The officer's wife

From what I see Men in the military have wives who either 1.) get really fat 2.) cheat im honestly amazed you’re the only fat one in the meetings you mentioned
1 year

No one responds

I don’t receive many comments but when I do I make an effort to respond! I think it has more to do with not receiving a notification when you comment than anything else, it becomes a lost post and I’d rather give that person more attention or what have you.
1 year

Feederism symbol

From what I’ve seen online feedists are mostly brazen with their feedism.. is this referring to people who aren’t online and more so irl?
1 year

Feederism symbol

I don’t really see the point unless you’re not actively gaining or fat, could be useful for feeders? It’s pretty obvious you can tell us by our bellies… but obviously not all fat people are in on our thing.
1 year

What was your point of no return?

I tried dieting and exercise for a while when I was hovering around the mid 200s, I’d lose some lose some gain it all back gain a bit lose gain lose gain lose, but then I found myself around 300 and I was like I gotta get serious about losing weight and it just never really happened and then I found body positivity and fat acceptance here iam all 440 of me. So there was definitely a point of no return for me, I didn’t process it that way at the time and I wouldn’t say I really actively went for it until last fall but!
1 year

Feederism symbol

Jiggle Junkie:
Interesting… i don’t recall any pattern like that. I only know of what has been variously called the Feedism Flag, Fat Fetish Pride Flag, and maybe other names. This one:

File:Fat Fetish Pride Flag (proposed).png on Wikimedia Commons


I love this flag because it reminds me of my favorite ice cream, wedged between two cookies with red frosting on the middle
1 year

Breaking furniture

It was like a brand new box spring too, I think I got it in may last year? so there really isn’t an excuse of “oh it was just old” nah my ass has just gotten so fat that I broke it lol.
1 year

Tips for finding someone into feedism?

Iridescent Pearly:
Same few problems every time… I start talking give them a chance by the time we get anywhere, they either A ghost me or B want to use me. What am I doing wrong???? Advice porflavor…


I would try to focus your expectations a bit, and don’t put the time and energy into people who do not reciprocate. You’re not doing anything wrong, just need to do it for you because you want it. Other people are great, but the perfect is largely a fantasy, sadly. Was it ghosting or was it someone just not reciprocating and putting in the same amount of energy and time into the relationship; and if it is someone like that chances are they were using you.
1 year

Most women who like fat guys only come to ff to masturbate

Wow what a thread, guess you could say op was a bit of a master baiter 😎 *who are you starts playing
1 year

Are you like this as well?

Meatycake:
Outside of feedism, I am basically asexual
With no interest in vanilla sex nor romance
My only semblance of sexuality is feedism
I default as ace when feedism is not an option
I know this is not very common in the feedist space
But I've seen accounts of it enough times to assume the occurrence of asexuality within feedism is bigger than in the general public
Since there's no reasonable way to gather any data on it
I'm just asking here instead
Are any of you also feedist/ ace?


I have always has a low sex drive even before I got fat, as I’ve gotten fatter I’ve found it’s really the only thing that turns me on. But yeah you’re def not alone. There’s a lot of people who are only turned on by fat.
1 year