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from work and my girlfriend was sitting on the couch and I could tell she had been crying. Next to her lay a empty bag of chips I asked her what was the matter and she said she just got back from her Doctors appt. and got lectured about how much weight she has ained since her last years check up. I consoled her and told her I thought she looked better than ever to me, she was happy to hear that.

She felt better and then she asked me which I will never forget, "can we go on a diet together", I said "we" and she then said don't tell me you have not noticed how fat you have become also. I was in shock for a moment and I said I thought you thought I looked healthy? She said that was about 40+ Lbs ago and placed her hand on my belly and said what about this as she gently patted it and it jiggled and shook for a while. I must of had a confused look on my face because she then said you really have not noticed how fat you have become. She then said that her Mom who was just down and we had not seen her for over a year, who happens to like men including her husband who have rather large bellies....mentioned that I was starting to look really good with my extra belly I had put on. She also said all of her college girlfriends that have known us for a while kept asking her what she had been feeding us because we look like the happy fat married couple now.

Now all of this was a shock to me....how did I not pay attention or really acknowledge until this very moment that in the last couple of years I had put on 80+ Lbs. and in the last six months probably 40 of those Lbs. Iwas totally turned on and in love with this mutual gaining with my girlfriend when we were together eating in large consumptions and teasing each other with our new fat figures but when I was out in public or when we were around her friends I was totally embarrassed for both of us. It was a crazy experience while it lasted.

But so I can definitely understand how the initial weight gain for your friend no matter how big of a change he could have been oblivious to it.

Ya know it's funny and I wouldn't believe how someone could be totally oblivious to gaining that much. especially with clothes fitting tighter and everything else.

But the same thing happened to me way back when I was always athletic and skinny. I graduated from college and started a desk job along with not playing sports all the time and moved in with my college sweat heart who was in her last 2 years of college.

I stepped on a scale one day at a department store and it read 180 Lbs.up from my typical thin 160 Lbs. wit being quite tall. I though it must have been wrong so I didnt pay much attention. I weighed myself four months later or so on my girlfrieds scale one day and it read 202 lbs. Was it true, had I gained this much weight? I asked my girlfriend if her scale was right and she said yes but she never likes to weigh herself "being that she is quite the little plumper". She said she took it from her roomate when she moved out and her roomate always had an accurate scale because she was always on weight watchers. I asked my girlfrien if I looked bigger to her and she said a little bit but she though I looked healthy. Six plus more months went by and I noticed my girlfriend was really getting fat with all the great meals she cooked us followed with baked goods and deserts. I was actually in awe at how much she would eat and how fat she had become. One day I came home ....Cont'd in a bit

How much weight gain can be expected?

What form is it in powder, pill, capsule?

Does it really work? I have seen it in body building mags I think.

So I have been going to the same gym for many years.

Funny thing is I have noticed the girls at the front desk check in, which are ususally three at a time and probably eight total that mix in on differant days and shifts, have all gained weight while working there. Ok, wierd thing is it's a gym! I know just because they work there doesn't mean they are going to work out but I would say all of them have gained a good 15 Lbs. while a few of them have become straight up fat based on societies standards not mine, I actually enjoy it and love their new figures. Now making it even stranger, I have been going to this gym for around eight years and this has been a trend with every girl at the front desk and they usually are at this job for a little over a year with some of them lasting 4 years or so. I wonder what the reason is?

Does anyone else have a similar story to this that they can think of. Even if it is a more likely situation for a gain, like working at a restaurant etc.?

"I really like the idea of a once in shape womean that becomes very out of shape and fat."

This happened to my wife after having our three children back to back to back and was such a complete turn on for me.

She went from a very in shape work out queen to a beautifully fattened up out of shape sex godess that could not stop over indulging and eating huge portions of food and sweets even after two years of delivering our last child.

She was so sexy and fat and out of shape "It was such an incredible turn on" to me every minute I was with her. Just watching her eat and continue to eat knowing that it would only make her sexy fattened up figure fatter and softer with even more hints of cellulite that she had developed not only on her huge round thighs but her fat upper arms and and beginning on her big soft belly.

She walked differently from all of her new weight she was carrying around. Her body almost moved in two parts with her new heavy hips and butt swaying from side to side with her huge lower belly jiggling up and down and while her huge fat breasts were bouncing and jiggling in every direction. When she would sit down after walking she would let out a comforting big breath and sigh as if she just let a huge load off of her feet "which she off course did".

She would get winded moving around on the couch usually when reaching for something, a lot of times it was a bag of chips or another fattening snack which she never would be caught dead eating in the past. She struggled and became out of breath getting dressed trying to squeeze into her now very tight fitting clothing. Sitting down crossing her legs or tying her shoes were very tough because her huge thighs and big lower belly would get in the way and make it difficult.

