According to the clothing manufactuers, BBW starts at size 14, so she is definitely a BBW.

Anyone who has WLS, is much more likely to die.

I would love to re-fatten all of the idiot celebrities who push Nutri-System and other worthless diets. Of course, when they regain the weight, they disappear. These are people like Kirstie, Valerie, Tony, etc. Especially Carnie because she was pushing deadly WLS. I wonder how many people died following her advice.

I was a fat kid. In summer camp, they had a pig calling contest for the final evening program, and the counselors picked me to be the pig. Then they found my parents would be there. They picked another pig, and I was upset.

Only time will tell. Go with it for now. Be prepared top break up if the relationship is not rewarding for both of you.

I have 8 cats, plus 2 strays

It is never a good idea for and FA to be with someone who does not like being big. Probably not a good idea for anyone to be with a someone who does not like being big. They are pretty miserable and hate themselves.