You know you're fat when:

Blubber belly:
You know you're fat when your belly gets wedged between two cars trying to exit your vehicle.



Seeing a woman's belly squished into the steering wheel is a big turn on. Watching her thighs jiggle as she works the pedals, another turn on. The best is when a BBW drives a stick shift vehicle, her arm fat jiggles in addition with every shift.

My wife is more bottom heavy and while her belly doesn't hit the wheel, many cars' seats and steering wheel can't adjust enough for her thighs to fit. Years ago I taught her to drive stick shift, which she mastered and I found sexy.

Ever since childhood I've had a thing for big girls and cars. It started with a BBW school bus driver. I would run to the bus after school and sit up front so I could watch her drive. She was really sweet and probably found it cute that I had a crush.

While I never saw a BBW stuck wedged in between two cars, if ever I did it would certainly be exciting, particularly if it was my car she parked next to and she needed my help to squeeze through.
3 years

Do you find the physical limitations of weight gain a turn on or a turn off?

Watching a big girl struggle as she does things as a result of her gluttony is a huge turn-on!

My wife's younger sister has put on >100 lbs (which she hates) over the last year. She's so spoiled. When she comes to visit, she barks orders and I fetch nearly everything for her. She absolutely loves this and even uses me as an example to make her bf (possible closet FA) cater to her! Granted I did a lot for her when she was slim as well, but it's even more satisfying now!

Recently she mentioned getting winded after a single flight of stairs. She used to be athletic, hates being fat, and has no concept of how one can love it despite her sister being bigger and heavier, comfortable with her size, and much stronger and more capable from regular exercise.
3 years

Fat people float?

SmokingSquish:
When in need of floatation device, just grab your closest fatty, lmao. 🤣😂😆


My wife has been my personal flotation device for years! I seem to sink no matter what but she floats naturally.
3 years

Any other girls who are into getting fat together with another girl?

This happens more than meets the eye. My wife is a BBW but not a feedee or even a big eater. She has a close friend, "hot" by society's definition, constantly trying to get her to eat, usually junk food. Their relationship is not sexual. I can only wonder the motive, if one even exists, or if subconsciously the friend just makes the assumption big girls must always want to eat?
3 years

Fat camp

CuriousAmy13:
How cool would it be if there was such a thing as a Fat Camp? Where you go there for two weeks during the summer and the point is to gain weight. How awesome would that be, and would you go?


Sounds a lot like a cruise vacation. The best part is you'll never see the same people again so there's no shame in overindulgence.
3 years

How many beers can you drink in a day?

Back in my youth I could put down a case if I started early enough. Nowadays I prefer reasonable amounts, usually 3-4 beers with and after dinner in the evening.
3 years

Anyone a smoker?

I have a friend who recently started smoking again after having quit for about 4-5 years. She's in a mid life crisis kind of situation and somewhat a hot mess but looks so sexy enjoying her cigarettes.

The smoking just fits her persona, it's hard to describe. She's still trying to mask it from her daughter and roommate, but it's just a matter of time until her clothes and car begin smelling of smoke.

My first girlfriend was a smoker. We enjoyed lighting up together, especially in the car. I eventually quit but she couldn't, despite me being the heavier smoker. That was years ago but to this day I still enjoy when a woman smokes.
3 years

Fattened in secret

That scenario is incredibly hot!

If I sensed a female coworker had a gluttonous appetite, or saw her disproportionately devouring food, I would definitely enable her by bringing in baked goods or other fattening foods pretty much on a daily basis.

Unfortunately throughout my life most of my female coworkers were doing the opposite - trying to stay slim.

It's been years since I worked in those settings, and the only women I know now who are gaining weight absolutely hate it.

They have no idea how I love what they did or are doing to their bodies and would probably be repulsed if they ever found out.

Wherever you find work, I hope there's someone that does just what you need to fulfill your fantasy. If we worked together, rest assured your clothes would soon be fitting really tight.
3 years

Anyone a smoker?

I gave up smoking nearly 20 years ago, but still find something incredibly hot about women who smoke. Maybe because society says it's wrong so it seems naughty, much like obesity.
3 years

Arbitrary goals besides weight? what are yours?

AskDrFeeder:
I'm not a feedee but I'll jump in anyway. I like functional goals, for example:

1) When you gain weight quickly and become a bit clumsier because you aren't used to your new weight and size, and start bumping into things with your hips and such.

2) I'm conflicted over people gaining so much that it's crippling--even if it's kind of hot I'd feel bad for you. But if it's a _bit_ of a struggle to get out of chairs or climb stairs or walk much faster than a waddle, if it's almost impossible to run, that's cute AF.

3) Appetite goals...if you used to have trouble finishing a cheeseburger with fries and now two quarter-pounder with cheese meals aren't enough, that's amazing.

4) Shamelessness--you used to be too shy to overeat in public. But now you love eating so much that you don't care, or at least don't let it slow you down.

Any one else have such goals?

Proud2bme:
I have definitely become more clumsy since the only way I gain is quickly. Attempting to get in the car while under the carport feels as if it could sell tickets and I am bumping into things I didn't before because my size still feels awkward and this belly goes out so far past my breasts if allowed when I obsessed over trying to keep it flat before.

I have know from the first time Saw the number creeping up that if I allowed myself immobility could become a very real issue if I allowed myself that. Not at all my desire. At the moment, my cardio has slowed so much I need the ac as low as possible to keep from needing a shower after my shower. I am exploring exercise options at the moment because I realize that could be a dangerous slope for me.

The shamelessness. This. In the past I have tried to hide my weight if I ordered what I wanted but most of the time avoiding ordering fattening foods because of what others would think. Now I can go through a drive thru and order more indulgent food than I would dare before with the whole belly out of my pants because I gained too much this week and they're just too damn tight sitting (shirt covering of course). Now i'm not self-conscious of strangers judging what I put in my mouth as I eat a healthy day's calories for breakfast. This has actually been a very real goal for a long time


I would love to see you squeezing into the car and settling in all squished behind the wheel.
3 years