Probably the single most sexy thing would be after she just got out of the shower smelling unbelievable sexy and put on some extremely tight Panties and a tank top that her gorgeous body could not be contained in and come over to bed and would roll into, breathing heavily as if she just ran a few miles and then I would feel the bed move and shake as her heavenly soft body squished into me so she could rest her lips on to mine for an unbelievable kiss followed by a sigh and more heavy breathing from her moving her body around in the bed once again. Several minutes would go by and she would be loudly snoring and breathing which she had never done before she gained all this weight. Then all of a sudden she would slowly move and turn sides while she was sleeping and the bed would move and strain and bounce for a while.

I would have to say this was a dream come true during this time not to mention she would talk about how fat she was all the time and laugh it off while she was eating out of a carton of ice cream and then tease me with her sexy figure and all of her fat.

Every one is different but I know for me even though I am an FA and love my significant other gaining and getting fat in any relationship I was never really into myself gaining or getting fat.

Although it happened in a past relationship and became the most intense mutual gaining relationship that was so great.

I think if my wife wanted me to gain and get fat and she liked it I would probably stuff myself like a fat pig and become as fat as she wanted me to be. So maybe thats what your guy is experiencing I happen to be a pleaser to my lover and I am sure he is also.

On my wife her huge lower belly roll with a slight and ever growing hang also on all other women as well!

On myself a pot that has a slight layer of softness not to much hang!

Just curious.....rank in order of which you prefer!


You like to gain weight

You like to see your partner gain

In a long term relationship mutual gaining




Also go into more detail with answer if need be because circumstances may change order!

I know how you may feel about trying to stay slimmer while single but I can remember I dated several girls in the past because it was the initial look and conversation but that initial look of being healthy and a bit fuller....Ok a little bit fat that definitely drew me in to find out more about them.

You maybe right on about my wife, but that was so long ago when she was much more vein when we were younger 12+ years ago. I am thinking she has softened with time to me being softer. But actually I would be totally satisfied without gaining myself and having her gain a bunch..... in fact I would get ripped with Abs and all if thats what she really wanted to put her over the edge erotically (I used to be like that a while back) but she didnt seem like she was so crazy into it (she has always been the most sexual and needy when she has been at her heaviest) and it took a lot of work to maintain....Its easiest for me to maintain a bigger muscular physique with a slight belly accept for now just a lot more belly.

I do have to say that I think that a mutual gaining relationship is probably the ultimate....but when I had one a long while back it does get a bit embarrassing at times and for the first time in my life I felt insecure. That is if you both gain quite a bit of weight. It sounds like that is what interests you the most with gaining in a mutual relationship with teasing etc.

By the way your drawings are great, its amazing how looking at those is more erotic to me than seeing a skinny naked woman. I guess we are just built this way. For the record the one drawing with the girl poking the guy in the belly with his shirt off and saying "I thought you can eat anything you like" or something to that effect.....Looks like my belly shape and size only I am a lot bigger in the chest, shoulders etc.

In the past, years ago she seemed that she was not into fat regarding whether it be on a Lady or man. She considered herself fat when she was younger up until last year of high school.......the biggest pictures of her that I have seen , she was plump and definitely over weight by society standards but not fat......but that's coming from an FA. when she was real young a chubby kid or fat..... so she represents fat and over weight as not good. There was a time
when we were dating before we were married where I gained a decent amount of weight as well as herself from me encouraging her and trying to get her to gain along with lifting heavy weights at the gym and we both gained. She was disgusted with herself....calling herself a fat cow and she told me I could stand to lose some weight along with her when she was going to diet. At that time I explored her interests more with regard to my weight and she mentioned in a general way she preferred a more lean fit look and then similar to now I was pretty muscular from lifting weights and had a good size belly. I would say I have a bigger belly now but a bit less muscular. This may have been her venting out a bit because back then I was always on her to eat more and try to gain weight....I really never talk to her about gaining to much any more just make sure she has plenty Of food and desserts around.
So her likes may have changed a bit.....also we have a really tight couples friend of ours in which the husband has a fat belly all the time and has increased every year since we have known them.....he makes notice of it all the time by patting and jiggling it and discussing how fat he is getting and she has on multiple occasions squeezed his belly held on and patted and jiggled it around with the most devilish grin as if she liked it as well as commenting on it and talking about how fat he was getting.

Possibly because he opened the flood gates.....but she seemed to like it on him.

Do you think I should bring it up?

Or just in a round about way be heavily eating followed by many desserts and mention....." wow I just can't get enough to eat lately ..... I think I have gained a couple of Lbs."?

Also, I think you need to start gaining again to see when you can get that slight double chin.