When fat is good for you!

That is awesome to hear! I can totally see where all of those are possible. Kind of ironic in a way. Embracing it is better than fighting it, I guess. I think the whole snoring thing is very interesting. Conventional "knowledge" says that the cure to snoring is to lose weight. How do they explain all the skinny people that snore? I'm glad it worked out so well for her.

I also love when a girl is bigger around than she is tall. I don't know why, but I always find that appealing. I'd love that to be the goal of every girl, to fatten herself so she is bigger around than she is tall. smiley
7 years

A japanese term: "shiawase-butori"

I have to agree. It’s been my experience that women naturally plump when they’re happy, you treat them right, and they know it’s okay if they do - unless they are super dedicated to staying skinny, but even that can wane over time.
7 years

Sasha pieterse is more beautiful now!

Not familiar with her but I like what I can see on my small screen with those pictures.
7 years

Getting called fat girl?

TheWhipHand:
Some people have started implying or even calling my bf fat to my face, but they stopped when I said, "You're right, he is a fat little thing," but I wink and smile. When they have said something to his face in front of me, I parted his belly and said, "That's right. He's been so good." The most blatant was my cousin who complained about his weight. And I said, "If I didn't want him that way, I wouldn't have fattened him in the first place. And you're getting plenty plump yourself. So...glass houses."


Great responses! Kinda takes the wind out of their sails when you turn their insult into a compliment. I’m sure it makes your bf feel better too.
7 years

"the allure of the pregnant woman"

I LOVE pregnant females for all the reasons mentioned above. Great post GLH
7 years

Being fat is a sign of prosperity!

I absolutely agree with all 3 posts above me!
7 years

'chubby chaser' - a tvo, canadian film documentary

Anyone got a VPN connection with a server in Canada and way to download it?
8 years

Has anyone found themselves encouraging another to gain weight?

CUPC4K3:

Note: I am a girl saying these things, I do not recommend guys telling girls they have birthing hips out the gate.


LOL Good point!

thecompguy
But that said? Any time I can poke holes in society's standard belief that "thinner is sexier", I'll do so.


LOVE doing that!
8 years

Met a girl who looks like she'll be heavy one day

Yes, please, definitely update with anything significant. It's fun to see others having a good experience.
8 years

Has anyone found themselves encouraging another to gain weight?

johniav:
Has anyone here found themselves encouraging another to eat more or perhaps telling a person that he/she were not fat so that they would not attempt to lose weight?


I definitely encourage people and I do downplay people's weight if I can tell they are viewing it negatively. I don't lie but generally those complaining they are fat, aren't, so it's not a lie. If someone actually is bigger, I redirect their attention to something more positive, like saying something complimentary about larger people or about them in person - whatever is appropriate but I also try to steer clear of any cliche platitudes.
8 years