140 pound me got crushed by me at 440 plus, if that counts lol.
1 year
-bending over while sitting is pretty much impossible you simply have to much gut in the way to have your spine bend at such an angle.
-hot summer days are of particular concern, your shirts will be drenched even if doing minimal tasks. Also I’ve noticed as I’ve gotten fatter I tend to burn in the sun much more than before. Or do I just spend more time inside these days? Who’s to say.
- wave goodbye to doing anything fast. Especially putting on socks and shoes. Recommend a good pair of slip on shoes.
- you’re always hungry.
1 year
I know this might come off as cold and not what you want to hear, but like you gotta manage your expectations a bit. People don’t just pop out of the floor boards, and If you wanna be deeply obese you do it for you and not for some fantasy person you have in your head. There’s simply very few people who have this fetish, and even if they do it’s generally Men who Cherish and Admire Fat Women, which is awesome but like for Fat Men just like do you bro.
1 year
Munchies:
Sorry to hear that you encountered such poor bedside manner. That's not acceptable behavior from a doctor at all.
That said, I'm glad to hear you have such high esteem that her words didn't get to you.
I’m starting to understand some of the absolute horror stories I’ve heard from other fat bodied people in regards to their health care. Luckily this was like a chiropractor and not like an actual health care provider who’d I’d regularly see or anything like that. Otherwise I’d be calling up my insurance right the F now. But yeah, if someone was like just fat and got legit concerned by the comments made by that doctor I couldn’t even imagine.
1 year
Morbidly A Beast:
I had to take my shirt off in order for a doctor to get my blood pressure because the shirt was messing with the results, I got it off and she laughed at me and looked at my chest and she looked down at hers and she said i was “giving her a run for her money” meaning my moobs were bigger than her pretty large breasts on her skinny body. She asked some questions about my diet and how much exercise I get and if I had experienced any sudden changes in my body and when I said I had gained 100 pounds since august she audibility gasped and went on spiel about diet and exercise wanting to be fit etc then she asked if I was interested in seeing a dietician and I point blank said no so she went on this Lil thing about how I’m still young and that I am so handsome but my weight was jeprodizing it. I never felt so validated in my fatness and liberated for defending myself and offended at the same time. She tried to get me in for a sleep test but I was like nah. I really wanna shop around for fat accepting doctors if that’s a thing
Enas:
Oh im curious now, how close were you to legit describe to her what is feederism? Like, not necessarily say the word, maybe not even talk about it as a kink, but even just say something along the lines of "I know im fat and that's part of the plan"
Were you close to that? Or it didn't even cross your mind? 🤔
I think by saying im not interested in seeing a dietician pretty much said it all, that im happy with myself my body and my choices. But no it didn’t really cross my mind there’s a bit of a disconnect, maybe a layer of cognitive dissidence when it comes to my weight my size and talking about it, at least with “normies” Especially with a health care provider.
1 year
I had to take my shirt off in order for a doctor to get my blood pressure because the shirt was messing with the results, I got it off and she laughed at me and looked at my chest and she looked down at hers and she said i was “giving her a run for her money” meaning my moobs were bigger than her pretty large breasts on her skinny body. She asked some questions about my diet and how much exercise I get and if I had experienced any sudden changes in my body and when I said I had gained 100 pounds since august she audibility gasped and went on spiel about diet and exercise wanting to be fit etc then she asked if I was interested in seeing a dietician and I point blank said no so she went on this Lil thing about how I’m still young and that I am so handsome but my weight was jeprodizing it. I never felt so validated in my fatness and liberated for defending myself and offended at the same time. She tried to get me in for a sleep test but I was like nah. I really wanna shop around for fat accepting doctors if that’s a thing
1 year
If that’s what makes you happy and you enjoy eating it and you can consistently eat it without being sick then by all means enjoy and happy gains, but as a person who’s gained ALOT of weight that doesn’t sound very pleasant and isn’t necessary.
1 year
Somefeederguy1176:
Hey,
Been lurking on site for a while now but I'm not sure where to post this question so I'll put it in the general forum here. How many feedee's actually want immobillity.
When I was previosly on this site, I got a lot of messages from feedees with profiles that established that immobility was an end goal. I don't think I want that from a partner... Would you say that this accounts for the majority of members on this site?
I ask because despite what my profiles say, I do hope to participate in this kink when money is no longer as tight. Any and all feedback is helpful
-Somefeedeeguy
If a situation occurred in which a feedee could no longer complete everyday tasks and they were in a feedist relationship it would be on the feeder 100% to help the feedee.
1 year
I know that feeling all to well! We used to have old country buffets and Golden Corral and others now it’s all chinese food which has loads of sodium and msg which makes you feel extra meh after eating lots of. I like Chinese food don’t get me wrong, it’s just better in like a normal sized portion ironically.
1 year
I had been gradually putting on weight for years and attempting to diet and being successful for a while, hovering around the mid 200s only to gain more back until like last year when I had clocked in at my heaviest; upon looking at resources online to try and lose I found body positivity and fat acceptance which gave way to feedist blogs and stuff now here I am today over 400 lbs pushing 450 - iam hooked!
I cannot say prior to last year I had very many fattening thoughts on myself or others, but now I’ve kinda been exploring it a bit. I’ve learned all bodies are beautiful especially the fat ones. I enjoy fantasy stories etc
1 year
