While it would be really cool to meet someone from on here I have realistic expectations, I am doubtful of meeting someone on here who is close to me geographically but it’s been fun reading and interacting with you all in our shared interests

Nope not yet! Probably won’t engage with him until it happens.

There’s been study’s done that suggest that it’s women’s pheromones during pregnancy that cause men to bulk up, im guessing it’s just lack of exercise and poor diet that causes the dad bod (in most cases) where as in the past it would have been a male buff that protects the mother from predators.

Also yeah stress, lots of couples I know are stressed out that’s a huge factor for wg

I would honestly just suggest eating ice cream at that point if it’s to weird for you to get heavy cream, just put down a tub every few days (it’s what I do when I have ice cream, love the stuff)

So it happened, my Dad called me a glutton when after dinner a few nights ago. We went out, went back to my house than sat down to a movie and I polished a bad of chips during it, at which point he called me a glutton and how I’m gonna be as big as a house if I don’t get my act right, and I just straight up said get out of my house and that I’m a 30 year old man. I feel like I laid the law down on him trying to shame me maybe I should make that clear when I talk to him? Amazed it just happened now, thought it would have happened sooner.

Just eat until you couldn’t possibly eat anymore, eventually eating big will come so naturally you won’t feel satifsifyed by what would be seen by most as a large meal.

getting big is a lot like body building if you wanna be big you gotta eat big!

You wouldn’t be racist, homophobic, or transphobic to someone why would you engage in behaviors that are fatphobic? I understand you’re conflicted but you’re hurting other people and no amount of hurt you inflict will make you feel any better. You need to come to terms with your attraction because it’s not gonna change.

I haven’t seen it so I won’t comment on the themes of it but what from what I’ve seen from interviews and stuff is that Brennan Frasier looks pretty dang good fat.

Sucks when you can’t go to the store to try stuff on. It’s not even the waist for me that’s hard it’s the freakin inseam with my waist hahaha