The most important meal of the day

Kacchan:
It's absolutely my favorite meal - there are SO many easy and yet delicious options with which to go full "food coma mode".

Pancakes
Waffles
Biscuits and gravy
Scones
Omelettes
French Toast
Sausage
Bacon
Cereals
Bagels with Cream Cheese
English Muffins
Donuts
Pastries
Oatmeal with some cinnamon sugar
Fruit cups
Melon
Fresh squeezed orange juice


OR.... ALL OF THE ABOVE


Ah yes. The going back to bed after waking up special.
8 months

Gf has a bmi of 58

Dan34:
My gf has been offered a weight loss injection and has been told she has to lose weight by her doctor due to how high her BMI is. I feel like she just needs to improve her mobility and workout a little bit but not lose weight can anyone offer any advice.


Honestly, Ozempic, Wegozy, and all the others aren't as helpful as many people imagine them to be.

Assuming your gf never experiences side effects, she can expect to lose 15% of her body fat over time. That's a decent amount if you are smaller, but it gets less impressive the fatter you are.

To be very clear, I am not anti-weight loss medication. I think that it has a place in health care. However, I would only use it as a last resort. I have worked in the healthcare industry for nearly a decade. I remember a time when Ozempic was only for severe type 2 diabetics.

It's a harsh drug often used as a Hail Mary when nothing else is helping you regulate your blood sugar. As such, I am side-eyeing doctors who keep pushing this medication when there are other safer options.

The weight loss situation depends on your girlfriend's health goals. Losing weight will improve her mobility, so it may need to be an option. This is not to say your girlfriend needs to get down to 120 lbs. However, it isn't uncommon for a feedee to lose weight to improve mobility so they can regain it later. It's hard to keep gaining weight if your body cannot handle it, so some feedees and gainers lose some weight so they can come back stronger.

I would have a discussion with your girlfriend to go over her options and see what she wants to do.
8 months

If you were going to a fa themed halloween party

Morbidly A Beast:
I’d just wear my old letter jacket that my belly hangs out of now and say I’m an jock (who got really really fat) it’s a medium I’m a 5xl


Could you even fit your arms through that? Because your arms are quite large.
8 months

Hometown hero

Wowthatsbig:
Hey I wonder if anyone can relate to this. I have a strong tie to my community and don't want to leave. Dating even outside of my fetish is hard because not a whole lot want to stay let alone move here.

At the end of the day, my roots are here and I care deeply for my neighbors and I don't want to leave them for work, love or a fetish.


Okay, I'll bite.

Why are you a hometown hero?
8 months

Do you like to be fat in public ?

Glitter Jelly:
Maybe you're right, but I need to wear large sometimes and I do have a belly roll between my waistband and breasts which is quite noticeable when I bend over or squat.

Even when I was thin, my thighs and arms would draw attention to the fact I once was much bigger because they didn't skrink so much as became empty and saggy. With my breast (I suspect because of the elevated prolactin), my legs and upper arms were the first place that the fat went back to.

At my thinnest (90 lbs), I almost had a thigh gap, but I'm not sure people could see it. I just felt my thighs weren't rubbing anymore. Now they seem to rub even more than when I was 40+ heavier, and they touch almost down to my knees.

This not only makes me look out of proportion, it changed the way I walk because they get in the way of one another, if that makes sense. I've seen someone describe this as thighs "rolling" against each other.

Because of this I can't walk as fast as just 20 lbs ago, which I didn't expect to happen that quick.

I bet my fat % is close to what it used to be because when I was obese I was carrying all that weight around all the time so you have to have muscle. When I lost half my year in a little more than a year, I lost a lot of muscle too and I didn't get most of it back as I hate exercise.

I have years of trauma related to PE classes that I need to address with a therapist before I can start moving a little. Otherwise I have to bully myself into doing it, and the inner talk isn't healthy to say the least. It's probably the ED voice because even I wouldn't talk to myself this harshly.

Munchies:
Yeah, this is definitely the trauma and the ED talking. I know you are having hormone issues. But there are a lot of people outside of this community who find women like you attractive.

This, of course, does not excuse the perv being gross and creepy.

Still, I strongly recommend you speak to a therapist. I wish you nothing but the best on your healing journey.

Glitter Jelly:
I was supposed to address this in therapy but when they subjected me to an "expert" evaluation (I'm on sick leave for burn-out and depressive symptoms), the original treatment plan went haywire when I started having more frequent suicidal ideas.

I still don't know what is going to happen. Waiting for that doctor's report, which will determine if I'm mentally sick enough to receive disability income, is definitely not helping my mental health.


Pain and suffering. I'm glad you are getting some help, even though things feel like a hot mess. Sometimes, progress can feel like chaos, but it is still progress.

I have noticed that you've been negatively hyper-fixating on your body image recently. Are you okay? Are you safe?
8 months

What is so alluring about stretch marks?

Glitter Jelly:
Sorry for the necro posting (I didn't even know it was a thing). I didn't mean to do anything wrong.


Necro posting is when someone revives a long, inactive thread. It's not, strictly speaking, wrong. Sometimes, it's in poor taste if there was a toxic back-and-forth that died down only for someone to make a post reviving the topic.

I have seen this multiple times. No one likes these people.

Sometimes, it's annoying if you revive an old topic with something off-topic. Or, more commonly on FF, horny posting on a personal ad.

Still, there can be benefits to necroposting. For example, there are some old threads on here that, if necro-ed, could generate useful or fun conversation.
8 months

What is so alluring about stretch marks?

Glitter Jelly:
And they also are a sign of how fast the weight gain happened, I think. Correct me if I'm wrong.

I'm not 100% sure, but I think I saw one on my ankle. 🙀

If so there are most likely other at other places... Lower back I bet, as I never was fat there (even at my heaviest).


Necro posting ftw!

But yes, if you grow faster than your skin can keep up, you get stretch marks. You get them as kids when you hit your growth spurt, if you put on a lot of muscle, if you've had extreme levels of fluid retention, or get pregnant.

You can minimize their formation by maintaining skin elasticity. Best way to do this is keeping your skin hydrated and adding collegen to your diet.

Keep in mind that skin care products with collegen are a rip off. Your body can only metabolise collegen via diet. Putting it on your skin does nothing.
8 months

Tillamook ice cream

Morbidly A Beast:
Tillamook is really good, I love their mint chocolate chip ice cream or cookies and cream, even just the plain vanilla bean is good. they also have really good cheese


Learning things!
8 months

Tillamook ice cream

Fatty Timmy:
My local supermarket has started to carry Tillamook ice cream. I was not familiar with it, possible because it is a west coast company (made in Oregon). Anyway, it caught my eye because on the container it says that it is made with more cream than the other guys. It did have a creamy, smooth taste. I do not know if my supermarket is going to continue to carry it, but I am hoping that they will.


That's interesting. I am only familiar with Tillamook jerky. Didn't know they didnice cream too.
8 months

If you were going to a fa themed halloween party

Fatty Timmy:
If you were going to a FA themed Halloween party, what would your costume be?

Mine would be Fat Bastard from the Austin Powers movies.

Munchies:
An FA themed costume party, hm?

Guess I am going as myself.

Kacchan:
I've never seen a photo of you before, Munchies, but in my head I picture you kind of like Garnet from Steven Universe.


This is ... not actually that far from the truth.
8 months