Influx:
I have to wholeheartedly disagree.
I haven't spent much money on content admittedly, but what I have I've been very pleased with. The difference is, especially with regards to the amateurs, I've spoken with these people prior to buying anything.
I've been around the community for a couple years, and have had the pleasure of talking to a handful of models - both pro and amateur. And plenty of them have been wonderful to talk with. And any of us who have taken the time to speak with models know the absolute bs they have to deal with on a regular basis. Yes, there are plenty of fakes and scammers out there. But for every fake model, there's a promise of money that isn't fulfilled on the other side. This is a two-way street, and needs to be presented as such. Scammers on *both sides* make everyone look bad, and make it difficult for people to connect and share.
Anyone who has actually been in a feedist relationship (strictly financial, or all the way to romantic), knows the costs of gaining. Food obviously, and of course clothing, but even things such as cars to accommodate a person's size. Now I'm not saying buy your favourite feedees new wheels, but I will say that if you're enjoying a specific person's content that it's ok to test the waters financially.
Yes, there's a chance you can get scammed as a buyer. Welcome to the internet. Hell, Sears in Canada owes me $150 for an order I never got, but they shut down operations on this side of the border. I'll never see that money again, and that was a massive company with a multi-decade reputation.
Buyer beware, always. But to say never even be a buyer, is putting the blame solely on one side of the discussion. And given the plenty of wonderful models, again *both* pro and amateur, I've talked to over the years, they do not deserve to be blanket-painted as unsafe.
Thank you for your post. I have been offered money more than once. It was from virtual friends with whom I had already established a connection. We discussed their fantasy and if I found it sexy enough then I would make the vid or pic. The fact that I got a financial compensation FIRST went without saying. Making a vid does require some work: you try clothes studying different possibilities and position, then try the moves again and again before you start filming, then you watch the vid and edit it. Regardless, I never expected to get a lot of money, also bc my face was never there and I know for some guys the face MUST be there, except it is too risky for me.
I really enjoyed that. I would never dream of not sending the vid: that would deprive me of half the fun! But a couple of times there were some guys who insisted they had sent the money and wanted me to send the vid and the money was not there of course. Some ppl are just sneaky! That proves that disonesty goes both ways. So far I am not on any website but mayb some day I will leave my job and just do that! The only problem is it always keep you horny so I will have to buy a vibrator too!
