Anyone who has WLS, is much more likely to die.

I would love to re-fatten all of the idiot celebrities who push Nutri-System and other worthless diets. Of course, when they regain the weight, they disappear. These are people like Kirstie, Valerie, Tony, etc. Especially Carnie because she was pushing deadly WLS. I wonder how many people died following her advice.

I was a fat kid. In summer camp, they had a pig calling contest for the final evening program, and the counselors picked me to be the pig. Then they found my parents would be there. They picked another pig, and I was upset.

Only time will tell. Go with it for now. Be prepared top break up if the relationship is not rewarding for both of you.

I have 8 cats, plus 2 strays

It is never a good idea for and FA to be with someone who does not like being big. Probably not a good idea for anyone to be with a someone who does not like being big. They are pretty miserable and hate themselves.

I thought a fetish was a sexual attraction to a non-human element. If so, then attraction to large people is not a fetish, nor can you have a non-sexual fetish since it is sexual by definition.

people should not gain for anyone but themselves. If you gain weight, you may not be able to lose it. If you want to spend your life as a BBW, that is great. But if it is not your thing, you shouldn't gain. It's a lifelong commitment with lifelong results.