Does anyone else deal with this?
I guess lots of people have compulsive traits over specific things.
Could be keeping a car clean or washing hands over and over whatever.
I have times where I see something yummy and I eat it even if I'm not hungry.
Case in point the other day I went to dinner with a friend and after dinner as I was driving home I got to thinking about how good donuts sounded so I stopped and picked up some donuts and ate all 6 on the way home.
Got home did some work in my shop while munching on a jumbo snickers candy bar.
I know I shouldn't eat like that but its so hard to resist the urge to have food in my mouth.
This has been going on for 4 months or so and I have put on weight because of it.
I really didn't want to gain any more weight because I had gotten back up to where I felt comfy and thought my body looked ok.Not too fat just a little past chubby.
How do you guys deal with the compulsive cravings?

Jazz You are right.
Not sure what I was thinking when I posted that.
Thank you Charm.

I dated a normal sized guy for 10 years but before that and after its been larger guys.
My rule in dating is the guy has to weigh more than me and be taller than me.
I'm short so that part is a given.

Never quite tripled my starting weight but have doubled it twice.
Started off at 115 and ended up at 388 lost some weight and gained a lot of it back all over a 10 year period.
I am at 315 now so officially double my original weight again.

There is acceptance here and yes its about fat fetishes too.
Good points Murphy.
I get lots of messages and some are kind of on the nasty side but most are positive.
I'm not a gainer either in the classic sense but some here try to push their fetish a bit too far with their comments.
You can always block them too.

Nothing wrong with not wanting to gain at all that is your choice.
I agree on the bigger guy thing I have always dated bigger guys its just my preference.
Some push the getting bigger thing here and if you say you don't want to get big they should respect that.
I think you look fabulous just the way you are.

As long as you two are on the same page thats all that matters.
Let him work at his own pace.

Each person is different and to say X number of calories = one pound of fat is a bit ludicrous.
Some people are just into stats and formulas but remember its just one person's theory and not a fact.

Let me get this straight guys think that because they gain and grow moobs it changes their sexual preference?
Growing moobs they think will make them gay?
Who thinks like that?
A large man with moobs is normal is it not?
Guys sure have a funny outlook sometimes.