Angelgluttony:
SumoSized:
As someone who has a really fast metabolism that sounds like an absolute dream. I've probably gained 22 lbs in the last year, and it's not from a lack of trying. My body just physically doesn't want fat on it right now, so I've thought I'm eating 3-4k calories a day the weight just won't stick
Glitter Jelly:
We should trade bodies.
Honestly it sounds nicer than it is, being skinny is really the worst feeling. You just feel frail and cold all the time, like a light gust of wind could blow you over. And don't even get me started on food. You can eat and eat until you feel nauseous, but your body still feels hungry but full at the same time. Like you could be holding a piece of food in your hand your stomach desperately wants that bite, but your mouth will be damned if it lets you swallow it. It's just all around not a good time and I wouldn't recommend
6 months
Raven:
Sounds like you guys had an amazing time! Thanks for sharing with us, I've always wondered how traveling would be at that size. My wife and I are no where near that size yet, but if and when one of us does reach this size it's good to know there's accommodations. I wish you two nothing but the best and many happy years together!
BigBallBellyGirl:
Thank you so much!
Supersized travel is definitely possible. I used to fly more frequently but I was 350-375 then. This was my first time on a plane at anywhere close to this weight. It certainly requires a lot of planning, and I'm well aware there would be plenty of places that would be impossible because of inaccessibility.
The best piece of advice I could offer would be to make no assumptions and call ahead. In booking at the resort, we asked for a call from management at the actual property, which we got. I was very transparent about my needs, and the answers we got were accurate.
Additionally, i'd encourage a very large person traveling to understand, there will be some discomfort and inconvenience. Flying simply isn't comfortable, and aircraft bathrooms are impossible. In those cases, you plan accordingly and make the best of it
Good luck to you and your wife with wherever your gaining journeys lead. Don't let anyone make you think your adventures are automatically over as a big person. As long as you're mobile, you have options!
It honestly really sucks that the airline industry is so shitty, with how many people are plus sized nowadays you'd think there would be an incentive to have a section of seats for larger people.
But hey, I'm still glad y'all were able to make the most out of your honeymoon. It sounds like y'all had a wonderful time, and I hope more feedees on this site are able to take advantage of the travel advice you gave.
6 months
Bodyofwater:
I'm glad she likes her clothes! If she barely eats and is gaining weight anyway, she should probably get her thyroid checked.
Glitter Jelly:
I saw the endocrinologist last monday and he basically said that there is no clear endocrinogic cause to my sudden and fast WG. He said:
- he's "not impressed" (this is actually the words he used although I imagine he meant "not worried" ) with my prolactin levels even if it was less than 15 two years ago and have been rising since March of this year (27 --> 30 --> 33)
- I can't have hypothyroidism (even if I have most of the symptoms and my mom has it) because my TSH, T4 and T3 levels are normal
- the symptoms I've had my whole life are probably related to an excess of androgens (he mentioned PCOs but doesn't seem to want the investigate or treat my for that) that was "hidden" by the fact I took the contraceptive pill from the age of 14 to at least 25 and now that I'm not taking it the male hormones are once again dominating
- I'm probably premenopausal and my body has been producing more and more estrogen to stimulate ovulation (basically describing estrogen dominance) and "it's normal for women my age to gain weight around menopause"
- the cause of my WG is "in my head" even if lately this is the other way around (gaining back the weight I worked so hard to lose around 2015 is severely impacting my mental health to the point I have suicidal ideations)
- my metabolism is slow because I lost almost 100 lbs during my 2015 anorexia relapse and unless I restrict myself significantly I won't maintain because any caloric excess will be stored as fat (he doesn't seem to understand I can't control myself at night and binge unless my kitchen cabinets and fridge are locked)
He prescribed more blood tests (and a mineral bone density at my demand) because his main concern is my elevated PTH and low calcium which are most likely due to the lack of dairy products in my diet (I'm lactose intolerant).
My next appointment will be in February but my hopes there was going to be a fixable medical cause to my WG has evaporated.
I cried so much after the appointment, I feel like the only thing I can do to prevent becoming obese again is restricting my food intake more and bingeing less... I'm getting so desperate I'm considering purchasing diet pills, progesterone cream or thyroid extract online to see if that can help.
I'm not a medical professional so take my advice with a grain of salt, but Ive had people very close to me deal with a very similar issue and I don't want you to go through it too. You have to be very careful when it comes to restricting food intake. I think the last statistic I heard was when you're dieting you're supposed to eat 85% percent of whatever your bodies maintenance calories are. There's calculators online you can use to find that out but basically just how many calories your body burns in a day.
