It takes a lot of hard work and will to lose weight unless you’re super active in which case weight just falls off and you can’t keep it on. Also once you get the taste of gluttony and you allow yourself to indulge it’s really hard to limit your intake.
If she’s serious in her attempts to lose weight you need to support her in her goals, and not attempt to keep her fat. It’s not fun to be fat when you don’t want to be fat.
2 years
J8o8h8n:
Would it potentially be a good idea to buy a couple sets of clothes a couple sizes too big so that I would have them to grow into?
I went for stretch pants during Covid and never went back, I’d say it depends really. Don’t underestimate small clothes get bigger size if it’s not to tenty
2 years
I think it’s mostly based on appearance and how people hold their weight but generally I’d say ssbbw and ssbhm would be some of the biggest people you’ve ever seen in your entire life, irl. It really all depends.
2 years
He could be eating in secret and he’s to embarrassed to say he’s eating more, while at the same time trying and struggling to lose weight. It’s tough when your fighting yourself and your body, just assure him you like him no matter what
2 years
Def nice to put down a few extra calories but there not super pleasant to eat and drink I found, I’d rather just eat more
2 years
Noi:
They prob don't think of ya, most ppl just tune out while at the gym, so have no fear of judgement 😌
Very true. If anything they’d be inspired that you’re trying.
2 years
Yeah I’m starting to come to this realization. I’ve been losing weight and I can’t keep it on no matter how much I’m eating but I’m really diggin my body right now. Also when you lose serious amounts of weight you look doughier lol
2 years
Munchies:
Meanwhile, kink negotiations center the person and not the kink. It makes for a more mutually satisfying outcome.
Morbidly A Beast:
There’s a lot of people still out there who have no concept of kink and fetishes. Like me for an example prior to getting into this I really had no idea, and to be frank I still don’t. Are we as “kinksters” forever at a advantage over others in that regard?
Munchies:
Those who know more about a kink - even if it's just that the kink exists - have an advantage over outsiders. As such, we have the ability to greatly influence how a non-feedist partner practices feedism. And that goes for any kink.
Of course, that influence will be there no matter what. But a good partner will do whatever it takes to give their partner agency as they figure out their boundaries and interests.
I've noticed in the forums that whenever a feedist (usually a feeder) brings their non-feedist partner into the kink, the ones that ensure their partner's agency tend to work out better long term than those that don't.
Interesting and noted. Do you think I need to express to a potential non-feedist partner that this isn’t my “final form” so to speak?
2 years
I’ve been thinking about this and I cannot think of anything in particular.
Other than silly stuff like you make my dreams come true by Hall and Oates which frankly has been done to death in a lot of montages..
I’m stumped!
2 years
But the 3rd is about the rise of Napoleon 🤓
2 years
