J8o8h8n:
I was curious if anyone had any thoughts or advice for someone to deal with uncomfortable sensations associated with gaining weight and getting fat. I know for me one of the problems that definitely impacts me being able to get fat is that eating fattening foods and/or a lot of food can definitely cause some physical discomfort. Has anyone found a way, whether mentally or physical, to deal with the negative side effects of intentionally gaining weight, especially early on? And does it eventually get way easier and more physically comfortable, at least in the middle stages of gaining? (Obviously it'll probably get uncomfortable physically again once you start to get to the extreme end of the scale).

Munchies:
Is it because of what you are eating or how much you are eating?

J8o8h8n:
I mean, it can vary. If I eat healthier foods, I can get uncomfortably full and it stays that way for a while (and I don't want to eat again for quite a while which offsets any of the extra calories). When I eat more unhealthy foods, sometimes I'll get what I assume is a sugar rush (a bit lightheaded and an almost excited tingling sensation in my head) which isn't so bad and honestly kind of enjoyable. But, when I eat too much junk food at once or eat it too regularly, it can start to get the sensation of consistent acid reflux and/or it being a bit more difficult to breathe. It can also make it so make it so that my stomach feels a bit queasy and it makes it so that I don't want to eat for a while because I feel a bit queasy.

J8o8h8n:
I was curious if anyone had any thoughts or advice for someone to deal with uncomfortable sensations associated with gaining weight and getting fat. I know for me one of the problems that definitely impacts me being able to get fat is that eating fattening foods and/or a lot of food can definitely cause some physical discomfort. Has anyone found a way, whether mentally or physical, to deal with the negative side effects of intentionally gaining weight, especially early on? And does it eventually get way easier and more physically comfortable, at least in the middle stages of gaining? (Obviously it'll probably get uncomfortable physically again once you start to get to the extreme end of the scale).

Gayfeedee1:
I have been making my shakes by hand. Poor me i know. Using a pestal and mortar and some other stuff i hate how long it takes. What is the best brand of blender for making shakes im am from the uk.

Munchies:
Um ... sir, how does a pestal and mortar come into play?

Gayfeedee1:
ye its for crushing up oreos and biscuits is all

Gayfeedee1:
I have been making my shakes by hand. Poor me i know. Using a pestal and mortar and some other stuff i hate how long it takes. What is the best brand of blender for making shakes im am from the uk.

Bigwideland:
What do other do to manage this development.
Ss per pic, the skin is tight at the folds when I flex the foot up.

Munchies:
I'm no doctor, but that looks like lymphedema. Do you feel any pain?

Bigwideland:
I do not get any pain or any discomfort as such.

Bigwideland:
What do other do to manage this development.
Ss per pic, the skin is tight at the folds when I flex the foot up.

EzP:
Ah, Thank you! I have most of that other than the brownie mix so that won't be too expensive at all.

Newenglander:
I'm drawn to fat women. It's very much sexual for me. Just being in one's presence can be a tease in and of itself.

One acquaintance has gained about 150 lbs during the past four years, putting her close to 400. She isn't thrilled about it but doesn't do much to change. I doubt she's fully aware of this community or even fat fetishes in general.

Occasionally, when our paths cross and we're free, we'll make time to chat with one another and catch up. There have been occasions when we've spent hours together, then when I propose leaving, often she'll say something to keep the conversation going. Sometimes she'll do this over and over. Neither of us are single. I'll admit, I enjoy her attention probably as much as she enjoys my company.

Were she to realize and exploit my fetish, trouble could ensue. This girl's obesity would make her difficult to resist.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.

Munchies:
Feeder here.

It's not hard to find a quality feedee. If you are struggling to find someone who matches your needs, you will need to change your approach.

Tell me what exactly you are looking for and how you've handled the situation. I can give you advice if you like.

DarkChocolateDFF:
I'm looking for a equal realtionship where we both are a 50/50 couple or are able to maintain a long term- relationship, we both pay the bills, were communicating with each never alone, we satisfy each others needs, and then pretty much somewhere down the line grow old together 💖

DarkChocolateDFF:
I always had the assumption that FF or Feabie were supposed to be more of a dating platform than a bargain for money. It's as if the whole community even my feeder pals keep telling me they can't feed anyone and if I'm having any luck. We all live in NYC we have all been going to bars, cafes, buffets, events, concerts, trying to see if we will all ever have the chance of meeting other open-minded people like us & would wanna share the Feedism lifestyle together. But we are all having no luck at all we all just keep running into people asking for money or them telling us they don't have a more secure job. This is honestly crazy to us because the people we meet tell us they are financially stable and they make it sound as if life is great. But they still need a feeder to buy them food. This also brings me back to the point. It doesn't seem right that feeders have to pay for your food every day me my friends are ok with it but to me everyday living in NYC is crazy expensive. Then some people want feeding sessions they don't even do escorts if you research them I have never once seen some of the people on here's names. It's really just full of scams. My friends and I aren't going to stop trying but we are all planning on posting more about this topic.