For myself, it's basically to be about the same size as my wife or a little bigger. She hovers around 300lbs right now. But normally has been about 250ish. Which for both of us I think is a good size. We don't want to be too big as to not be able to do things we like. Also, I already have health issues. Which makes it very hard to gain. So going very overweight might not even be possible for me. But I don't want to compound my poor health with weight-related health issues later in life. I figure I probably will end up back to a much smaller size eventually anyway. So, if I can catch up with my wife. Enjoy that size, maybe a little more or less for a good few years I will then be happy to have experienced this in my life.
3 years
wdk680:
I think other factors can definitely have an impact on the set-point. I attained my highest weight of 295 pounds while on a medication called Prednisone. I then took a 4-month break from gaining. After that break, I decided to start another weight gain cycle, and was disappointed to see that my weight had dropped from 295 pounds down to 244 pounds, without any exercise or effort on my part. I was just eating my regular diet.
I had weaned completely off the Prednisone during that 4-month break. During that time, my pot belly shrunk, my moon face went away, and the buffalo hump on the back of my neck also disappeared. I strongly suspect that much of the 51 pound weight loss during that 4-month break was due to losing all that prednisone weight.
I too have been through and share much of what you say. I have Crohn's disease so that makes gaining very difficult for me too. I have also been on Prednisone so many times. Which yes, it can cause weight gain, but holy hell the other side effects make that medication so horrible! Best of luck in your journey!
3 years
I'm in this situation right now. Recently I started my weight gain journey. I was about 150 when I started a few months ago. I do have health issues that make it difficult to gain weight. So for pretty much my whole adult life I have been normal if not underweight.
I started intentionally gaining and gained about 30-40lbs. I am not sure 100%. But, I definitely did gain a decent little amount. Holy hell have these extra lbs been hard-won. Like mentioned above, only by drinking heavy cream have I been able to gain.
This past week or so I haven't had the money to keep buying heavy cream, as it is pretty expensive. Along with having been doing some minor physical work. As soon as I stopped having heavy cream the lbs just start dropping off. So frustrating! Knowing how hard it was to gain each of those lbs. When I see people saying how easy it is that they gain weight or I have even had people tell me I am lucky because the incurable, chronic, debilitating illness I have keeps me skinny normally. Here I am wishing the exact opposite, trying my hardest to gain just to see that scale needle barely move... oh well, I will keep trying!
3 years
[quote]John Smith:
However, in television that's an another kind of story :
- I couldn't remember the title about this American sitcom but an 1999 episode I once watched during a theme-related thread (on Curvage or Dimensions Magazine?? Whatever...) dealt about the female co-protagonist whose realize after a few peopke on his work set entourage get anxious about her modest weight gain if her newly boyfriend wasn't a F.A. , but she denied it, alteast till during a romantic - and indulging - dating at a restaurant they cross his ex-girlfriend, an overweight woman. But after a few dialogues, the co-protagonist learnt the ex in question was as thin like her a few months then before to break up two months ago, now dramatically big. Because of this, the love interest finally admitted to be a Fat Admirer.
The episode finish under a strange tone : because without bring up itself the mantle of open critics, Fat Admiring was finally presented like something of socially-acceptable yet still-insolite. However, the co-protagonist still subconsequently broke up (in good terms) wi
th her love interest, preffering kept her shape rather to continue a relationship which will requieres she become sooner and later obese (and since she managed to gain some substantial extra fat in a little time, that was more closer to soon than amything else) ;
It was the show "Just Shoot Me!" the character Maya was the one who dates a guy who wants her fatter. Name of the episode was "Dial N for Murder"
www.dailymotion.com/video/x6rfhmn
3 years
FatLover91:
I’m 26 years old and 330lbs. My goal is to be 600lbs by the time I turn 30 and 800lbs by the time I’m 35. I’ve been eating 10,500 calories a day for about a month now and I’ve been gaining pretty rapidly. Anyone else have any other ideas on how I can gain more weight faster?
I think you are already at that limit or are already at the point that going any farther or faster would be very bad for your health. The only thing that can really be done is more calories. But, that will be difficult seeing as how many you are already eating. Slow and steady wins the race

Good Luck!!
3 years
hugsnhomies:
the guys i see and talk to are pretty fit or skinny, i know where i live plays a part but jeez this is getting super frustrating
Well, if they aren't chubby enough... guess you'll just have to help them along

In all seriousness, I have been happily with the same person for over 20 years. So, I have no idea what dating life is like nowadays. I know I don't envy anyone who is out trying to find a partner. Best of luck and hope things work out tho!
3 years
We are out there. I have shared some pics. With my face also. Granted I am planning to make mutual content with my wife to share. Which is another thing I haven't seen much of. I do post most of my pics on feabie. But have a few here. Maybe it's just because there aren't quite as many of us? Especially the skinny to fat. As the about 40ish pounds I've gained in the past few months have been hard-won. I am normally pretty skinny and even have health issues that make gaining very hard. But, I have been able to do it. Maybe other skinny guys are like that too. So they may give up after a bit. It is very frustrating. I know women have the same struggles. That's all just my guess.
3 years
amijustcurious:I wasn't able to come up with a great title, sorry if it sounds kind of odd.
I'm on the thinner side and have been considering gaining for a while now, but am hesitant. If I look at it from a purely erotic POV it's a no brainer, but when I start considering it from a more realistic perspective things become hazier.
Aspects of weight gain like getting out of breath, being limited in activities, etc are exciting in theory, but do you actually enjoy dealing with them 24/7?
BHMZach:Getting Big and Fat =/= Out of Shape; I’m in better shape than a lot of skinny people I know, and I know fellas a bit bigger (and older) than me who are in excellent shape. So, don’t think you’ll end up out of shape

Round is a shape...
3 years
me932:
Definitely agree with this, when I started I wanted to get to 30bmi (210) to see what its like and here I am after a few more years at 300 (40.7 BMI) going for a journey to 500 (with a stop around 350 mark to check out the heart attack grill). It feels like as soon as you hit a milestone the next one seems all that more appealing.[/quote]
I am kinda in the same boat. I just started gaining. My wife is over 300. Which she has gained slowly but surely . My main goal was to catch up to her. But, now, who knows if and when I will stop. Granted I have a long way to go to find out!!
3 years
vegasfat:
@plumpbeloytocurvy, do you do anything for the taste? I’m fine with the texture but the taste is weird to me since it’s not sweet like half and half.
While I prefer to just drink it straight and enjoy it that way. I have heard many who mix it with chocolate syrup or similiar.
3 years