Yeah, he's triggered, triggering. It's hilarious.

Babes, you were the one who specified you were talking about women. Don't be a silly billy just because someone called a spade a spade.

Findom didn't destroy dating. In fact, people who are interested in money first and foremost have always existed and will always exist.

You don't hear sane people talk about how prostitution killed dating. These women might be annoying, but the didn't kill dating.

The issue, is much broader than finances.

Fantasy feeder is not a dating site. Yes, you can find love here, but it's the same as finding love in any place that's not necessarily made to find love.

Let's take FF as a case study. There's a handful of ways to interact with people: forums, DMs, and chat (public amd private). You can gab all day in the forums, but the conversations are aren't happening in live time. And anyone can chime in.

That leaves the chat room and DMs. These are limited unless you are a paying member.

You can vibe in gen chat where everyone tends to be, but it's often dead. And when it's active, you might not find anyone you want to talk to. You could send a private chat, but you're limited to 15 chats a day sans the social upgrade package.

Men are more likely to message a woman first. Unfortunately, most women online are skittish. We are regularly bombarded with messages from vile people, so most of us are cautious as to who we interact with. The main exception to that are the women looking to earn a buck.

There's a similar story with DMs. You can send an unlimited number of DMs, but you can only open 5 in a rolling 24 hour period. So, unless yoi got the social upgrade package, you are going to be very choosy as to who you message. Unfortunately, your average woman is bombarded with messages from vile people, so we are very choosy who we talk to.

The exception to this are newbies who don't know better or women eager to make a buck.

Women who are only in it for the money did not replace women who are not. If you are struggling to find such a woman, the issue is a combination of patience and your approach.

I met my partner of two years on FF. He'd been on the site two years before me. Sure, he met women who wanted money from him. But you know what he did? Declined, wished them well and lived his best life. This was during the peak of the "Tik Tok" invasion.

So, no. These women aren't the reason why you can't find a girl.

I see a lot of posts on this site lamenting female feedees and gainers that don't have a fat kink. I am curious to know your thoughts on male feeders that don't have a fat fetish, but are looking for vulnerable women.

No need for that kind of language.

A feedee that gains for money is still a feedee. Do you honestly believe that all of the feedist models and other sex workers are into this kink? I promise you that some of them got into this for the money and nothing else. It's the same with any other kind of fetish out there.

Now, it is annoying to encounter entitled people who demand everyone that gives them money. But guess what? Some of those women are people that have a fat fetish.

The truth of the matter is that people get into fat fetish content for a lot of reasons. Usually, this person is already fat and is either fine with it or is struggling to lose the weight. Once they find out there's a community of people who think fat women are hot, they pop over.

So long as they aren't being an ass about it, who cares? Let them live. The end result for you is the same regardless of if she has the kink or not.

This term is known as "androgyny". In other words, there's a mix of masculine and feminine traits.

I don't see this desire very often from women and femmes. But I see it a lot with the cis male crowd. There are scores of forum posts talking about how much they love how more feminine the look. However, most of these aren't interested in becoming women or being more feminine in general.

This leads me to believe what they are more interested in is androgyny and not femininity. Indeed, once you get a certain size, it's harder to tell what gender you are unless you dress a certain way. It's a size mile marker for a lot of men.

Of course, there are men who have feminization kinks as well as fat kinks. This is an entirely different kettle of fish.

It comes down to how you plan to use it.

If you buy something you don't need/want just because of a deal, then I don't know what to tell you. But if were going to get it anyway, then get the BOGO deal.

Anyone who grew up poor knows that BOGO deals mean bonus meals. Just store it for later, and there you go. (Even fried foods can be good the next day if you warm it up in the oven instead of the microwave.)

If you are looking to save money on stuffings, then you can't go wrong with a BOGO deal. It's twice the calories for half the price!

Friendly reminder that you are 18 now. They can't make you do anything.

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