That's a yes for him but a maybe in general. (We like to play with inflation and for that purpose he keeps his butt very clean. But I wouldn't trust just anyone to sit on my face; if I'm gonna eat ass it needs to be thoroughly prepared first. The weight/crushing aspect would be hot though.)

Female feeder here and I love getting squashed/the idea of my partner being able to drop his gut on my face and smother me with it. (He's not that fat yet but we're working on it!)

Love me a soft, sagging belly hang. So much fun to squeeze and play with, love the jiggle from a visual perspective, and your partner's flabby belly makes the perfect pillow.

I think I would wake up early and leave a plate of cookies by the bedside so you had something to snack on while I'm out, as I'm gonna eat a quick breakfast (eggs and toast or something) and then hit the weight room before you get a chance to wake up proper. (Gotta build some muscle if I'm gonna be helping a soon to be big fatty with daily tasks!) By the time I come back you've had your snack but you're ready for a proper breakfast in bed. I'll make pancakes, sausages, eggs, the works. And I've already eaten so I can focus all my energy on stuffing you to capacity.

Later on we can enjoy a slow leisurely walk to a nice clearing in the woods and have a picnic for lunch.

Then we'll go home and watch TV for a while. Whenever I feel like it I'll fix a snack and shove it in your mouth. You're getting so pretty and plump, but you could be so much fatter for me, couldn't you baby?

Dinner is an all out buffet night where I keep bringing you plates of your favorite delicious things that you can't resist until your belly is so stuffed you don't know how you're gonna make it back to the car.

But of course I'll help you darling.

Then we'll get home and I'll cuddle you lots while you drift into a blissful food coma.

Then wake up and do it all again.

I use Smart Balance in all my recipes that call for butter. It tastes the same but won't give me the runs. Coconut milk is also great for sauces and curries, especially if you want to experiment cooking Indian and Asian food. (Which is not the most fattening cuisine out there but sometimes you gotta get some variety just to keep things fun and interesting.)

Yooo if anyone is still watching this thread looking for fat/himbofication stories, if you don't mind male weight gain that plays with gender/feminization as well you should check out BIG by Katie-KTL-Lunalia on Deviantart!

Thanks! Another note about world building, that I forgot to mention in my first post: I've noticed lately an uptick in stories that feature a Western expatriate ending up in a country where fat is revered. I love the trope myself, but if you write in a specific country or region (the Middle East seems to come up a lot), be sure to do a lot of research so you don't accidentally write something racist. Or, go the way of The Sacred Ritual or The Stowaway: Marooned and make up your own country. (But if you're going to make up your own country, have a handful of natives as characters who aren't all the same! Otherwise you risk construing stereotypes you might subconsciously associate with a specific culture.)

How do you feel about stories where the feedee is already dumb before any conditioning? Because if you like that my story Served on here might appeal to you...

Dropping some writing advice somewhat specific to feedism:

Develop your characters, develop your characters, develop your god damn characters. Unless you're writing a short vignette, they should have lives and personalities and individual voices. Maybe friends and a day job and hobbies. Can I read about a character being essentially a 500-pound dildo or fleshlight while their partner simps and thinks of nothing but their body? Maybe for 500 words. After that I get bored. Tell me who your characters are and why they want what they want!

Consider your characters and your audience. Are you writing solely for the seasoned feedist? Are your characters in an established feeder and feedee relationship? If so, feel free to use the lingo of the kink. Are you writing about beginning feedists? Maybe consider them learning the lingo together? Are you writing something you hope the civilians will enjoy too? Give them a little backstory, make them sympathize with the reasons the MC wants to be fat.

Dialogue is everything, both internal and spoken. Consider your MC's internal monologue and take into account their heritage, socioeconomic position, personality, sexuality, and neurotype, esp if working in first person but this can also apply to third-limited. Practice your dialogue out loud to see if it seems realistic with your character. Are they wordy, or minimalist? Are they more visual or tactile when it comes to stimulation? How do they view the world around them and how do they view their partner? Do they have any verbal or mental quirks? And how do they describe the sensation of fat? Is it more a casual pleasure, an accident, or a need?

Finally and this goes across the board for all stories: exclude extraneous detail. If you mention a gun in chapter 1 it had better go off before the end of the story. At the same time, don't leave out necessary detail. Don't write the Christian Grey of feedism; if you're going to introduce a billionaire feeder at least explain where this money is coming from, etc. Tie up your plot holes.

For more general writing advice I would highly recommend Jenna Moreci's channel on youtube.

Last night I got irresponsibly drunk (at home; not yet eligible for vaccination and not tryna catch covid at the clu and I ordered a fat suit. Yes, it was a drunk purchase, but I'm really excited for it to arrive. I feel a little weird, because I know fat people have been saying for ages that fat suits are shitty and if you want to learn about fatphobia just listen to fat people...but I'm not trying to conduct a """""social experiment""""" or anything. I literally just bought this thing to use in my own home because I have a fetish.