I typically get into the food coma realm when I eat some really strong edibles and then I don't feel like I can get full because I get so relaxed that by the time I do get extremely full; all I end up doing is just waking up the next morning asleep at my couch having fallen asleep and I haven't even finished eating. Edibles are my food coma gateway
4 years
NYCBellyBlimp:
It's the connection. When you feel a bloat, or weighed down it is a trigger but when it's gone you're at square one unless the need comes or you see someone who brings that side out.
When you have a connection to food, its different as you do need to eat regardless. In some scenarios, food brings comfort, warm memories, joys of a past life, past love or experience.
It's a slippery slope as over time, like a documentary explained food is love, food is happiness, food is > than sex. Literally spend hours eating and feel inner peace, arousal, bliss.
Hard to fill the void if you feel the need to cut down for health or other reasons, hence slippery slope.
It is a slippery slope and it's easy to waddle down that slope especially when you get to that mindless aspect of this because the euphoria is too great. And in my situation, I know women who are into the sensual aspect of this life so they help me with the acceptance of it all and can be major influences because they totally gave into this love of food and they let the chips fall where they may. My connection now with food is as such that it is what I mostly think about when I am not preoccupied and I have to constantly keep myself from giving totally into the euphoria full time.
4 years
I am a pusher that eventually became a letting goer. It took my time to actually have to consistently push myself but after sometime it just became sort of mindless to the point my whole psychology to it changed because my inhibitions about our sort of just fell away to the point that I just gave into it and I only cared about what my next meal would be.
4 years
Now that I have found some denim joggers; I rarely wear the old types of jeans because I got tired of having to have my gut rest on the outside of the jeans and have it irritate my gut. Now, I can just wear the jeggings over everything and they finally come in 5X and 6X.
4 years
It takes time to get past this point. I always used to just eat until I got really full and then I would just get really sleepy and slowly but surely my eating capacity expanded. Sometimes we want to gain so much that we want to rush the process but the enjoyment for me was the slowness of the process and I enjoyed every roll that I grew from this slow process.
4 years
giantjay:
I have a condition (gynecomastia) which has resulted in large breasts when I gained. I normally wear binding undershirts to try and flatten them out and keep them in place. These would work better than a jogging bra, too, if their movement was a problem for you.
I have had this very same condition my entire life so I have always had bigger than average moobs and the fatter that I got; the pronounced they moved and I would wear compression shirts because I was self conscious of how they moved and I didn't want to get teased because of them but after years of women actually giving me compliments for them. I have now championed mine.
4 years
I have mostly only dated women who liked me obese and mutual gainers because they actually understood what comes with this life we choose. What one really has to do is to see back and enjoy the process of actually having found someone who enjoys it just as much as you do...
4 years
WideJuan76:Yeah. For me, it started happening as I got to four hundred pounds and it is startling at first because you actually see the whole process go down. Luckily, I had a female who showed me that there are other ways to please her especially with a woman who actually gets off to pleasing you.
amazingem:Oh there are lots of ways to have sex, it is never impossible. Where there is the will, there is a way!

It sounds like you had a pretty dramatic gain, just like my guy... do you mind me asking how big did you get? When your fupa outgrew your penis, could you still reach it at least?
I went from 232 at 6'3 to about 466 at might highest and I started out top heavy but as I got past four hundred was when the weight went to my bottom half. I have long arms so that wasn't an issue. It was just covered up at all times no matter what and that is a mind blower for a guy who never had that type of issue.
4 years
WideJuan76:
I didn't have a reference until I gained into the mid three hundreds and that is when the shrinkage came and was overwhelming because I didn't know how we would have sex but she taught me that some women feel pleased pleasing their men especially with a fupa so I know everything about this.
supergirl:
This is a very interesting topic. I love my fupa, but I can see it is different for guys.
You got to be very big, I think, yes? Did you ever get to the point your fupa covered your penis completely?
Yeah. For me, it started happening as I got to four hundred pounds and it is startling at first because you actually see the whole process go down. Luckily, I had a female who showed me that there are other ways to please her especially with a woman who actually gets off to pleasing you.
4 years
This is one of those things that no one ever spoke of about being obese that I faced full on while in my twenties. I had just graduated college and had an opportunity to start over with my then girlfriend who was way older than me so I didn't have a reference until I gained into the mid three hundreds and that is when the shrinkage came and was overwhelming because I didn't know how we would have sex but she taught me that some women feel pleased pleasing their men especially with a fupa so I know everything about this.
4 years