I want to make a few points clear.

1) While some of our members do indeed sponsor takeout food for other members, I want to make abundantly clear this is not expected of any member, nor should anyone feel forced to coerced into this.

Any such interactions are the business of those two users.

However, direct solicitation of money and free stuff is against our rules. This also means users can't demand money just to talk to you.

2) PMs are not monitored. This means the only people who can see your PMs are you, and the other user.

3) Point #2 means that despite our best efforts, some scammers and catfish may slip through.

4) It's not always feasible for us to review all publicly posted content as it comes in, even if we do try.

5) Points 2, 3, and 4 mean we rely on you, the community to report, report, and report! Did I say report? I'm not sure I did, so I'll say it again; Report!

Please, don't just block the scammer, move on, and hope the scammer goes away. This gives the scammer more time to potentially hurt more victims.

In your report, please don't just say something like "asks for money;" be more specific. If you do, it quickly turns into "he said, she said." In an abundance of caution to avoid false positives (bans on someone who shouldn't be) and smear campaigns, it may take reports from multiple people.

If at all you can, please provide some type of evidence. Mention the profile contains a CashApp screen name, or a PayPal address is in a picture or picture caption. Include screenshots. FF has an e-mail address that can be used for this purpose: team fantasyfeeder.com

I also have a Discord screen name, if you would prefer to share that way.

However, please keep in mind any such bad behavior must have taken place on FF itself. I can't, and will not take action based on behavior that took place off of FF. That is under the jurisdiction of that other online service. We do not get involved in the drama and internal affairs on other platforms.

I don't know who told you that, or gave you that idea.

But no, there's nothing officially sanctioned or formally organized by FF.

Any such interactions between two users is the business of those two users and no one else. If you like, you can try posting a thread in the personals if you might like to find someone for this.

However, if you do so, keep in mind rules #7 and #8, which basically means no asking for money or free stuff, and there's no obligation on the part of any other member to give you anything.

While not a common theme, this theme has been explored before. I even remember a couple old stories on Dimensions about this very theme.

One that I remember was set during the Vietnam War, in the U.S., the last time mandatory conscription was in effect here.

Anyway, it was about a young man who was likely to get drafted soon, and it seemed like a certainty. So, a plan was hatched for him to avoid it. Someone else in his life suggested he gain as much weight and get as fat as possible.

Without getting political or into too much detail, this won't ever happen again, at least not in the U.S. However, I'm aware a number of countries still practice mandatory conscription ("the draft" ), so this theme is still very relevant, I think. I'm sure if you were to write such a story, it would be well received.

Yeah, I'm gonna be moving this to the Submission/Domination board.

To the OP: I hope this is just a fantasy of yours.

No. Body Mass Index, or BMI is a number that doesn't really hold much significance, other than a higher number means you're pretty much heavier.

While rare, a bodybuilder/hardcore gym rat/linebacker/etc. could have an "obese" BMI of 30+ but is probably more fit than most of us.

It doesn't take into account anything like muscle mass, body fat percentage, sex (women in general are always higher), age (tends to rise somewhat with age), bone structure (big boned is actually a thing, but won't explain 100 lbs of difference), or even pregnancy status.

Nevertheless, it's a fun number in the feederism community because surpassing various milestones means you have reached certain goals. 30+ is probably the point where most folks start to look a little heavy, that maybe they aren't exactly thin anymore.

I'll cast the vote/opinion in favor of underwear.

When I sit down, I actually do feel my gut on top of my thighs, and it's slightly less comfortable if I don't have the underwear that's in between.

Chub rub is also quite real, and certain types of underwear definitely help with that. Also of course, the possible risk of various bodily fluids being more likely to soak into the regular clothes if there is no underwear, despite one's best efforts. That's probably at least 99%+ of the reason behind underwear in the first place.

It's certainly nice to sometimes sleep without wearing underwear, however.

38 is middle age? Say it ain't so!

I too have noticed that, especially with the growth (no pun intended) of feederism communities online having much younger members.

I suspect that's because broadband (high speed) 24/7 Internet became mainstream a little over 20 years ago, along with the "smartphone," a term that didn't really enter the American consciousness until '07, when the original iPhone was released. I had a smartphone well before then, but it was actually a combo PalmPilot with a mobile phone built-in. Also because in the 90s, Dimensions was pretty much the only game in town. Anyway! I digress.

It's certainly more difficult, I think. It can be harder to figure out when to eat and to get enough calories in. I think that's more because of life responsibilities like full-time jobs, perhaps family responsibilities, and whatever else you may have going on. But it's certainly possible.

I find my body doesn't really agree with HFCS (a truly vile ingredient) so I minimize consumption of it, which basically means no soda in the U.S. Not that's the worst possible thing - too much of it makes me sleepy, and soda also seems to cause water retention and bloating, and even decreases my appetite. Also not the worst thing since HFCS is a major, perhaps even the #1 contributor to diabetes, which is why many countries have banned it.

One thing you have though... if your profile is correct, you're already 264 lbs, which is already pretty chunky. This probably means it wouldn't seem that weird if you end up gaining even more, and you might already have a pretty good appetite already so perhaps it wouldn't be that hard to eat a bit more to gain.

The main thing I think is to not just eat junk food all the time like that hyper processed packaged stuff. There's plenty of "real food" that's high in calories. Even a burger typically has vegetables on it, and those toppings are unlikely to impact your appetite much. You can also have salad that's drowning in creamy Caesar dressing, Parmesan cheese, and optional bacon bits.

Another thing to maybe try to watch out for is sodium (often from salt and seasonings). While you do need to have some, odds are you'll probably have way more than enough.

So to recap:

- Some junk food should be okay but it shouldn't be the primary staple of your diet. You'd regret it if you do.
- Minimize HFCS consumption to almost nothing.
- Don't have to avoid vegetables and should probably have some.
- It can be really easy to go way overboard on the sodium so try not to do that. Some canned goods can have a lot of it.

A multivitamin pill or some sort of nutritional shake like Ensure Plus, Equate Plus (Wal-Mart knockoff of Ensure Plus), Fortify Plus (Kroger knockoff), or Boost may be worth doing too.