Weight talk

Shanebigbelly:
I want my belly so big I have you tube channel. I show my fat belly


Be careful. Youtube can flag your channel if you get too risque.
4 weeks

Gaining has become addictive

Sterlingdf:
I discovered Fantasy Feeder about 4 years ago and it changed my attitude about my weight. I weighed about 210 pounds with a 46 inch waist and wore a XL size shirt. Just for fun I thought I would try to get to 220 pounds. Took me a while to get to 220. I started thinking more about food and my weight gain diet and learned a lot from other gainers here.

Now, four years later I'm 40 pounds heavier with a 54 inch waist and just bought four new 3XL shirts. I have enjoyed watching my love handles go from zero to two inches deep on my sides with a belly apron six inches deep.

I just re-set my weight goal from my current weight of 250 pounds to go up to 265 pounds. I thought I would be happy at 250 pounds, but strangely, I am not. I have to admit I'm addicted to gaining weight. I love getting on the scale to see I've gained another pound. I would imagine there might be a point where I might be heavy enough, but I notice I am admiring more and more the pictures of men who are 400 pounds or more. (I used to just look 200 to 300 pounders.)

What's strange is that the extra weight I have put on has made me less mobile, unable to put on socks or clip my toenails and sometimes I get a little winded - but I actually enjoy those changes! To me these are not problems but proud signs of me getting fatter. To me, getting fatter has become an erotic accomplishment.

Has anyone else had a similar experience?

I would also welcome any encouragement as to how high I should set my weight goals or where I should consider leveling off, and, of course, any dietary changes that would help me gain (no high sugar diets, please.)


I'd say your experience is fairly common. There's something about seeing the changes in your body that gets people going.

I will say that if you want to keep the gain train going as long as possible, stay active. This is especially important with older people as you are more prone to weight related complications.
4 weeks

Weight talk

Shanebigbelly:
Do u belive u can't get my belly so big it hangs over my pants


Like as a general statement? I don't think that would be hard to achieve.
4 weeks

"hard fat"

Vidarr:
By belly fat is soft on the outermost part, but it's a bit harder when you go deeper when touching it.
Is there a way to soften it up so it becomes more soft and jiggly?

BigBallBellyGirl:
I'm pretty obese, and you don't get to be my size without some softness and jiggle, but I still have a surprisingly firm belly for someone super sized, as though some squish is stretched tightly over a giant ball. I've also noticed, during my most extreme gaining spurts, the weight has almost exclusively gone to my gut. During more gradual gaining periods, I've gotten softer. This may not be the case for everyone, but I truly do think there may be something to the rate of gain


We were talking about this very thing in another thread. I am not sure why, but people who gain rapidly often have concentrated gains. Obviously it's not every rapid gainer, and some people seem to be belly heavy no matter what. But it feels like there's something to rapid gains that encourages big pot bellies.
4 weeks

"hard fat"

Vidarr:
By belly fat is soft on the outermost part, but it's a bit harder when you go deeper when touching it.
Is there a way to soften it up so it becomes more soft and jiggly?


Exercise mixed with a high calorie diet. And make sure you eat a balanced diet too.
4 weeks

Why do most gainers don't seem to wear weight good?

Peckish09:
I really don't want to sound like I'm body shaming or causing body dysmorphia, but I've noticed that when I see some gainers posting their pictures, they don't seem very ... natural?

The most common might be them having one giant bulging belly but super skinny arms and legs. That can't be healthy, right?

But things are always different if the individual is already obese or overweight in their younger years, after their weight gain, their fat will always appear more like it's distribute evenly throughout their body.

Does this only have to do with genetics and adolescence (since your adipose tissue wouldn't change their numbers after you're around 20)?


When you pack on a lot of weight very quickly, it often kinda just ... concentrates. I am not sure why. I'll have to research it. But over time, the weight kinda ... settles and spreads.
4 weeks

Mukbang content: yay/nay?

Urchie:
Most mukbangs are just people eating, cutting the footage, spitting it out, and repeating. That or vomiting it up. If they're actually eating it all I say yay but otherwise nay


Not overly fond of mukbangs because eating noises, but I love the ones that actually gorge themselves silly and get fat.
4 weeks

How did you overcome your fears and concerns? advice for new feedee

CrazyCoconut:
Hi All.

When you first decided to start gaining and getting huge, how did you overcome your fears and concerns about getting huge? I'm just starting my gaining journey, hoping to become bedbound and spend the rest of my days eating. I'm struggling with completely letting go due to fears of being so huge, the obvious health issues that come with it, how family and friends and coworkers react to my increasing size. I'm also by myself so I have fears of becoming immobile alone.

How did you overcome those fears when you first started actively gaining? Especially as you got bigger?


Something to keep in mind is planning and reasonable goal setting. You also need to make peace with life happening.

If you're afraid of getting immobile alone, then you need to do two things. The first is figure out how fat are you comfortable getting by yourself. The second is finding a feeder that is enthusiastically supportive and will be your life partner.

Some fears and concerns are worth ignoring like people judging you for gaining weight. However, logistical concerns should be taken seriously and addressed.
4 weeks

Skin remedies

Bigwideland:
If you have folds for belly appron my experience is to not have clothes that get between skin folds. You will likely get rubbing and irritation. I wear pants over my belly
I wash will antibacterial soap, use antifugal creams weekly. Dry folds with a hair dryer. Keeps most issues in control. As the leg shafing it seems to be at a certain weight your legs rub now bigger they roll on each other more than slide. However I recall using fleximul tape to help.

Munchies:
What does the tape do? Are you using as a barrier? Is this like boob tape where you kinda ... pin things out of the way?

Bigwideland:
The tape is a skin friendly tape it's helped as the friction was tape of pants not skin on pants. This tape is also used under sports taped as a irrigation barrier.


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1 month

Losing weight to gain weight?

Voluptuouslover:
My wife recently lost weight I believe on some diet drug. She dropped around 15 pounds I would guess. Which at her height of 5’ 3” really shows up as quite a loss in my eyes.

I am really hoping she gains it back pretty quickly with this thought process on this link.

Does anyone know typical time frame the weight can creep back up eating normally again?


Hey man. Support your wife's choices. If she wants to lose weight, then be a man and stop waiting for her to regain it.

Love your wife in all her forms. Love her no matter what she weighs. Waiting for her to regain is not loving her. That is you being selfish and putting your wants over her bodily autonomy.

Be a better husband.
1 month