Mine doesn't know I'm a feeder (doesn't know of the concept even) but knows I like her bigger. And what you describe is exactly what I live Sandwiches at 11 PM, fried chicken in the afternoon. "Can I have....", "Could you make me a....", "Do we still have..."

My wife doesn't drink calories at all. I can't even switch her from diet soda to regular soda. She'll be wolfing down a bag of chips but the regular soda -- that is too fattening......

Nice idea on those side dish packages!

Some other examples:

- spaghetti: I have a bit of pasta, much sauce. Usually 200-300 calories meal. She gets a big amount of pasta, lots of shredded cheese, some sauce. Her portion is about 600 calories.

- mashed potatoes: prepared from dry mix. I split the package and make two portions. One is for me and contains water or skimmed milk, no fat. Hers is made with 1 cup of cream and real butter. Her portion is 1000-1200 calories, mine is 200-300.

Nice to hear you count calories too.

I know her BMR and her maintenance calories and it's just part of the fun knowing how many calories I can get into her on one day, or how many calories she willingly asks for another.

And yes, except the fruit she asks for, everything that;s edible around her has the highest calories.

I do have my own food too with lower calories. Not only do I not want to gain, but it helps warp her sense of portions. Take yogurt. We both love it and both eat the same amount. But hers is full fat 100 calories; mine is 35 calories

I'm here because it's one of the rare places where I can just talk about wanting to make my wife fatter, the work that goes into it, the tricks, the results.

I'm not looking for a relation or to feed anyone or get photos or anything. Just post with other feeders, maybe read a bit how the women experience being fattened.

Has she continued to grow?

Mine is very self-conscious about her gains. That makes for funny moments when she is in public. Without anyone prompting her she will start to explain she has gained weight because of her medication and maybe because she doesn't eat right all the time. It really helps draw people's attention to her weight.

Because that same self-consciousness she tries to hide her belly when she talks with people. She places her hand on her belly but then starts to rub it, moving her hand up and down. I like seeing those fat habits develop in her. Nice internalization

I do all the groceries and get to make sure my wife doesn't eat too light.

Recently I've switched her from her favorite bread that has 180 calories per 2 slices, to another brand which delivers 250 calories.

The slices are a little bit thicker but also a little bit larger. They hold a bit more margarine, peanut butter, etc.

Her 300-350 calories breakfast has gone to 590 calories now.

The fun thing is that because it looks like just 2 slices of bread, she still eats it as such, and asks for her snack at the usual time; it doesn't fill her up more.

We've gone through 2 bouts of dieting. When she hit close to 215 she stopped her Lyrica/Gabapantin. She went down to 205 in short weeks but then started to snack again.

One of her fat friends came over for a while and we had a lot of body-positive conversations and talks along the line of "many men like a filled body." That seems to have reinforced her eating habit. Instead of using the scales daily she now uses them every 10 days or so.

Last weigh-in was close to 212 lbs. That's 16 lbs heavier than a year ago, and 22 lbs heavier than at the start of 2017.

It's also been a long time ago -- at least 4-6 months -- that there was any mention of "I really don't like myself like this." She loves the attention, sexual and otherwise, I give her.

While immobility isn't my fetish or so, I've been working on immobilizing her to reinforce a lazy, gaining lifestyle. I've slowly but surely been taking over tasks around the house she used to do. I already did all the groceries and meals, and I serve her her food. She doesn't work out of the house. I'd say that all together she moves maybe 15-30 minutes in a day now, maximum.

The latest behavior chance I've accustomed her too is that next to her side of the bed I keep 2 bags, 2 flavors, of her favorite chips. In the evening my routine is to check if she has enough, and if one of the bags is finished I go and put another one in its place. No pushback or remarks there.

The distance between her current weight and her low(est) weight is now substantial enough that a diet is a real uphill battle, but once I've grown her to 220-230 I think defeatism and acceptance will be deeper ingrained.

So far -- very good summer!

I love it when the tits start to hang/grow on the side as well. Together with a nice layer of backfat, when my wife wears a bra it pushes the fat up and down and you get these nice fat rolls on display. Extra points if what she wears shows those side and back rolls off. I usually make sure we go out that day because I like her in public with visible fat rolls.

It's a thing I've been working on with my wife as well. When she still had to learn growing fatter, we would snack together. Difference is that for every handful of chips, I would grab 2-3 chips and bite eat one in half. To her it seemed we were eating the same.

Her gaining much more weight than I did also helped foster the idea that she has a "slow" metabolism and is naturally prone to gaining.

I'm busy weaning her off shared snacking. These days she has more meals and snack by herself while I excuse myself with some work or other busy stuff that prevents me from eating at that time. She snacks very well now and asks for her snacks, from chips to ice cream.

I love being a much lower weight than her