My boyfriend won’t admit that i’m getting pretty pudgy so…

HeyStranger17:
My boyfriend won’t admit that I’m getting pudgy and I tried to persuade him that acknowledging how fat I’m getting would be sexy to me, but he won’t believe me. I’m thinking of asking him to take me out for dinner so I can stuff myself silly and he will have to admit that I’m a porker. I wonder how many times it will take before he gives in…

Munchies:
So, any man with more than two braincells to rub together isn't going to call his gf, fiance, or wife fat. Won't even suggest it. They are are train from childhood to never, ever say that to a woman.

Part of it is to be polite. The other part is that they are warned it's a trap. Heck, you're bf may have personally experienced it before. I've seen obviously fat women tear there SO a new one for even hinting that they are anything less than slim and trim.

If you want you bf to call you fat, you need patience. It's not unlike befriending an abused rescue animal.


It depends. If it's a guy that has no ties to the BBW Syndicate, you're right in he's been trained to keep comments like that to himself.

Now if it's an FA, speaking from experience I love making comments like that and most FA men do too. If she's giving consent, I see no harm in singing "I got a big FAT girlfriendddd" lol
3 years

What is it you value (most) in a serious relationship?

Reflection of Perfection:
Wait, you mean the 42 year old with no pics and a giant run on sentence in his profile asking random strangers to take a bath with them isn't totally normal behavior?🤣

shadowddr:
sorry I dont write like William Shakespeare, like you, English is my second language, at least I'm trying my best, and to be honest Im ugly as hell and YOU PEOPLE DISCRIMINATE ME if I post a picture but if I dont you make fun of me, then what do I do?... I apologized and everything and you are still kicking my nuts, what do you want from me? you know what you can all GO FLY A KITE!!!

Reflection of Perfection:
Nadie te discrimina, cabron. Tienes que tratar mejor a las mujeres.

Munchies:
Lol, gottem


You're absolutely right though. Language barriers are no excuse to be creepy.
3 years

What is it you value (most) in a serious relationship?

Reflection of Perfection:
Wait, you mean the 42 year old with no pics and a giant run on sentence in his profile asking random strangers to take a bath with them isn't totally normal behavior?🤣

shadowddr:
sorry I dont write like William Shakespeare, like you, English is my second language, at least I'm trying my best, and to be honest Im ugly as hell and YOU PEOPLE DISCRIMINATE ME if I post a picture but if I dont you make fun of me, then what do I do?... I apologized and everything and you are still kicking my nuts, what do you want from me? you know what you can all GO FLY A KITE!!!


Nadie te discrimina, cabron. Tienes que tratar mejor a las mujeres.
3 years

What is it you value (most) in a serious relationship?

shadowddr:
Actually, hygiene is really important so... to be ure we both are clean, let's take a bath together "DOUBLEFROSTED"

doublefrosted:
I just want to make it clear that I find suggestions and propositions like this from complete strangers unappealing and, frankly, cringy. Please stop.

LuvsChub04:
in shadowddr profile in his about me, he sounds like a total creep


Wait, you mean the 42 year old with no pics and a giant run on sentence in his profile asking random strangers to take a bath with them isn't totally normal behavior?🤣
3 years

What is it you value (most) in a serious relationship?

shadowddr:
WOW ALL THAT?!?!?!?

doublefrosted:
Yes, all that. If I'm going to be in a serious, long term relationship with someone I shouldn't have to settle for anything less, and I won't.[/quote]

I'm guessing hygiene scares most of them off🤣
3 years

Daily "i'm fat" reminders

Rachhole:
Pulling my kitchen chair out before I start running dish water


Ah the old sitting down to do the dishes. I've seen that before :-)
3 years

Safe space for feedees--question

Horror Doll:
The next feabie?


Nah that wouldn't work. The same a-holes that are on that one will infest the next one.
3 years

If you could have just one wish

My wish....21 year old me making out with 21 year old Solei Moon Frye on the top of a red 1958 Plymouth Fury with Roy Orbison on the radio🤣
3 years

My 600 pound life tv show

To quote the great Damon Wayans...

"Hated it"
3 years