I like the Dimensions system but I think it can be added upon.

They have categories for BBW, BHM, and Both depending on whether the gainer in the story is the man or woman or its mutual gaining. However I think the system would benefit from an LGBT category.

You can also search by tags there so that would be a nice feature.

We might also want to differentiate the circumstances of weight gain into "enthusiastic," "accepting," "reluctant," or "forced," just for trigger warning purposes.

Finally I like how Dims has its Special Interest archive which is basically the speculative fiction stories. As a huge sci-fi/fantasy nerd I would love a category where the weight gain is secondary to the plot abd we're all about weird fat space rangers or whatever.

But I'll take what I can get.

Highly recommend Lady Luck by Marlow on Dimensions! It's mostly a war/adventure story but there IS a compelling romance between the gaining female protagonist and the male lead.

That's a yes for him but a maybe in general. (We like to play with inflation and for that purpose he keeps his butt very clean. But I wouldn't trust just anyone to sit on my face; if I'm gonna eat ass it needs to be thoroughly prepared first. The weight/crushing aspect would be hot though.)

Female feeder here and I love getting squashed/the idea of my partner being able to drop his gut on my face and smother me with it. (He's not that fat yet but we're working on it!)

Love me a soft, sagging belly hang. So much fun to squeeze and play with, love the jiggle from a visual perspective, and your partner's flabby belly makes the perfect pillow.

I think I would wake up early and leave a plate of cookies by the bedside so you had something to snack on while I'm out, as I'm gonna eat a quick breakfast (eggs and toast or something) and then hit the weight room before you get a chance to wake up proper. (Gotta build some muscle if I'm gonna be helping a soon to be big fatty with daily tasks!) By the time I come back you've had your snack but you're ready for a proper breakfast in bed. I'll make pancakes, sausages, eggs, the works. And I've already eaten so I can focus all my energy on stuffing you to capacity.

Later on we can enjoy a slow leisurely walk to a nice clearing in the woods and have a picnic for lunch.

Then we'll go home and watch TV for a while. Whenever I feel like it I'll fix a snack and shove it in your mouth. You're getting so pretty and plump, but you could be so much fatter for me, couldn't you baby?

Dinner is an all out buffet night where I keep bringing you plates of your favorite delicious things that you can't resist until your belly is so stuffed you don't know how you're gonna make it back to the car.

But of course I'll help you darling.

Then we'll get home and I'll cuddle you lots while you drift into a blissful food coma.

Then wake up and do it all again.

I use Smart Balance in all my recipes that call for butter. It tastes the same but won't give me the runs. Coconut milk is also great for sauces and curries, especially if you want to experiment cooking Indian and Asian food. (Which is not the most fattening cuisine out there but sometimes you gotta get some variety just to keep things fun and interesting.)

Yooo if anyone is still watching this thread looking for fat/himbofication stories, if you don't mind male weight gain that plays with gender/feminization as well you should check out BIG by Katie-KTL-Lunalia on Deviantart!

Thanks! Another note about world building, that I forgot to mention in my first post: I've noticed lately an uptick in stories that feature a Western expatriate ending up in a country where fat is revered. I love the trope myself, but if you write in a specific country or region (the Middle East seems to come up a lot), be sure to do a lot of research so you don't accidentally write something racist. Or, go the way of The Sacred Ritual or The Stowaway: Marooned and make up your own country. (But if you're going to make up your own country, have a handful of natives as characters who aren't all the same! Otherwise you risk construing stereotypes you might subconsciously associate with a specific culture.)

How do you feel about stories where the feedee is already dumb before any conditioning? Because if you like that my story Served on here might appeal to you...