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I had a girlfriend in high school who had an "in your face for a reaction personality" which I dated for four years.

She would actually do the degrading and fat comments in private and public about herself.

she was quite short with a curvy pear figure and gained good amount's of weight on and off during our relationship. She knew I liked the thought of her gaining and how the weight looked on her figure. She has been the only relationship I have had where she was encouraging me to feed her because she knew I liked her to gain and she truley wanted to get fatter for me and tease me with it (In more ways than one). She would constantly have me encourage her to eat more and more and then ridicule herself and call herself names like fat, pig, and orca.

She always tried to embarass me in front of her friends and others by not only talking about her growing figure but actually put it out into the open that I liked it and wanted her fatter. I guess not only to see there reaction but to get me as well. I certainly would be embarassed but totally aroused as well. She constantly talked about food and ate agressively (almost moaning like) right in front of her friends at a party while I was standing there almost so they would bring something up, and she would then say "I am so hungry", and then ask me right there, "honey how much more weight do you want me to gain?" I would be so embarassed that it was so out in the open. Even though I was a pretty open FA at the time Having her friends know that I wanted her fatter and liked her gaining was pretty embarassing.

If her mother would comment while I was there about my girlfriends clothes fitting tighter kind of joking with her (Her mother was fat and jiggly for her height probably weighing 250 Lbs. with a total pear figure), she would point to me and say it's all his fault and then pull her shirt up or something and show all the newly acquired belly flesh by grabbing and jiggling it. She then would go into the kitchen where her mother was standing and start gorging on some fattening cookies and snacks all the while saying out loud in front of both of us, " I am going to be such a big fat pig soon" arn't you gonna love it honey." I would be totally embarassed but at the same time so totally turned on. Her mother would just smile and laugh a little almost as if she enjoyed the thought of her daughter getting fatter and she had obviously been informed by her daughter that it was very much to my liking that her daughter kept getting fatter. They had a great relationship, but I can't see any other mother/daughter relationship quite like there's. There were always times while the three of us were together when my girlfriend would start talking about fat right in front of her mother, she would make her mom feel her ever growing belly and or comment and squeeze her mom's belly, or even ask up front questions "how long do you think it will take me to get as fat as you" to her mom. Her mom would smile and say something like, not very long at the pace you have been going. I sometimes think back on it and and think not only was my girlfriend an FA and into weigtgain but I think her mom definitely was. At the time I thought she was being into it for me and having some fun with it, but now that I have had other longterm relationships it's kinda hard for the girl to always talk about fat and gaining all the time if they are not really into it. She had a full on curvy bikini figure at 16 that turned into the sexiest fattened soft pear shape bikini figure with an extra 35 Lbs.

I will never foreget the sexually/erotic yet embarassing at times pleasure she fulfilled for me during those years and expecially the summers. We went to school and lived almost an hour apart so during the year we would get together most weekends but during the summers we were in seperable and that's when she would really gain some weight. I can still invision her lying out in her bikini at her parents pool over summer struggling to try and finish off an entire pizza in the sun with me giving her encouragment and her describing how fat she is becoming and calling herself a fat pig and asking me how big did I want her to get by the end of summer.

Has anyone ever experienced a girlfriend or wife like this? One that is so up front about there gaining and or tries to enbarass you about the fetish?

Yes, some of my earliest memories of liking chubbier girls as early as elementary school, was ther chubbier faces and chubbier arms as well as there comparitively thicker all together bodies.

I have said it before that my appreciation, love and desire for more weight on the females I like has gone up every year as I have grown older in "Lump's I should say (rather fitting I guess)

But in Jr. high and for sure High school I can remember the scale and knowing a girls weight and especially weighing a girlfriend on a scale was an incredible turn on. For me it has not lost any of the same eroticism. I certainly agree more BBW videos should use the weighing on a scale in a very erotic flirtateous or surprised reaction way!

Only 10 Lbs. having them 3-4 times a week and over almost 3 months.

Is there any hope for fattening up my wife?
She loves desserts and is always snacking but I want her to gain a good amount of weight (30 - 50 Lbs.)

What other snacks should I buy for her to fatten up nicely?

Yelp,

I agree with the majority of the other posts, when my wife was at her heaviest we were having great sex all the time. It seemed that she could really "make love to me rather than me to her" if that makes sense. When she lost most of her weight the sex tappered off dramatically.

When she was much heavier I certainly could'nt keep my hands off of her, but not only in a sexual way, she was just that much more pleasing to touch (just holding her hand or my arm around her.) She seemed to be more affectionate as well and certainly more cuddly and softer not only in physique but personality.

Oh how I miss all those extra luscious Lbs.

I wish you were right, but we have been down this path before with no real gaining.
I just want her to really fatten up this time and be o.k. with it and live happily ever after!!!

My wife has started gaining again as of late. She tends to gain 10 lbs. or so on her 5" 3" already curvy frame and it really makes a nice soft visable/touchable differance then she slows down on eating or excercises more and those 10 lbs. take a good 2-3 months to go away. Nonetheless it makes me very depressed because I would love to see her keep gaining to much softer and heavier proportions. I would say she is around 145 lbs. usually now.

