Munchies:
You really don't. There are two major aspects of gaining - physical and mental. Most people focus on the physical, but it's the mental aspect that gets ya.

You are looking to engage in spiteful gaining. That is the most dangerous kind of gaining because it clouds your judgement. You've already shown signs of it too.

You chugged a quart of heavy cream before your wife could throw it away.

You planned on consuming excessive amounts of heavy cream and maltodextrin in secret specifically because your wife doesn't approve.

How long before you start stuffing your face whenever you two start fighting? How long before you start engaging in reckless, rapid gains specifically because it will piss off your wife?

Next thing you know, getting fat is all you'll care about to the detriment of everyone and everything else in your life.

Ninjaturtle94:
I honestly never would have thought that a sexual thrill could turn into something like that. I’m really not looking to piss her off I’ve just wanted to try it for a long time and if I do it and get it over with I can at least have the closure of trying it and then maybe I won’t want to do it again. Then I can just kinda lurk and see other
People do it

Belly Pot Pie:
Even if it was because of the war it’s not really prosecutable lol. War makes people sad and stressed. Sad and stressed people overeat.
Should be so easy to get out of that.

Munchies:
Okay, but how familiar are you with korean law? Or the laws of any country with mandatory conscription laws?

I can assure you that it is extremely prosecutorial in these countries. Especially since, you know, they did convict the guy. The issue wasn't that he was fat. The issue was that he got fat to avoid service.

Belly Pot Pie:
I’m familiar with US law to some extent and they have mandatory conscription laws.
I agree that it’s not surprising that it’s against the law to do that to avoid service. What I am surprised by is that they were able to prove intent.
That would be very difficult to do, unless he straight up confessed that as being the reason, which, if he did… was kind of stupid I guess.

Ninjaturtle94:
Also, when she read a post on Reddit about it she found a post of a girl saying her bf wanted to gain like 50 pounds or so and everyone was saying he was lying and that was just the start and told her he’s weird and to run.

My wife claims she hasn’t noticed me gain any weight. I have a muscular frame so maybe that helps idk.

Munchies:
Take Reddit advise with a grain of salt. Sometimes it's good. Sometimes it's bad. But it doesn't sound like you two have had a proper heart to heart. Like actually listening to each other and communicating effectively.

Ninjaturtle94:
We talked for a while last night but like you said I’m not sure how effective it was. She basically said no and there is no compromise. I don’t think that I would have a problem stopping once I start. But I’ve also never done it at this level before.

I exercise 4x a week and eat pretty healthy and get regular labs done. I feel like trying it out for December really isn’t that big of a deal but maybe I don’t fully grasp what I could be getting in to

Belly Pot Pie:
Even if it was because of the war it’s not really prosecutable lol. War makes people sad and stressed. Sad and stressed people overeat.
Should be so easy to get out of that.

Ninjaturtle94:
Also, when she read a post on Reddit about it she found a post of a girl saying her bf wanted to gain like 50 pounds or so and everyone was saying he was lying and that was just the start and told her he’s weird and to run.

My wife claims she hasn’t noticed me gain any weight. I have a muscular frame so maybe that helps idk.

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?

Munchies:
Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.

Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.

Highway:
I can understand the difficulty when your wife condemns your wanting to gain. It seems as though your already fairly big so I'm curious if your wife fought you on your weight gain to this point. If she hasn't, then perhaps she likes the bigger you but social norms triggered her condemnation when you discussed with her. It is the perfect time of year to indulge anyway. You could probably gain 10 pounds between now and New Years without having to chug cream or maltodextrin. Test her reaction to just gaining some "holiday weight" I'm sure it would be more fun to gain with your wife's support, possibly chugging cream was a little bit much for her right now, but who knows, she might enjoy a few extra pounds you just put on by enjoying calorie rich food. This time of year gives you a great excuse, almost everyone gains weight this time of year.

Ninjaturtle94:
One thing that scared her is that she thinks I’d like the feeling of gaining weight too much and not want to stop. She said she read about it and thinks I could get addicted to feeling myself get bigger.

HectorBalloon:
Heard about some guy doing this in South Korea - got obese to avoid conscription. He was somehow found out and got arrested and punished.

Belly Pot Pie:
How could they prove that was the reason? And why wouldn’t he just make something up like I’m eating because I want to because I’m sad or some shit? Lol.

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?

Munchies:
Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.

Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.

Highway:
I can understand the difficulty when your wife condemns your wanting to gain. It seems as though your already fairly big so I'm curious if your wife fought you on your weight gain to this point. If she hasn't, then perhaps she likes the bigger you but social norms triggered her condemnation when you discussed with her. It is the perfect time of year to indulge anyway. You could probably gain 10 pounds between now and New Years without having to chug cream or maltodextrin. Test her reaction to just gaining some "holiday weight" I'm sure it would be more fun to gain with your wife's support, possibly chugging cream was a little bit much for her right now, but who knows, she might enjoy a few extra pounds you just put on by enjoying calorie rich food. This time of year gives you a great excuse, almost everyone gains weight this time of year.

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?

Munchies:
Hospital

This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.

How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.

What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.

Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.

Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.

Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.

She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?