Some people just can't gain. Others have a hard time starting, and once they get going, can't stop. Just eat what you like, and eat a lot of it.

Usually dieting will slow the metabolism and cause her to gain more. If she is one of the 3% who loses weight and keeps it off, then you will have some tough decisions to make.

Mental health professionals used to call gay people mentally ill, and their goal was to cure it.

You can always get clothes online. The types of clothes change from jeans to stretchies to roomy dresses for many women. You'll slow down a bit when you are walking, and more places will be harder to sit in. But you will look awesome!

I think a lot of people don't intend to gain much weight. But once they start, they love it and keep going, and gain faster

As an adult, no matter what the situation is, you have to let the people around you, especially your parents know that you are an adult, and any decisions you make, right or wrong, are yours to make. You have to let them know that you don't welcome their comments about the decisions they disagree with.