$34? You could get it at WalMart for $5, I am sure.

I think the men here may have larger breasts than many women. But I think most people here are with larger women. I am a 38B, but most of the women I know are larger.

The chance of finding anyone who wants to gain a lot of weight in any small group is very small. People are so used to chatting to people here, they think a lot of people are into it. They are not.

You will need to run ads or look around here.

Find someone who wants to gain. Don't force it on someone who doesn't want to.

I am not into that. I still like to do things, and having someone who can't leave the house is not my thing. But if other people are into it, fine.

Tell him you know of someone who is gaining weight on purpose, and see his reaction. If it's good, tell him you are considering it too.

Maybe putting this on the LGBT section would help

My wife and I were active on the inside of NAAFA in the 1990's. We were not involved with the policy making, but did a lot of the leg work, including dealing with the media.

It is uneblievable how bad the media is. Even the local news tries to make fat people look like Jerry Springer guests. The first thing they like to ask is about how 2 fat people have sex. At a serious national convention we try to get them to focus on our experiences at the workshops. But all they want is videos of people eating. We try to show them fashionable clothes at the fashion shows. But they would rather show a women in her bikini and make comments.

Some of the old NAAFA members will remember footage from a NAAFA convention that ended up in a porn movies called "The Sex O'Clock News." It showed NAAFA members put to the sound track of pigs snorting.

So, NAAFA needs to be really careful in what the media sees. If there were 200 people who accepted their weight, and 2 people who were trying to gain, the media would focus on the 2 people gaining on purpose and say everyone in NAAFA wants to gain on purpose. That would deflect NAAFA's message.

All a person has to do is listen to Glen Beck, and you'll understand the stereotypes that NAAFA deals with, dealing with the media.

Gaining all at one time, and losing it is quite a bit different than someone who has been fat for a long time. He probably will lose it, but it won't prove anything.