The issue that quite a few of my friends have fallen into is trying to decrease that by only eating small snacks each day instead of proper meals. This basically forces your body into emergency survival mode and it tries to hoard whatever calories it can as fat because it thinks you're starving and doesn't know when you're getting your next meal. All around it's not a great time because you'll feel like shit and you're body will refuse to lose weight.
Also I know it's cliche but try exercising more, you don't even have to do anything extreme just go on walks and light jogs. It'll help you burn some extra calories.
Also I would recommend talking to a therapist or counselor, we random strangers on the Internet can't give you perfect advice because I don't know your whole story. And a trained professional will be able to help you best. As this community proves, fat isn't an ugly thing and it doesn't have to be feared. You're allowed to be beautiful even if you're a few lbs over average. I'm not saying you have to intentionally start gaining like some of us, but you don't have to let it define you as a person
6 months
Angelgluttony:
Hiya. I am 23 years old, female and over 600 pounds. I’ve been gaining weight very rapidly lately, and I think I have to do with me having an increased slow metabolism. I could eat one sandwich and not feel full at all yet I have 2 pounds in the process of eating one sandwich. I think a lot of my weight gain recently has really come from eating food that has starch in it. Within the last two weeks alone, I have gained 22 pounds unintentionally. I’m not mad about the weight game but I’m wonder if there are any other feedees/foodies here who also have a slow metabolism as well. Some questions I have:
- Do you think that it’s a plus to have slow metabolism, while also being a feedee/foodie?
- Do you eat more than you normally do to increase your slow metabolism, so that you gain weight at a faster pace or do you stick to your regular routine?
As someone who has a really fast metabolism that sounds like an absolute dream. I've probably gained 22 lbs in the last year, and it's not from a lack of trying. My body just physically doesn't want fat on it right now, so I've thought I'm eating 3-4k calories a day the weight just won't stick
6 months
I'm the largest in my family by about 30 lbs. (Both my dad and stepdad are 190 and they're the only ones close to my weight). Honestly once I start to gain another 30-40 lbs or so I'll be double the weight of most of my family
6 months
Bending down to get anything at all, especially restocking shelves at my retail job, some of those suckers on the bottom shelf can be a pain restock. Especially when kids push the boxes all the way to the back.
6 months
1. Been fed IRL
No, but id like to
2. Ate myself to sleep
Not to sleep per se, but I like to eat something before bed
3. Had sex while being fed at the same time
No
4. Stolen food because I�m just a piggy
No but I usually take extra portions from the snacks at the break table from work
5. Been called a fat name in public
Not quite big enough yet
6. Had a stranger pat or poke my belly
No
7. Been fatter than my current weight
Nope I'm the biggest I've ever been
8. Ripped clothes or popped a button
Only because I was trying on old clothes
9. Broken furniture because of my weight
I've only broken old furniture, so it was probably just the age of the wood
10. Seen an actual pig and got turned on
Not really in to that
11. Fantasized about immobility
Who on here hasn't?
12. Ate until I threw up
No but I've gotten close
13. Got stuck somewhere because of my size
Not stuck, but I've gotten close
14. Posted nudes of myself online
No
15. Been fed online
No, but i'd like to some day
16. Been told I need to lose weight by a family member
Quite often
17. Had a partner who worshiped my fat
Not, worshipped but most people I've dated have had preference for bigger guys (just not in a feeder way(
18. Started rubbing my belly in public
No, I'm not really into public humiliation stuff
19. Been called a pig
No
20. Been weighed and measured by my partner
No
21. Been in a gaining competition with another gainer
No, but it sounds fun
6 months
Bodyofwater:
Going to the gym or for a hike/run/bike ride and having a fattening shake or two to drink while working out sounds really hot if the public aspect is okay with you.
Hey it's just resistance training, the more weight you gain the harder your heart has to work to pump blood, and the stronger your cardio will be
6 months
SumoSized:
For me, like most guys it's going straight to my belly but in the last few months a bit more of it has been going to my ass and thighs. Which is unexpected, but it feels really nice
Munchies:
Booty gains ftw!
Gonna be caked up for 2025.
That's what I'm hoping for, I still wish I was making progress faster but I'll take the little victories as they come
6 months
For me, like most guys it's going straight to my belly but in the last few months a bit more of it has been going to my ass and thighs. Which is unexpected, but it feels really nice
6 months
