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I think a true feedee is something that is part of them, and will never change. It started as a child and continued. On the other hand, people who just go from one fetish to another looking for a fetish will probably get tired of it.

I'm a Loser, by the Beatles

What I am referring to in my post is HAES, which stands for Health At Every Size. Some people in the medical community are finding out that losing weight does not help many conditions, and that the focus should be the medical problems, and not the weight. As I said, most people who lose weight regain it back plus more. This is not healthy, and usually makes the patients overall health worse. Google it, and read it on Wikipedia. I can guarantee you that the purpose of HAES is NOT, as one person put it, to give FA's boners.

I'm sorry, but I totally disagree with everyone here.

Dieters are the most boring people in the world. They have to discuss every little thing they eat, don't eat, could have eaten, etc. She does not have to bring this up constantly when she knows you are against it. She is not being supportive of you either.

Also, doctors are just as fat phobic as everyone else. Losing weight is not healthy. Since most people regain more than what they weighed, encouraging patients to start the yoyo dieting and roller coaster ride where usually the person weighs more in the is NOT healthy. There are no diseases that only fat people get, so there is no guarantee that even if she lost weight, she would solve any medical problems. If she has any issues they should be addressed by treatment, not a diet.

In any case, no matter who is right and wrong, I think you two can never be happy together right now. I would find someone else. By the time that is ready to end, chances are your current girlfriend will be bigger than she ever was. And maybe realize that dieting is useless.

It looks like girdles are pretty much out of style now.

I couldn't agree with you more. I am 5' 9" which is supposed to be average for a man. When I was single and dating, even women who were 5' 7" said I was too short for them. People post things like, race unimportant, or that it doesn't matter what you look like. Then they dump you when you are not 6 feet tall. The funniest thing is that many women who are 6 feet tall or talller will not date anyone who is at least 6' 2". Then they complain that they can't find anyone. Of course not, the tall men don't mind dating women who are short. So that leaves the shallow tall women all alone. But they would rather be alone than with someone shorter than them.