Lovelyxx:
Hey guys, I’m happy to report that my hubby has always been thin but since we got married a few months ago he has gained a few pounds.
He is not fat and he did not plan on gaining weight but it just happened. It’s so nice to see that happening, he’s getting comfortable ☺️
Has this happened to you too? Especially the ladies?


Ps. I have been cooking healthy meals so I suppose he has let loose a bit!

Curiousv:
As a FA, what is your favorite attitude in those who are gaining weight?

1. completely hating weight gain, trying desperately to become thin but failing, being miserable about it, comfort-eating, and inevitably getting fatter.

2. accepting that they will never become skinny, but trying to lose just a little bit of weight, not to become thin but just to be a little bit less obese. Occasional short and half-hearted diets here and there, which are not enough to stop the weight from continuing to pile up.

3. having accepted their fat bodies and being comfortable, just trying to maintain. Like, "OK, if I gain another few pounds I'll start a diet", but after it happens, pushing out the boundary again.

4. not wanting to gain per se, but loving food enough that they accept gaining as a consequence or as a price to be payed. They have no worries about it and they accept the weight gain, being confident with their bodies, but if they could eat more food while magically not gaining weight, they would choose so.

5. actually liking and enjoying the weight gain itself.

6. weight gain becoming the main drive, wanting to get as fat and as fast as possible.


What's it in fantasy, and what's it in reality?

For me, in reality I like 4 and 5 the most (if I had to order them from most to least favorite, it would be 5, 4, 3, 2, 6, 1), and in fantasy it's for someone to go through all the stages from 1 to 6.

Dan34:
Hey guys, I’ve previously been on here discussing my gfs weight gain and mobility issues, since then she has consistently been gaining a lot of weight! She then had a fall at work which saw he fracture her ankle very badly and essentially lose most remaining mobility, which in turn caused her to have to stay home, creating a lot more time to eat, and eat she did she basically constantly eats in between naps and doesn’t move around at all. Our house is on 2 floors and she no longer goes upstairs despite the fracture being healed. The doctor was extremely concerned about her weight and has said that if the ankle did need surgery he would not perform it at her weight. This only encouraged her to keep eating though!

Munchies:
Is this a "congrats" or an "oh no" situation for her?

Dan34:
She’s doesn’t seem to mind it, despite having to now exclusively work from home and only part time as she gets too exhausted from just sitting around and eating. It’s obviously very hot to watch but also concerning.

Kremebelly:
As a growing soft fat fatboi I notice that my gain is in my buns thighs hips and 😊 tits. I also feel super fem lately. I'm nervous. Is this normal or am I just femininity from weed

Morbidly A Beast:
It was only 40 or so pounds last I checked and the way I’ve been gorging myself lately I wouldn’t be surprised if I wasn’t over in the next few weeks haha

Johutt:
I'd love to talk about this with people who are experiencing the same thing!

M25 that often experience periods where my libido and fantasies are a lot more vivd than usual. This makes my weight gain fantasies go loco and I do everything in my power to gain weight, because I want results as rapid as possible. Then after three or so weeks this period ramps down I go back to a normal state of mind where I'm not so much in my own head thinking about what turns me on. Then, suddenly, my attempts to gain and my new pounds of fat feels rather horrible, and I want to go back to my normal eating habits and my normal weight.

It's been like this for many many years. It's honestly a bit exhausting. And it has nothing to do with my not feeling ready with getting fat, or fear of being judged. If I want to plump up I will.

Maybe this would stop if I was fat. Then I wouldn't have to worry about wanting to get back to normal bc fat would be my normal. The nicest thing would be if I could be fat and fit at the same time!

EzP:
I know the topic itself is usually sexual, but for me, I don't always feel sexual about it. My journey is part of me being comfortable with myself and enjoying the food and the journey. Sure I feel some sort of sexual gratification from it sometimes, but not all the time. That and I was thinking about having a relationship(which I probably will make a post about on another forum) that wasn't just sexual. Is that a completely different thing or is it part of feederism? I've only joined the community pretty recently, so I apologize if I may be wrong.

FitFeedee4Now:
Just realized you were not single, I was gonna ask too 😅

These are new discoveries to me, so I’m confident I’ll find someone to fit the bill eventually lol

Munchies:
It's all good. Not like you made a fool out of yourself or anything. So we straight

FitFeedee4Now:
Making a fool out of myself tends to be my specialty 🤣 I mean I’m talking openly about women penetrating me and making me obese simultaneously, maybe being the fool is my true weakness 😅

FitFeedee4Now:
Has anyone had any experience mixing some feedist fun with pegging fun before? I have a fantasy around this but I’m unsure if this is actually viable irl 😅

Munchies:
Sex + eating is usually a viable combination. If a woman can have penetrative sex while eating, you also can have penetrative sex while eating.

Wish you well on your pegging adventures!

FitFeedee4Now:
Sadly I’ve never done either combo so I was just curious if it was overtly messy and just worth doing separately 😅

Munchies:
It depends on how you go about it. You can eat neatly, but this also requires whoever is pegging you to be gentle so you don't spill.

Alternatively, you can get your back blown out and put a towel down to handle any messes.

FitFeedee4Now:
This definitely sounds like my kind of time either way, guess I’d leave it up to my feeder

Have you done this combo before?

Munchies:
Sadly, no. It is really hard to find straight men who are open to pegging.

Not for a lack of asking on my part.

It is what it is.

FitFeedee4Now:
Oh so pegging is like a passion of yours? Dang, I feel like I’m having the reverse problem 😂😅😭

Munchies:


FitFeedee4Now:
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Munchies:
Alas, we shall have to be two ships passing in the night. My relationship is closed, and I am happy to keep it that way.

But just because I've made my peace with being unable to peg my partner doesn't mean you can't find someone to peg you. I wish you well!

FitFeedee4Now:
Just realized you were not single, I was gonna ask too 😅

These are new discoveries to me, so I’m confident I’ll find someone to fit the bill eventually lol

FitFeedee4Now:
Has anyone had any experience mixing some feedist fun with pegging fun before? I have a fantasy around this but I’m unsure if this is actually viable irl 😅

Munchies:
Sex + eating is usually a viable combination. If a woman can have penetrative sex while eating, you also can have penetrative sex while eating.

Wish you well on your pegging adventures!

FitFeedee4Now:
Sadly I’ve never done either combo so I was just curious if it was overtly messy and just worth doing separately 😅

Munchies:
It depends on how you go about it. You can eat neatly, but this also requires whoever is pegging you to be gentle so you don't spill.

Alternatively, you can get your back blown out and put a towel down to handle any messes.

FitFeedee4Now:
This definitely sounds like my kind of time either way, guess I’d leave it up to my feeder

Have you done this combo before?

Munchies:
Sadly, no. It is really hard to find straight men who are open to pegging.

Not for a lack of asking on my part.

It is what it is.

FitFeedee4Now:
Oh so pegging is like a passion of yours? Dang, I feel like I’m having the reverse problem 😂😅😭

Munchies:


FitFeedee4Now:
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