Yeah I’m starting to come to this realization. I’ve been losing weight and I can’t keep it on no matter how much I’m eating but I’m really diggin my body right now. Also when you lose serious amounts of weight you look doughier lol
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Munchies:
Meanwhile, kink negotiations center the person and not the kink. It makes for a more mutually satisfying outcome.
Morbidly A Beast:
There’s a lot of people still out there who have no concept of kink and fetishes. Like me for an example prior to getting into this I really had no idea, and to be frank I still don’t. Are we as “kinksters” forever at a advantage over others in that regard?
Munchies:
Those who know more about a kink - even if it's just that the kink exists - have an advantage over outsiders. As such, we have the ability to greatly influence how a non-feedist partner practices feedism. And that goes for any kink.
Of course, that influence will be there no matter what. But a good partner will do whatever it takes to give their partner agency as they figure out their boundaries and interests.
I've noticed in the forums that whenever a feedist (usually a feeder) brings their non-feedist partner into the kink, the ones that ensure their partner's agency tend to work out better long term than those that don't.
Interesting and noted. Do you think I need to express to a potential non-feedist partner that this isn’t my “final form” so to speak?
2 years
I’ve been thinking about this and I cannot think of anything in particular.
Other than silly stuff like you make my dreams come true by Hall and Oates which frankly has been done to death in a lot of montages..
I’m stumped!
2 years
But the 3rd is about the rise of Napoleon 🤓
2 years
Blackjackandberries:
I'm a Landscaper currently.
Hey same! 😎
2 years
Munchies:
Meanwhile, kink negotiations center the person and not the kink. It makes for a more mutually satisfying outcome.
There’s a lot of people still out there who have no concept of kink and fetishes. Like me for an example prior to getting into this I really had no idea, and to be frank I still don’t. Are we as “kinksters” forever at a advantage over others in that regard?
2 years
You could have “sleep apnea” when your congested but when you’re not you’re just fine, or you could sleep funny one night and the next night be fine. Maybe you linked your neck funny etc.. it’s just so silly they say because you’re fat it’s the cause of it.
Like it’s serious thing not getting enough oxygen unoxygenated blood is super toxic to the body. It’s more than “I don’t get a good nights rest” or “I’m a bit sleepy when I wake up” (what adult does?)
2 years
I’ve done a fair amount of research into the subject because I was being yanked around by doctors when I went to renew my health card.
Snoring isn’t the problem it’s Gasping for air at night because you can’t get enough oxygen so you “wake up” alot during the night. The test is just seeing how many times you “wake up” at night and that could be caused by so many things.
2 years
Y’all feeders might have a easier time with people who are already fat I mean for me it was just a failed diet a lil bit of body positivity and fat acceptance and I was hooked — it’s important however to express those intentions not all fatties like being fat
2 years
Yes.
In the 9 years I’ve worked there I’ve gained a lot of weight and to say it hasn’t effected my efficiency would be a lie, I still bust ass and do good work I just I know my limits. And people generally are understanding, but they always assume I’m lazier than I really am ie, shocked when I’m done with a project that involves a lot of walking and bending over, offering to do things that involve a lot of movement. And shocked when I’m not struggling in the heat.
I’m the only team member that’s allowed stretchy pants I found that one out that was a bit of a 😳
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