I have to agree. It’s been my experience that women naturally plump when they’re happy, you treat them right, and they know it’s okay if they do - unless they are super dedicated to staying skinny, but even that can wane over time.
7 years
Not familiar with her but I like what I can see on my small screen with those pictures.
7 years
TheWhipHand:
Some people have started implying or even calling my bf fat to my face, but they stopped when I said, "You're right, he is a fat little thing," but I wink and smile. When they have said something to his face in front of me, I parted his belly and said, "That's right. He's been so good." The most blatant was my cousin who complained about his weight. And I said, "If I didn't want him that way, I wouldn't have fattened him in the first place. And you're getting plenty plump yourself. So...glass houses."
Great responses! Kinda takes the wind out of their sails when you turn their insult into a compliment. I’m sure it makes your bf feel better too.
7 years
I LOVE pregnant females for all the reasons mentioned above. Great post GLH
7 years
I absolutely agree with all 3 posts above me!
7 years
Anyone got a VPN connection with a server in Canada and way to download it?
7 years
CUPC4K3:
Note: I am a girl saying these things, I do not recommend guys telling girls they have birthing hips out the gate.
LOL Good point!
thecompguy
But that said? Any time I can poke holes in society's standard belief that "thinner is sexier", I'll do so.
LOVE doing that!
7 years
Yes, please, definitely update with anything significant. It's fun to see others having a good experience.
7 years
johniav:
Has anyone here found themselves encouraging another to eat more or perhaps telling a person that he/she were not fat so that they would not attempt to lose weight?
I definitely encourage people and I do downplay people's weight if I can tell they are viewing it negatively. I don't lie but generally those complaining they are fat, aren't, so it's not a lie. If someone actually is bigger, I redirect their attention to something more positive, like saying something complimentary about larger people or about them in person - whatever is appropriate but I also try to steer clear of any cliche platitudes.
7 years
Feederfan13:
She's gorgeous and it feels right but wrong . What do I do ?
Why does it feel right and why does it feel wrong? Afraid to cross the friend line and be more than friends? Do you think you aren't compatible that way? Afraid of hurting her or being hurt? Because she's the daughter of your father's girlfriend?
It would be interesting to see why she switched from skinny tom boy to plump woman, but that just may be her growing up. As to her comments about you needed to fatten up LOL At least she's honest about it. Does she know about your weight interest? If not, maybe she discovered she likes gaining or feeding too. Sounds like you could have some insightful conversations but as far if it's right or wrong, that's totally your view on it and I think you need to figure out what feels right about it and what feels wrong about it and then go from there. Be a shame to miss out on something beautiful. It would be kind of cool if you two, as their kids, made a good couple too.
7 years