She gained a great deal of weight after having our three children back to back to back. She got up over 200 lbs. and slowly (much slower than I expected lost the weight) "I was in heaven" She was perfection: Long blonde hair, beautiful face, tan all over, with huge round hips, big round thighs, massive boobies, wide behind with a huge lower belly "fully pear shaped at this weight! it took almost three years and she still had a good 15 extra Lbs. than before she had our babies. She constanly tried to diet and excercise and the weight was barely coming off, her sweet's appetite got the best of her. She constantly would be snacking on fattening sweets and her workouts would barely put a dent to her calorie intake.

Well, in the last several months she has been steadily gaining, she has been working out a little less and seems to be eating more desserts and snacking and this has had a great effect on her weight. She is easily 15-20 lbs. heavier and all of her tight fitting low rider jeans barely fit, her belly and hips make the most incredible muffin top and she tries to conceal it with a baggier sweater top but you can still see all of the extra flesh underneath, it look's sooo incredible. I am just thinking she is going to try to start trying to lose weight being that we have a a vacation planned in the next couple of months to Mexico and she will be in a bikini quite a bit.

I have done this before and I am thinking it is quite necessary to stock the house with plenty of icecream, cookies and chocolates. I really want her to get back close to where she was a whileback as far as her figure/weight. The last time I furnished her with all of these fattening desserts she definitely ate everything in site and told me I was going to make her a "fat pig" again. She knows that I love her to gain weight and that I would love to see her absolutely fat again. She goes through trends or periods of time where she will keep eating and gaining and talk to me about how fat she is getting, even though she never gets that big anymore but this time I want it to stick and her to fatten up back th great proportions.

Most of the time she enjoy's eating and does'nt mind getting bigger but there is that 20% of the time where after she tries to fit into some outgrown clothes she gets disgusted with her new Lbs. I console her and tell her how much I love her and she is good for several more day's eating some fattening desserts until finally she starts dieting and that's when everything spirals negatively out of control. She complains of how I could like her so disgusting and fat and that she is going to get back to 130 lbs. and that is when I get very bummed out.

Hopefully she can eat be happy and get to 175 Lbs. or so and everything is one happy fulfigured world for us!

Gaining is unbelievable and Role playing is Hot, but a little (or a lot) of both is the best for me!

Also, sometimes something you see related to fat or out of shape because of recent weightgain (i.e. a differant walk or movement because of the extra weight, watching someone or your significant other getting dressed and them trying to squeeze into a pair of jeans they just recently bought and then taking them off because they no longer fit and having to put something else on, and One of my favorites is catching them sneeking some chocolates or food and they try to hide having a mouthfull when you come into the kitchen. Something so sexy to me is seeing my wife's appetite increase and her continuing to eat after she has cleared her plate and or continually snacking, (I guess I just know it will eventually lead to more fat curves on her body!)

What do you all think?

Throw out some real Role playing, or thing's such as these any of you have been involved in, or like to see that put's you over the edge or just is quite exciting.

Here are a couple of mine to start.....

1) My Ex girlfriend in High school and begining of college started gaining some good amount of weight due to over eating with me when I stayed with her all summer, she knew I loved it and kind of blammed her fattening figure on me (which was fine). She suddenly was kind of turned on by how I liked her fatter even though she never thought she would like it. She started teasing me all the time taht she was going to become so fat that none of her friends were going to recognize her after summer.

One night we decided to see how much she could eat seeing that her consumption of food was at an alltime high and she loved eating fattening foods all the time know, so we stuffed her to capacity and then more and then followed with huge portions of icecream (granted I was no expert feeder), but I felt I was helping her pretty good with large portions of caloric foods. At the point where she finished and went back for more three seperate times she decided she had enough. We rested for a bit admiring how big her belly got and then I told her to try on some sexy clothes that she recently has grown out of, it turned into a full blown fashion show consisting of jeans she struggled to even get past her thighs to skirts she could not squeeze over her hips to bikinis she was spilling out all over. It was a great time and she had as much fun as I did. For the record she went from 110 Lbs. at the begining of summer to 143 Lbs. at around Halloween time when she got weighed at a doctor's appt.

2) My wife who was not overly enthused about talking about weight gain or interested discussing it started changing slightly when she gained a good amount of weight after several pregnancies. She became a little more at ease with discussing her weight and she was kind of using it to seduce me.

One night after she dried off after her shower I was lying in bed, as if it was in slow motion, she was walking toward me naked she looked so gorgeous and beautifully fat, her massive widened hips were swaying from side to side, her fattened tan round thighs were rolling of one another with every step, her huge round breasts were bouncing and shaking, and her massive soft belly was jiggling rythmically from side to side and up and down in a hypmotizing fashion. When she climbed up in bed and sat on top of me all I could do is feel all her extra softness and weight and smell the most intoxicating aroma of soap all over her soft tan skin. She then leaned down and whispered in my ear "Your entranced smile makes me think you like what you see, which is good, because this big fat wife of your's does'nt seem like she is going to be able to lose any of this weight any time soon.