Want to start my new year right with a big breakfast! i need me a real good feeder

WatermelonSour:
Gotta get me a feeder


Unfortunately, we lost all the feeders in the Great Reset of 2024.

It was so sad. As soon as the clock struck 11:59 PM on New Year's Eve, they all vanished. Never to be seen again.
8 months

Cooking?

Ligr77:
How many other people here like to cook? I was curious because I personally love to cook, and I especially love to experiment in the kitchen!

Also, if you have a dish you love to cook, I'd love to hear about it! For me that's pork chops, usually with some fresh cracked pepper and garlic.


Been cookin for 21 years now. I love making rice pilaf, soups, lamb roast, chicken (soooo many ways to do chicken), and stir fries
8 months

Different reading genres

HappyBigBelly:
Always been a nonfiction guy, especially autobiographies. I’m currently reading former Rush frontman Geddy Lee’s new autobio. Powerful stuff so far.

Max Stout:
Perhaps you will be a natural then for picking up Jimmy Page's π˜“π˜ͺ𝘨𝘩𝘡 𝘒𝘯π˜₯ 𝘚𝘩𝘒π˜₯𝘦, which title's concept is moreover covered in his 𝘐𝘡 π˜”π˜ͺ𝘨𝘩𝘡 𝘎𝘦𝘡 π˜“π˜°π˜Άπ˜₯ video documentary.



Ever read I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings? I'm more of a fiction girlie, but this book is excellent.

It details Maya Angelou's time as a child and then later as a young mother. My dad got it for me when I was a kid, and I still have that copy in my personal library.
8 months

Should i tell my gf about feederism?

Tomdavies:
Well ideally as a feeder role but obviously quite concious that it’s a huge commitment especially if like never shown interest in feederism. So was wondering if a non-gaining would be better or just to introduce her to the whole thing. Or not at all if it would put her off completely…


Secrets don't stay secret for long. They will come out one day, especially since you are in kink space. It's better to do it on your own terms rather than let her find out on her own.

Be open and honest with her, but don't try to influence her opinion on the matter.

Here's something that will help you with having that talk:

loradayton.com/2022/01/26/how-to-have-the-kink-talk-with-your-partner/
8 months

Should i tell my gf about feederism?

Tomdavies:
Have spoken about other kinks but none as extreme as feederism, not sure how she would react


Your profile says you are a feeder. Are you wanting to fatten her up? Or is non-gaining feedism more your speed?
8 months

Should i tell my gf about feederism?

Tomdavies:
We have been dating for 2.5 years and are in a very happy relationship. However, I have always been interested in Frederick but she has shown no visible interest in this. Would it be best to speak to her about this or just no mention it at all?


My question how are y'all together for nearly 3 years and never talked about y'all's kinks?

Couldn't be me
8 months

Annoying things with the fetish

HectorBalloon:
An annoying thing for me is discomfort lying on my front in bed now.

You see, my belly is so fat, such a fat blob, that when I lie on my front, the fat pushes into my stomach and organs. Seems it gives me some sort of indigestion I don't get otherwise.

The other night, for example, I heard a loud "squeak" coming from my belly which woke me up. I had inadvertantly rolled into a front sleeping position and my belly didn't like it so it squeeked. So I changed position.


Do what us big titty girlies do

Pillows, pillows, pillows

I am more of a side and back sleeper, but when I want to sleep on my front, I lay on a bunch of pillows with a space for my tits to kinda just ... hang
8 months

It's enough

Romy:
God, I didn't think my food addiction was that big.
I have a lot of anxiety and I can't wait to eat delicious things.
My husband is inflexible about my diet, but I already cheated, I have my nurse and my niece.
Yesterday I asked my nurse to let me have a hamburger and then a chocolate cake. Today I asked my niece to bring me fried chicken with potatoes and 5 bars of chocolate.
The problem is that my husband doesn't know this and if he finds out my nurse could have problems.
The truth is I'm starving and I have a serious anxiety problem. My nurse didn't do things voluntarily, I basically ordered her to do them.
I broke my diet but it was necessary to calm down a little.

Munchies:
The struggle is real. I don't think anyone here will think less of you for being weak. But overcoming food addictions is more than just willpower.

I can't force you to be honest with your husband about your struggles, but we both know you need to be honest with him.

Do you have any additional support besides your husband? Are you familiar with the resources in your area?

I don't know what country you are in, but there are helplines, support groups, one-on-one help from experts, etc. I'd look into it.

Romy:
I am undergoing treatment and they even gave me medication to control anxiety and I also resumed physical therapy. Eating secretly is difficult in bed, but when I can eat something delicious I do it.
My niece is going to bring me 2 triple hamburgers this afternoon.
I know I shouldn't eat those things but how do I resist the temptation? Anyway, I'm eating less than before and I'm going to lose some weight.


Okay, love. Just don't sabatoge yourself. And don't put your niece in a situation she doesn't need to be in - like thinking it's her fault when something happens or your husband inevitably finds out.

Because he will.

I am not shaming you for your addictions, but we both know your niece deserves better.
8 months

Different kind of arousal?

Valgodd:
Does anybody else experience that getting aroused by feedism related stuff is like a totally different feeling, compared to being aroused by ”ordinary” sexual stuff? Its not only that its stronger, it also feels different in the body

Munchies:
I am not 100 percent sure I understand what you mean. Are you asking feedism makes us hornier than vanilla things? If so, I think that's nearly everyone here.

Valgodd:
What I’m asking is if anyone else experience the arousal from feedism as a completely different kind of feeling than arousal from vanilla stuff. Its not just about how strong the arousal is, but it also is a completely different kind of sensation for me


I think I'm too Autistic to understand this question.
8 months

Sleep eating?

Glitter Jelly:
He isn't because he can't afford it (our healthcare system overs part of the medication costs but not of therapy).

Since my appointment at the endocrinologist I'm a lot more depressed myself. I haven't lost any weight and if there's no medical explanation to my getting fatter so fast I feel very hopeless.

I try to restrict myself but I only end up bingeing more on forbidden foods later in the day or at night.

Still on sick leave but I'll have to start working again soon. The mere idea of going back makes me want to quit because I just can't cope with any weight gain comments tbh.

Saw my mom for Christmas and it was obvious she noticed my fuller figure and was walking on eggshells in order not to hurt me.


There are helplines and hotlines out there. And if he has a job, they usually cover some level of mental health care in the form of an EAP.

You might benefit from that too
8 months