Question for vagina owners

MickRidem:
Thank you all for your help. I let her read these. She's been wearing men's boxer briefs, the sport kind that are moisture wicking but not cotton. (But they have a phone pocket! LOL!) She's been trying to go for more walks after dinner and it has been HOT out. She's going to try switching underwear and taking all y'all's advice. She is in touch with her doctor, who is ready to set her up with an OBGYN if things don't improve soon.

Much appreciated!! πŸ™πŸ€Ÿ


Good luck to her πŸ€œπŸΏπŸ€›πŸ»
8 months

Ordering nurtagain and testing

Reddoughpiggy:
On the fifth day quite sluggish and stomach a little upset. Lots of bloating, may suggest taking a digestive add.


Stuff like this is why I don't recommend using this stuff unless you really need it. And even then only for short-term use.

I remember when slim thick was all the rage, there were scores of women filming their weight gain journeys. A lot of them got their hands on various weight gain syrups.

Never lasted long or ended well due to all of the issues you are running into and then some. It's best to leave that shit to the medically underweight.
8 months

Tag spam in stories

Kryslin:
Is there a place to report tag spam in the story archive? About 2/3rds of the stories under Clothes padding are improperly tagged by their authors. Definitely in the free stories, I don't have the spare cash to check the premium stories.

While it may be a way to get extra readership, it's also deceptive.

Thank you.


I am once again pleading to have an exclude feature. It will cut down on stuff like this
8 months

Question for vagina owners

MickRidem:
I have a female friend who is too embarrassed to ask herself, so on her behalf I'll paraphrase her question:

"I hit my highest weight and wanted to bring it down a little. I started keto this summer. I've been finding my crotch having more burning sensations. I talked to my doctor and it's not a yeast infection. I did some research and I'm wondering if it's rubbing from being heavier and more sweat down there, or if the keto diet is changing my vaginal PH balance. Or both? Using Penaten to help, but this is awful. Does anyone else experience this?"

Any experience you might have had would be appreciated.

Snivvels:
My Mrs did loads of keto and never had any PH balance issues. The keto PH things is caused when you get a LOT of ketones in your blood and your PH goes way off - IIRC it's a life threatening thing, but you won't [/should't] get it from bog standard ketosis.


I think you're right that it's neither of those things. A change in her PH would lead to a UTI. Seeing as her crotch burns but there's no mention of it burning when she pees, I doubt it's that.

And seeing as she doesn't a yeast infection, I doubt it's her ketones. If her ketons are high enough to cause a burning sensation, then she'd have a yeast infection.

That said, Mick, has she talked to a OB/GYN or a dermatologist at all?
8 months

Stuffing vs inflating

Arame:
Feedies, what feels better? Being stuffed or being inflated?

Feeders, which belly feels better? A Stuffed belly or an inflated belly?


As a gainer turned feeder, it's stuffed bellies all the way.

When you stuff yourself, you eat a lot of food, maybe take a nap, and enjoy the fullness. You digest as normal and move on.

Meanwhile inflation doesn't last as long, deflating sucks, and sometimes you are burping and farting for longer than you thought if you get trapped gas.

As a feeder, stuffed bellies are amazing all the way. There's a heft to them that stuffed bellies lack. You can enjoy it for longer, and you can enjoy how it makes your feedee fatter.
8 months

Question for vagina owners

MickRidem:
I have a female friend who is too embarrassed to ask herself, so on her behalf I'll paraphrase her question:

"I hit my highest weight and wanted to bring it down a little. I started keto this summer. I've been finding my crotch having more burning sensations. I talked to my doctor and it's not a yeast infection. I did some research and I'm wondering if it's rubbing from being heavier and more sweat down there, or if the keto diet is changing my vaginal PH balance. Or both? Using Penaten to help, but this is awful. Does anyone else experience this?"

Any experience you might have had would be appreciated.


Sounds like she might have a wicked case of chub rub. I have thick thighs so I deal with this too.

It's kinda like rug burn, but it's skin on skin contact. It's even worse if you sweat because that just ups the friction.

Using penaten cream for now is a good idea. It will give the skin a chance to heal.

To reduce her risk of this happening again, she needs to keep that area clean and dry. Wear cotton underwear and moisture wicking garments when possible. Stay away from tight pants. There are also creams, powders, sticks, and more that she can look into as well.

Personally, I am a fan of bike shorts, loose pants, and billowy dresses.
8 months

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

Ditzy:
What is a Lil Nas X ?
A person, place or thing?


I mentioned very clearly in my post that Lil Nas X is a person, Ditzy. He's a black man who happens to be gay if you want to be more specific.

Please do not ask that question when someone brings up a marginalized person that you are not familiar with. It's extremely rude and unflattering. It's okay to ask who they are, but never what.
8 months

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

Ditzy:
My question is :
Why do you think you "owe" them an explanation?
Its really none of their business isn't it?
You wouldn't go around calling attention if one of them put on weight would you?

Seems these days people feel the need to "come out" about almost anything.
Are they searching for acceptance or something else?
I never understood that mind set I just did what I felt I needed to do for my reasons not someone else.
What I do is my business not friends or family.
If its a spouse then I can see it being a thing that needs to be talked about between the two.

I saw a lot of that when I worked part time at an LGBT center but never got a firm answer from any of the people.


I wouldn't compare the two tbh. The stakes are different. Besides, people's reasons for coming out are deeply personal, so there's no one answer.

Some people come out for acceptance or because they are tired of keeping parts of themselves hidden away. I've seen people come out to denounce their previous communities and show solidarity to others.

Some people come out because they didn't have a choice. I remember when Lil Nas X dropped Old Town Road, he was still in the closet. Then a bunch of people found some ancient tweets and started a campaign to destroy him for funsies. At that point, he had no choice but to come out.

Now compare this to feedism. You can be fat for any reason. You can't really do that with being gay or trans for example. Also, being LGBTQIA+ isn't a sexual practice. Heck, there are sex repulsed ace people that do not want to partake in sex or kink.

It's an apples and oranges kind of thing.
8 months

Should i gain right now or wait? 20m

Wantingtobeobese:
I am a 20M in college. I have been wanting to gain ever since I was 14, but I always struggled to do so as I have been scared of the reactions that would come from it and also how I would feel about it. I have tried gaining a few pounds to see how it like it and went from around 130 to 180 during covid. I really enjoyed this weight but since then, I have lost weight and have dropped back down to 165. I really want to be obese and definitely more with my major goal being morbidly obese. But I am still scared, I can't get past the horny urges even when bloating or stuffing myself. But I am still scared about gaining and how friends and family will react, and if it will be harder to find a relationship in college because of gaining weight. I really want a feeder to indulge but still want to be fit when I am not in a super horny mood(maybe a few hours a day) but as soon as I eat, I want to indulge even though I am not the biggest fan of food, or at least what I choose to eat. Does anyone have any advice? anything would help. Feel free to dm any advice as well


If you've already gained weight and then lost it out of fear, then you are not ready. You need to get to a point where others opinions about your body do not matter to you. Only then will you be ready.
9 months

Sadistic domme

Kacchan:
It sounds like the two of you were well matched.

So I think I get it a little more now - there can be a psychological pain/pleasure control in addition to a physical one?


I'd like to think we are seeing as he's the only feedee I've ever had that I brought home to meet the fam.

And yes, there can be a psychological aspect of it all. In fact, all D/S relationships have a psychological aspect. How much depends on the relationship and situation.
9 months