5ft 11 and always been around the 11 stone mark (UK size 10) and always been quite toned and skinny.
However I started a new job 6 months ago which is sat at a desk, I stopped exercising. Over time I've felt my clothes getting tighter, and I had a pair of size 12 trousers which used to be baggy. It was only when the button popped off that I realised how big my stomach was. I used to have a 35 inch waist and now it's 40 inches...I weighed myself and I am now 12 stone 7! So one and a half stone gained in 6 months!
I've noticed all my clothes are getting tighter but it's really turning me on. I love getting in my car after work and finally undoing my trousers and feeling me belly rest on my thighs...
I'm surprised how much it is turning me on!
Thing is my boyfriend only likes skinny girls - and I can no longer hide my growing belly! I've said I'd go to the gym but when I run on the treadmil I can feel my gut bouncing and my top rides up (used to be a loose top!) I can no longer suck it in!

I love my boyfriend but I love my growing belly more! So should I lose weight to keep him or should I just completely let go and continue to grow?


Don't ask internet strangers if you should get fat. That's ultimately up to you. That said, you might want to rethink your relationship with your boyfriend.

Does he really only like skinny girls? What would happen if your body changed? Would he still love you or would he resent you? Your body is going to change at some point - that's life. And, statistically speaking, you're not going to be the size you are forever - maybe not even in five years.

Can you see hin still wanting to be with you? Would he treat you with love and respect?

This also applies to feeders, by the way. If you decided to embrace your kink and live the feedee life, you'll come across many feeders who will only value you for how fat you are. And if you decide to maintain or even lose weight, the freak out.

Never be with anyone who primarily values you based on how you look.
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Anyone know what youtubes rules are for feedism content?

Letters And Numbers:
Feedist content is specifically prohibited from Patreon in their latest TOS. I don’t know what enforcement is like, though.

Morbidly A Beast:
What’s the wording on that TOS that’s kinda crazy that the few hundred of us caused them to change tos lol hope all the people on there find new homes for their content

Letters And Numbers:
www.patreon.com/policy/guidelines

Go to the “Harmful Acts” topic. It’s near the top. They lump it in as equal to pro-ana topics.

It’s vague enough that it pretty much gives them cover to boot someone for whatever they want, but also vague enough that it’s hard to say what enforcement will be like. It’s really a good look that they specifically have to call out consensual behavior as being verboten. Oh well, guess it’s not really a surprise anymore.


It doesn’t seem to me like it’s going to be used as a blanket for all feedist content

Work that includes eating disorders, feederism, and related topics, is supported by the community or has an educational focus, is part of a larger narrative, or is otherwise contextualized in a way that meets Patreon's guidelines is acceptable.

Morbidly A Beast:
It seems like it’s targeting more of the morally gray stuff like forcing,illegal.
Its still kinda crazy they had to add a whole dang subsection for lil old feedists haha


I'm not. I'm into extreme feedism, so I've seen some shit. A lot of shit. A good chunk of it is bad.

There's a way to engage in feedism sustainably. However, a lot of feedists who mix money into things do not engage in it sustainably. It's always the next big flashy thing to get views. And it's always at the feedee's/gainer's expense. It's why a lot of models don't stick around for very long.

This is not to say that all feedist models are harming themselves. I've seen several feedists that put their health first. But a good chunk of feedists that monetize their kinks put themselves in harm's way for profit.

All that said, I feel it's deeply myopic to lump all of feedism into the category. Painting this kink in such broad strokes spits in the face of those who practice safe feedism.

It reminds me of BDSM before it gained a more mainstream acceptance. A lot more people viewed it as fetishized abuse. But that's misunderstanding the fetish.
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Anyone know what youtubes rules are for feedism content?

Letters And Numbers:
Feedist content is specifically prohibited from Patreon in their latest TOS. I don’t know what enforcement is like, though.

Morbidly A Beast:
What’s the wording on that TOS that’s kinda crazy that the few hundred of us caused them to change tos lol hope all the people on there find new homes for their content

Letters And Numbers:
www.patreon.com/policy/guidelines

Go to the “Harmful Acts” topic. It’s near the top. They lump it in as equal to pro-ana topics.


Huh. This is wild.

On the one hand, I do understand the logic. A lot of feedists have disordered eating habits. I see it nearly every day when I log onto this website or see screenshots from other websites.

But on the other hand, feedism doesn't require disordered eating.
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Breathing heavy

Yoe:
how does ur girlfriend not say u need to loose weight and diet


You're not a feedist, are you?
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Unhealthy?

Wanttobefat600:
Im not saying that healthy food can't neccessarily taste good, I just have a personal preference toward unhealthy junk food. Idk why but i just tend to crave more of processed type foods

The***teen:
I feel the exact same way, i just crave unhealthy greasy junkfood so much more, than a healthy meal,
Overeating on junkfood just makes me feel soo good, its gived me a full felling i cant gain with anything else.
Also it makes gives me nice food coma after wich i love so much 😅
At this point i visit macdonalds or burgerking almost everyday on my way home from work and i always get a minimum of 5 cheeseburgers with extra cheese and a large milkshake or 2, and it just hits the spot🤩🤩
I almost sound like an addict in this post 😂


You probably are.

To be clear, junkfood isn't inherently addictive. But you can develop an addiction to literally anything.
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Should get the stomach bypass

Hhhggg:
Well I think there are very few reasons to do it smiley

I would only consider it if u have already lost weight and are really determined to lose the weight du to a serious health issue !

In any other case I would say lose the weight with out surgery !
If u want to lose the weight …
Witch I think isn’t really the case smiley
Since u are here and u dipped you toe in the feederism water.
If it turns u on to Suff and get fatter then I would suggest channel this in more cotrowled ways !
Eat healthy move to some Sport etc.
keep the weight while taking care of you health


Honestly, this is the most senible post in this thread.

I find the whole "give me reasons not to get a bypass" thing irresponsible. Whether or not OP gets the surgery is immaterial. Instead, the issue is scaring off other people from getting a bypass.

Gastic bypasses aren't for everyone. There are a lot of ways getting it can change how you live your life. However, some people find the to be helpful, even life changing.

I know several people who have gotten the procedure. While there are some that regretted it, most are glad they got it. It is an individual choice.
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Updating sexual orientation options

Green Eyes Dose:
How bout no. Most of the women I have dated off this site were "Lesbian" to begin with. You are just limiting your options by doing this. People like this site for the traditional normalcy versus the pronoun insanity and identity politics they have on that other obnoxious site.


How about you stop being a bigot.

First off, none of this is up to you. It's up to Hiccupx. Your opinon don't matter.

Second off, I call cap. Not only about you dating "lesbians" but that any woman on FF felt safe enough with you officially date. You have so many red flags that you are the red flag.

Also, you have pronouns. Your pronouns are he/him. You identify as a man. You are AMAB (assigned male at birth).

I love how you're obsessed with "traditional normalcy" when you are on a fetish site. You, sir, abandoned the traditional at least 14 years ago - probably more. You are an alternative person now.
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