rvaughn56 wrote:
This is my first post and I totally get what this dude is talking about. I have been lurking forever traped to look at bbws from a far. I also am an athlete however I am a athlete well known in the states on a major sports team which fuels my problem. Not only would I be ridaculed but what would local newspapers do to her? Get real they would slam her to no end.
Look, if you're too cowardly to date a fat women because people will think you like fat women, I'm very sorry for you. I hope you get past that.
But to say you won't date a fat woman because the media would be hard on HER is ridiculous. You should leave that up to the woman. There may be fat women who don't want to date famous people but there are many who would be happy to. You should leave it up to the woman.
Besides, I don't know if helping others is important to you, but consider this: If more celebrities DID date (or marry, or whatever) fat people it would help the entire fat/fa community by making it more acceptable. It would make it easier for others (celebrities and non-celebrities) to be honest about their attractions.
I say go for it!
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Derpy Hooves wrote:
Acquiring ambidexterity.
Why? Because two hands are better than one.
I know! I'd give my right arm to be ambidextrous!
12 years
A body-temperature water balloon?
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1. Is it common even with a 20 Lb. gain to feel totally differant with regard to sitting down, my belly totally getting in the way with most things I do?
Not sure. I think it may be rare.
2. My belly feels full all the time but I get hungrier much quicker and can even eat more at one time even though I may have just ate an hour ago and already feel full?
That's common when you're gaining quickly.
3. I take longer deeper breaths and slightly struggle to breath doing things when my belly getting in the way (while bending over, getting up off the couch, I got slightly winded taking a shower the other day before going out for an amazing fattening dinner)?
That's pretty common at some point.
4. At this rate if I keep up pace I will have gained 40 Lbs. in three months. Is this too much?
Too much for what?
5. How will my wife finally call this to my attention? will she say it in a joking way or a concerned way? Knowing my wife I am even unsure, I guess it depends if she waits till I get to the 40 Lb. gain!
How should I know?
6. Should I keep gaining on purpose after she calls it to my attention?
You should discuss it with her ASAP.
7. I guess this what happens to us FA's who like weight gain eventually if our significant other doesn't fatten up for us or fast enough. anyone else every go down this road with a similar situation?
Probably but I don't know.
And as to when you should stop, here's an idea: Figure out some test of a minimum level of mobility you'd be comfortable with...say getting as fat as you can and still get out of bed and then climb two flights of stairs without stopping to rest. Then every month or so, test yourself and make sure you can complete the test easily. When it starts to get hard it's time to stop gaining.
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I don't understand. If you're just helping HIM gain, what difference does your hyperthyroidism make?
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If I were a woman I think I'd just be a lesbian feeder!
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Don't think of it as "giving in". Think of it as "beating fat-phobia"!
And check out "The Glutton's Pledge" on my site. It may help.
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See "Deciding to Get Fat" on my site.
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Start slow...poke his belly a bit, tell him it's "cute". Then maybe confess to having a bit of a "tummy fetish" or just admitting that his belly is sexy.
Then build on that depending on his reaction.
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