It could be that she's been exercising less. This can cause loss of muscle mass. Muscle is denser than fat, so you can gain fat and lose muscle and get fatter without gaining weight.

If that's the case, there's only so much muscle she can lose. After that point if she puts on any more fat it will have to increase her weight.

My article "How to Get Fat" may also help. It's on my site.

It IS a secret that I'm "Dr. Feeder". Make of that what you will. But I've never been afraid to date fat women.

And as to whether a fat woman would be "shredded apart" for dating a celebrity...I don't know. Maybe I'm naive, but what are they going to say? "You're too fat to date a famous athlete?"

I'm curious what the women here think about that. What say you?

Wow, you can really EAT, can't you? That's awesome. I'm proud of you!

Look, if you're too cowardly to date a fat women because people will think you like fat women, I'm very sorry for you. I hope you get past that.

But to say you won't date a fat woman because the media would be hard on HER is ridiculous. You should leave that up to the woman. There may be fat women who don't want to date famous people but there are many who would be happy to. You should leave it up to the woman.

Besides, I don't know if helping others is important to you, but consider this: If more celebrities DID date (or marry, or whatever) fat people it would help the entire fat/fa community by making it more acceptable. It would make it easier for others (celebrities and non-celebrities) to be honest about their attractions.

I say go for it!

I know! I'd give my right arm to be ambidextrous!

A body-temperature water balloon?

Would anyone wear a shirt (or dress, or pajamas) with a pattern like this:

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1. Is it common even with a 20 Lb. gain to feel totally differant with regard to sitting down, my belly totally getting in the way with most things I do?

Not sure. I think it may be rare.


2. My belly feels full all the time but I get hungrier much quicker and can even eat more at one time even though I may have just ate an hour ago and already feel full?

That's common when you're gaining quickly.

3. I take longer deeper breaths and slightly struggle to breath doing things when my belly getting in the way (while bending over, getting up off the couch, I got slightly winded taking a shower the other day before going out for an amazing fattening dinner)?

That's pretty common at some point.

4. At this rate if I keep up pace I will have gained 40 Lbs. in three months. Is this too much?

Too much for what?

5. How will my wife finally call this to my attention? will she say it in a joking way or a concerned way? Knowing my wife I am even unsure, I guess it depends if she waits till I get to the 40 Lb. gain!

How should I know?

6. Should I keep gaining on purpose after she calls it to my attention?

You should discuss it with her ASAP.

7. I guess this what happens to us FA's who like weight gain eventually if our significant other doesn't fatten up for us or fast enough. anyone else every go down this road with a similar situation?

Probably but I don't know.

And as to when you should stop, here's an idea: Figure out some test of a minimum level of mobility you'd be comfortable with...say getting as fat as you can and still get out of bed and then climb two flights of stairs without stopping to rest. Then every month or so, test yourself and make sure you can complete the test easily. When it starts to get hard it's time to stop gaining.

I don't understand. If you're just helping HIM gain, what difference does your hyperthyroidism make?

If I were a woman I think I'd just be a lesbian feeder!