LovesBigMen wrote:I believe firt of all you should think on how much this would affect your life and consider all the bad things that come with weight gain: difficulty in finding clothes your size, alternatively, having to buy new clothes, some people will definitely treat you differently, maybe worse, you'll have to afford more food than usual and there's also the difficulty in finding a partner who shares the same interests with you, since not all FAs are necessarily weight gain admirers. Also, and maybe more importantly than the above: weight gain might be very difficult to reverse. Don't think you can gain, regret it, diet and make things like they were before. It's very difficult to lose weight for some people, just like for some, it's difficult to gain weight.
Those are all things you should consider when deciding to gain. I hope you think carefully about this and, ultimately, make the right choice.
I'd say the same, but I'd change the last line to:
I hope you think carefully about this and, ultimately, decide to gain a bunch!
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What kind of support are you looking for? Moral? Financial? Physical...?
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I'd suggest posting your BMIs as well. That's a fairer way to compare gains.
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I predict you'll get more comfortable with yourself as you get older. Most people do.
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Okay, if a celebrity dates a fat woman, jerks will say mean things. I can't deny it. Just google "Pierce Brosnan fat wife".
However:
1. Note that just as many people say positive things about them as mean stuff.
2. Note that if you're a celebrity (or in a relationship with one and a celebrity yourself by extension) people will say mean things about you anyway.
3. Note that if you're fat people will likely say mean things anyway (albeit not in the media).
4. Note that Pierce and his wife are still together and seem to be doing fine.
Certainly some women would probably rather opt out of such a relationship for fear of what mean jerks would say. And that's fine.
But I think there are other women who don't want to restrict their lives because they're afraid of what a few idiots might say and would welcome the opportunity to defy society and live the life they want.
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It could be that she's been exercising less. This can cause loss of muscle mass. Muscle is denser than fat, so you can gain fat and lose muscle and get fatter without gaining weight.
If that's the case, there's only so much muscle she can lose. After that point if she puts on any more fat it will have to increase her weight.
My article "How to Get Fat" may also help. It's on my site.
13 years
It IS a secret that I'm "Dr. Feeder". Make of that what you will. But I've never been afraid to date fat women.
And as to whether a fat woman would be "shredded apart" for dating a celebrity...I don't know. Maybe I'm naive, but what are they going to say? "You're too fat to date a famous athlete?"
I'm curious what the women here think about that. What say you?
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Wow, you can really EAT, can't you? That's awesome. I'm proud of you!
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rvaughn56 wrote:
This is my first post and I totally get what this dude is talking about. I have been lurking forever traped to look at bbws from a far. I also am an athlete however I am a athlete well known in the states on a major sports team which fuels my problem. Not only would I be ridaculed but what would local newspapers do to her? Get real they would slam her to no end.
Look, if you're too cowardly to date a fat women because people will think you like fat women, I'm very sorry for you. I hope you get past that.
But to say you won't date a fat woman because the media would be hard on HER is ridiculous. You should leave that up to the woman. There may be fat women who don't want to date famous people but there are many who would be happy to. You should leave it up to the woman.
Besides, I don't know if helping others is important to you, but consider this: If more celebrities DID date (or marry, or whatever) fat people it would help the entire fat/fa community by making it more acceptable. It would make it easier for others (celebrities and non-celebrities) to be honest about their attractions.
I say go for it!
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Derpy Hooves wrote:
Acquiring ambidexterity.
Why? Because two hands are better than one.
I know! I'd give my right arm to be ambidextrous!
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