allow yourself indulge, and as you do so your appetite will increase then indulge that appetite which will increase your capacity. Keep in mind that consistency will give longer and stronger results, it’s a marathon not a sprint.
Also keep hydrated and make sure you’re getting enough nutrients, I drink like a gallon of water a day and take a multivitamin
2 years
JN_TumLover56:
Hey fellas, I didn’t mean to make everyone upset. And I’m sorry for making everyone triggered about what I said. But at the same time it kinda did made be now more aware that I can’t always go with the wind. 👍
I know that I am better than this and I will try to do what I can in supporting and defending plus size people. After all I do still believe in body positivity/liberation after all.
That’s big of you and I get it. I’d just remember that the people who you find attractive have to live in their bodies everyday and what seems like nothing to you is a pretty sizable part of their self image. I don’t think you would abandon your SO in the face of ridicule it’s just that I don’t see an effective difference in shying away from fat positivity and advocacy in online spaces, and abandoning an SO in the same sense.
2 years
For men a well groomed beard might help mitigate some of it. I’m not sure how women can. I’m a bit sensitive about having a chubby face so I get it, it’s just one of those things you kinda gotta learn to accept about yourself.
2 years
JN_TumLover56:
Well I am a content creator myself. And if some people find out that I’m into plus size women then I might try to find a way to pretty much use my platform for saying that I am what I am attracted and find beauty towards.
But when it comes to the whole fetish thing it will more than likely ruin my reputation. Especially since the whole body positivity/liberation is no longer relevant than what it used to be, and there’s literally so much hatred (and health concern-like-talking-down) everywhere you go on social media when you find any content related to BoPo. So sadly I wouldn’t want to go through that hell of people accusing me of “destroying people’s lives/health”.
Unless if one day the modern or future culture finally gets some peace towards diversity and equality. I sadly don’t want to put myself in jeopardy when the online world (outside of this site) now thinks plus size is wrong.
Damn this dude wouldn’t defend his Fat so if they were being ridiculed in public for their weight
2 years
I’m trying to understand what you mean by protruding like how fat was I when my belly started hanging even when laying down or? 200? Def by 250 I’d say it happened as soon as I got belly fat, it just got more noticeable as I got bigger
2 years
tfw your head gains start fillin in your hats better
2 years
My favorites are underwear/boxers/anything meant to be a bit loose fitting and coats
2 years
It’s a common troupe of a main character getting fat, think fat Thor, or like Ben Stiller at the end of dodgeball (gross depiction of weight gain imo) so I’d like to see a weight gain in film where it wasn’t seen like a “oh you were here now you fell off” type of thing more of a “Im showing the fruits of success” or “im happier now” it doesn’t even need to be a vocal point of the film or anything, or maybe it can be like how in bojack horseman Diane gains weight after overcoming trauma depression and ed and it’s a positive thing
2 years
Munchies:
Being a woman is very hard in online feedist spaces. Female FAs and feeders have a unique challenge because so many feedists see being an FA or a feeder as a masculine thing and being a feedee as a feminine thing.
I am not saying this to say that female FAs and feeders have it worse than female feedees. God knows the kind of abuse I've seen them go through. I'm simply saying that we have different struggles.
I have lost count for the number of men who cannot believe a woman can be anything but a feedee. Some of them have tried their hardest to "convert" me to become one because "that's what women do". They have threatened, harrassed, and attempted to manipulate me just because I don't fit into their weird gender expectations.
I know why they think that way. When online feedist spaces first started, nearly all feeders and FAs were men and nearly all feedees were women. Even though times have changed, some things still linger.
Think about it. Why are men FAs and not MFAs? Why do some people think it's weird if a woman refers to herself as an FA and not an FFA? We've made great strides as a community, but we still have a ways to go.
Most female FAs and feeders are not crazy. If they don't feel welcome, they will leave. I don't blame them. Hell, some days I feel like I'm still here out of spite and not a desire to be around like minded people.
DMVGrower:
You know, that is sort of interesting if you think about it. Considering how the idea of a woman "fattening up her man" whether out of desire or to keep other women off him, or because she likes cooking for him is such a common thing. And even our collective folk tales feature men being the ones who get fat, like Hansel and Gretel.
Do you understand that she and other women here were expressing how they don’t feel safe and comfortable talking to men because of the constant fetishization and sexualization that goes on, even after they have expressed they have no interest in it? Seems like you missed it.
2 years
J8o8h8n:
Eating a "2 can dine" from Popeye's and only feeling a bit overstuffed has me realizing that I'm getting pretty close to eating food meant for two people as my typical meal. If I keep doing that, I'll probably end up the size of two people 😅.
Just wait tell you eat for 4 or 6 😂
2 years
